In this issue:


  • Leadership Discernment Gathering
  • All Saints and All Souls Day
  • Sister Cathleen Real Scholarship
  • Fall Flora Retreat
  • November Conversations in Faith Podcast
  • Latest issue of Down to Humus newsletter
  • Upcoming retreats at OLPR
 
 

Listening to the Spirit, Together in Discernment

This week, Sisters of the Humility of Mary are gathering at Humility of Mary Center for a Leadership Discernment Gathering. It is a special time for sisters to reconnect—some in person and others through Zoom—sharing prayer, conversation and laughter across the miles. During this time of reflection and dialogue, they seek the guidance of the Holy Spirit as they make important decisions about the future direction of their congregation. Please keep the CHMs in your prayers as they listen deeply, discern faithfully, and continue to live their mission of humility, service and care for all creation.


PHOTOS—(Top row) CHMs participate in person and on Zoom during the discernment gathering; Sisters Mary Penelope Wink and Caridad Inda engage in table discussion; (Bottom row) Sister Justine Denning is greeted by "Pope Leo" as she arrives for the gathering; (L-R) Sisters Lynn Mousel, Rosie Restelli and Rae Elwood wait for the presentation to begin.

Remembering our

loved ones in prayer


Throughout the month of November, the Sisters of the Humility of Mary remember in prayer all who have gone before us in faith. The Book of Eternal Life—which will be presented in the Magnificat Chapel at the Humility of Mary Center during a prayer service on October 31—holds the names of loved ones entrusted to our care.


Many friends responded to our recent mailing by sharing names for inclusion, and Sisters continue to lift them up in daily prayer and quiet reflection. Remembering family and friends in prayer keeps them alive in our hearts and helps them in their journey to God. All Saints’ Day and All Souls’ Day remind us to pause in gratitude for the goodness our departed loved ones brought into our lives before being called home to God.


If you would like to add the name of a departed loved one to the Book of Eternal Life, please leave a comment below or contact the Communications and Development Office at 563-336-8401 or email jbieber@chmiowa.org. The Sisters of the Humility of Mary are honored to pray for your intentions at any time of the year.


PHOTO—Sister Irene Muñoz reads the names of the departed listed in CHM's Book of Eternal Life.


Sr. Cathleen Real is a Gracious Leader with a Lasting Legacy

Each year, Sister Cathleen Real receives a stack of thank-you letters from students who have been awarded a scholarship established in her honor at Siena Heights University. It’s something she cherishes deeply—because education has always been at the heart of her life’s work. The students’ words remind her that her commitment to higher education continues to touch lives more than three decades after her presidency.

 

The Sister Cathleen Real Scholarship, created in 1994 through the generosity of the Herrick Foundation, honors her service as the sixth president of Siena Heights University from 1984 to 1993. The endowed fund assists women with high financial need, covering about half the cost of tuition and books each year. As Kate Hamilton, Vice President for Advancement and Alumni Relations, explains, “This scholarship recognizes Sister Cathleen’s outstanding leadership, vision, and tireless dedication to the growth and mission of Siena Heights. Through this lasting gift, her legacy of faith, service, and commitment to students continues to enrich the lives of all who call Siena Heights home.”

 

Sister Cathleen is remembered at Siena Heights as a benevolent and forward-thinking leader. Fred Smith, who served as head basketball coach and athletic director during her tenure, recalls her with admiration. “She is a wonderful lady and was a generous person to work for,” he said. “In my position, I got to know her well because she was actively involved. She came down to the NAIA tournament when we were playing and took an interest in the NAIA as an organization—eventually taking a national leadership role.” He says that at a time when few university presidents engaged directly in athletics, Sister Cathleen stood out. “She really wanted young people to not only do well, but to enjoy the sports they were playing and the college experience,” Smith added. “I would call her a gracious leader who was thoughtful when she spoke and well respected. She was not only Siena Heights president, but also a friend to me and my family and others.”

 

Reflecting on the letters she receives each year, Sister Cathleen says, “It is always heartwarming to hear from students utilizing the scholarship.” Her enduring influence continues to inspire generations at Siena Heights.


PHOTO—Sister Cathleen Real, alongside CHM Archivist Amy Yuncker-McCoy (left), reads notes of gratitude from recipients of the scholarship given in her honor.

 

Blooming with Knowledge: The Fall Flora Retreat


by Kurt Kreiter, OLPR staff


In the fall of 1986, I was introduced to the course “Fall Flora” when I was scrambling to earn 3 more college credits. Fortunately, Augustana (IL) Biology Professor, Dr. Bohdan Dziadyk developed this class for me so I would be able to graduate on time. For the first time, I was introduced to flowers that bloomed in the fall as well as Iowa prairies. Two items that had escaped my senses in life, even though I had spent a great deal of time in the outdoors. I would have never suspected that I might develop an interest in knowing anything about them, let alone sharing that knowledge and the beauty with others. But from his mentorship and a few others along the way, I developed a real interest in that aspect of biology and knew I wanted to share that beauty with others. 


