St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Sunday Service - 10:00 am


Morning Prayer: Tuesday-Friday 8:45 am


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Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

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Rector's Corner


Christmastide – A Season of Peace, Love, and Joy


As we step into the sacred season of Christmastide, I find myself reflecting on the sheer beauty of this time in our liturgical calendar. In the rush of Advent preparations, we often focus on getting to Christmas Day. But Christmastide—this holy space between Christmas and Epiphany—invites us to linger in the profound mystery of God’s love made flesh in Jesus Christ.


In the Episcopal Church, Christmastide is a season of joy and gratitude. It stretches beyond the world’s “end of the holidays” mentality and calls us to embrace the fullness of what it means to proclaim, “Emmanuel—God is with us.” This is a gift that transcends a single day, offering us peace, love, and joy to carry into the new year.


For me, Christmastide is a time to notice the quiet miracles of God’s presence. I see it in the candles that continue to burn on the altar, reminding us that the Light of Christ shines in the darkness and the darkness will not overcome it. I hear it in the voices of our congregation, still singing carols with a sense of awe and wonder. I feel it in the small, everyday moments when love is shared—a phone call to a friend, a meal delivered to someone in need, or a heartfelt prayer for peace in a world yearning for hope.


This season also encourages us to slow down and savor what we so often rush past. Christmastide invites us to cherish the beauty of incarnation—not just the birth of Jesus long ago, but the ways Christ continues to be born into our lives today. Where do you see Christ showing up? Perhaps in the unexpected kindness of a stranger, the laughter of children, or the comfort of a familiar tradition.


In the spirit of Christmastide, I encourage you to take time this season to reflect on the blessings of God’s love. Here are a few ways to embrace this sacred time:


Pause and Pray: Light a candle each evening and give thanks for the Light of Christ in your life.


Give with Love: Find a way to share Christ’s love with others—whether it’s through generosity, forgiveness, or a simple act of kindness.


Be Present: Spend time with loved ones, not in the busyness of doing, but in the quiet joy of being together.


As we journey together through Christmastide, let us hold fast to the peace, love, and joy that this season brings. The story of Christmas is not just a story of a baby in a manger; it’s the story of God’s never-ending desire to be with us. It’s a story that continues in you and me, as we carry the light of Christ into the world.


May this Christmastide bless you abundantly. May it bring you peace in your heart, joy in your spirit, and love that overflows into the lives of others.


With gratitude and hope,

Mo. Allison+



More on Christmastide:


In the Episcopal Church, Christmastide is celebrated as a season of great joy, thanksgiving, and reflection on the mystery of the Incarnation—God becoming human in the person of Jesus Christ. It is a time to celebrate the hope, love, and light that Christ brings into the world.



Christmastide in the Episcopal Church


1. Liturgical Observance:

• Christmastide begins on Christmas Eve and continues through The Feast of the Epiphany (January 6).

• The season is marked by white or gold liturgical colors, symbolizing the glory and divinity of Christ.

• Services during Christmastide include readings and prayers that reflect on the birth of Christ and its implications for salvation, such as John 1:1-14 (the Word made flesh).


2. Holy Days During Christmastide:

December 25 – Christmas Day: Celebrates the Nativity of Jesus.

December 26 – St. Stephen, Deacon and Martyr: Remembrance of the first Christian martyr, emphasizing service and sacrifice.

December 27 – St. John the Evangelist: Focuses on the beloved disciple and his testimony to the Incarnation.

December 28 – The Holy Innocents: Honors the children killed by Herod and reminds us of the vulnerability of Christ’s coming into the world.

January 1 – Feast of the Holy Name of Jesus: Celebrates the naming and circumcision of Jesus, fulfilling Jewish law.

January 6 – Epiphany: Marks the visit of the Magi and the revelation of Christ to the Gentiles.


3. Themes of Christmastide:

Incarnation and Emmanuel (God with us): A time to marvel at the divine mystery that God chose to dwell among us.

Joy and Light: In a world often shadowed by darkness, Christmastide reminds us that the Light of Christ shines in the darkness, and the darkness cannot overcome it (John 1:5).

Renewed Hope: The season is a call to embrace the hope of redemption and new life.


Christmastide Today: Context and Celebration


1. In the Modern World:

• In our contemporary context, Christmastide serves as a counterbalance to the secular rush of the pre-Christmas season (Advent). It is a time to rest, reflect, and truly celebrate the