When Todd Seifert, the Property and Operations Manager at Our Lady of the Prairie and Lori Freudenberg, the Programming Coordinator approached me regarding hosting a +60 group as an OLPR retreat for a “Fall Flora” presentation, I gladly accepted the challenge and worked at reacquainting myself with the flowers and grasses that are in bloom this time of year around our retreat center. I am certainly not an expert when it comes to fall flora, but as our Land Steward at OLPR, and a still possessing a passion for lifelong learning, I was pretty confident I could put together a meaningful presentation. I was though, a bit concerned that Dr. Dziadyk might somehow end up in the audience. Lori worked out the date, time and logistics with Mrs. Connie Mangler from the +60 group and we were set to go. Sometime before the event, we were informed that it would be a large group of about 30 in attendance! More pressure!! 


The day of the event turned out to be a beautiful fall day. Temperatures were good and although a bit overcast, it was near perfect for a walk at The Prairie. A few days prior, my co-worker, Matt Rissler had helped me locate some species of interest that were in bloom and plant some flags along our anticipated route, so I could make sure to point those out to our guest. The plants included White Snakeroot, New England Aster, Hairy Aster, Pinnate Prairie Coneflower, Cup Plant, Common Evening-Primrose and Partridge Pea to name a few. 


The day started with the arrival of our guest for some breakfast snacks and coffee that had been prepared by our incredible kitchen staff, Carena Weih and Olena Hedzhymanova. More about their incredible contributions later. Matt is a man of many talents and has previously made several jams and jellies from the blackberries and plums growing wild on the property, as well as grapes from our garden. Those were available for our guest as well, along with some homemade bread he had made the night before. 


After a tremendous and heartwarming welcome from Maria Casad, who resides at OLPR in the Victorian House and serves in Guest Services, I took the reins and began my presentation. After 25 years as a high school classroom biology teacher, I was not intimidated by the presentation and was really excited to share my love of the prairie with them. In preparation for the event, I had recently spent some time reading a book that was made available through the OLPR library titled “The Tallgrass Prairie: An Introduction” by Cindy Crosby. If you have any interest in learning about prairie basics, this is the book! It is wonderfully written and understandable to everyone, touching on both the ecological aspects of a prairie and its unique aesthetic qualities, which are hard to overlook. Not every presentation I have ever given has had a great flow to it, but this one did, and the audience seemed genuinely engaged and interested in the topics.


Following the PowerPoint presentation, we took our hike around the prairie, pointing out some of the things that we had been discussing during the presentation. For example, examining how the flower heads of the dominant grass species differed through our field experience made the presentation come to life. We were also able to view and discuss additional points of interest at OLPR, such as the Cosmic Walk, Stations of the Cross, Spiritual Labyrinth, and the 6 newly displayed stained-glass panels that were originally commissioned by two artists from Ivy Ridge Studios in Bellevue, Iowa, and Marycrest College faculty members, and are now scattered throughout the property. It was such a great interactive trek, and like always, things appeared, and questions were asked about various aspects of the prairie that I had not anticipated. Those are the things that I love about interactions like this, which allow me to continue to learn.


Following an hour hike, it was time for lunch. As I mentioned previously, our kitchen staff is second to none, and our meal was a great reflection of that. Not only was the meal incredibly delicious, but it helped emphasize a part of the Congregation of the Humility of Mary’s mission regarding sustainability. Our butternut squash soup and homemade potato salad being made from produce grown in our own garden. The meal was amazing and the conversations at the tables made for an electric atmosphere. After an amazing apple cake dessert, I switched gears and turned on a DVD presentation titled “America’s Lost Landscape the Tallgrass Prairie”. It was produced by Dr. Daryl Smith, a former Biology Professor at UNI, who we had the privilege to meet last year when he visited OLPR. It really enhanced what we had talked about and then seen first-hand. It is a thought-provoking presentation depicting the various dynamics of the prairie that at one time dominated the Iowa landscape and is now all but virtually gone.


To conclude our day, our guests were invited for a second walk around another lobe of our prairie, where we could look at the previously flagged plants. This was also an opportunity for the guest to collect prairie seeds to use to start their own prairie reconstruction or enhance an existing wild area. It was a fun way to “walk off” such a great lunch and a fitting conclusion to a wonderful day. We never fully know what might lie ahead for us at any moment, and this event is an example of that. What started off as just an inquiry regarding a potential visit for a QC area group turned out to be one of the best days at OLPR. I think Dr. Dziadyk would have been pleased.


PHOTO—Kurt Kreiter leads the Quad City Plus 60 Club on a Fall Flora tour of Our Lady of the Prairie Retreat.


Conversations in Faith Podcast: Buddhist & Christian Perspectives


The November episode of Conversations in Faith: Exploring the Questions You’re Afraid to Ask invites listeners into an honest and deeply personal dialogue between two spiritual seekers whose journeys have led them along very different paths—and to many shared truths.


Produced by Our Lady of the Prairie Retreat, St. Ambrose University, The Catholic Messenger, and the Congregation of the Humility of Mary, the monthly podcast continues to build bridges of understanding between diverse faith traditions.


The November 7 episode features Judith Lee, a lay leader in the Vietnamese Buddhist sangha in Davenport, and Dr. Rich Whitaker, a member of the Metropolitan Community Church. Together, they explore questions about spiritual seeking, compassion and how belief shapes daily life.


Judith Lee describes herself as a lifelong “seeker of spiritual truths.” Raised in Protestant Christian churches in small New England towns, she was captivated by the Catholic rituals and sacred art she encountered as a child. Her early curiosity expanded into a lifelong pursuit of understanding across world religions. “I began to understand that religion and spirituality might be very different,” she said. “That realization set me on a journey to explore practices and teachings that share a common foundation in love.” Today, Lee serves a Vietnamese Buddhist community that includes monks, nuns, and lay practitioners.


Dr. Rich Whitaker began his career in the Quad Cities in 1994 as a doctoral intern at the historic Marriage and Family Counseling Service in Rock Island, Illinois as part of his Ph.D. in Marriage and Family Therapy from Brigham Young University. Since that pivotal year, Dr. Whitaker has pursued a career in community mental health, providing services, supervision, and executive administration at community mental health centers in Grand Island, Nebraska (9 years as COO) and Jasper, Indiana (12 years as CFO). Since January 2017, Rich has served as the CEO of Vera French Community Mental Health Center in Davenport, Iowa. In addition to serving as a Director of Region 7 on the Board of the National Council for Mental Wellbeing, Dr. Whitaker also serves as a Government Relations Committee member for the Iowa Association of Community Providers and as a Board member of Churches United in the Quad Cities.


The conversation—moderated by The Catholic Messenger editor Barb Arland-Fye—reflects the podcast’s ongoing commitment to honest inquiry and mutual respect. “Our goal is to create a space where people can explore the hard questions without fear or judgment,” said Lori Freudenberg, Program Coordinator at Our Lady of the Prairie Retreat. “Faith becomes stronger, and compassion deeper, when we truly listen to one another.”


Conversations in Faith is released on the first Friday of every month and is available on all major platforms including Spotify, Apple Podcasts, SoundCloud and Amazon Music. Listeners are encouraged to submit questions for future episodes to conversationquestions@chmiowa.org

Please enjoy this month's issue of Down to Humus newsletter

As a part of the CHM Laudato Si’ Action Plan, the Congregation of the Humility of Mary has launched a monthly newsletter to educate themselves and others about care of the environment.

 

The newsletter is a place for readers to share their favorite earth-friendly links, innovative ideas and favorite recipes.


If you have ideas to submit to the publication, please click HERE.



Be sure to check out the upcoming retreats at

Our Lady of the Prairie Retreat

2664 14th Avenue - Wheatland, Iowa - 563-374-1092 - theprairieretreat.org


(Click the date for additional information)


For full details and to register find our calendar at www.theprairieretreat.org

  • To register by email contact: olpretreat@chmiowa.org or call 563-374-1092.
  • For online retreats, we will send an email with a Zoom link.
  • Financial aid available--please ask us!


Saturday, November 1 | 9:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m.

Medicine Wheel

Kathleen Collins

How the four directions help balance your life!

$40


Wednesday, November 5 | 9:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m.

Pause and Refresh - Catching a Breath

Dr. Patricia Shea

Take this time just for you - relax, refresh, and get in touch with yourself physically, emotionally and spiritually.

$40


Thursday, November 6 | 1:00-3:30 p.m.

Lost Nation: The Ioway

Tammy and Kelly Rundle

Location: Clinton Community College, 1000 Lincoln Blvd., Clinton, Iowa.

This forgotten story of American conquest and Native survival will come to light with the award-winning documentary.               

Free Will Offering


Saturday, November 8 | 10:00 a.m.-4:00 p.m.

The Mystic Way - Community in Nondual Practice.

Dennis Eastin

The Prairie is a safe environment for engaging in a discussion on how mysticism can inform our lives in the second half of life.

$40


Saturday, November 15 | 1:00-4:30 p.m.

Self-Care for Body, Mind and Spirit

Dianne Willging

Experience an afternoon of opportunities designed to create a harmonious balance of body, mind, and spirit.

$25


November 30 and December 6 | 3:00-4:00 p.m.

ONLINE ONLY: Waiting in Hope: An Ignatian Advent Retreat in Daily Life

Meg Foreman, Chad Roeber and Ann LaBauve

Would you like to spend time praying intentionally around Advent scriptures? Are you curious about the Spiritual Exercises of St Ignatius of Loyola? Opening session- Sun, Nov 30th; Closing session- Sat, Dec 6th. Daily, Monday through Friday, retreatants meet individually with a spiritual director.

$95


December 12-13 | 4:00 p.m.-4:00 p.m.

Advent Retreat for Women

Jenny Chadima

Take this opportunity to rest and simply be, experiencing God’s life-giving presence in deeper ways.

$100


Saturday, December 20 | 9:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m.

Celebrating Winter Solstice

Kathleen Collins

Welcome winter! Let the winter solstice be a time of inner transformation and renewal.

$40 

 
 
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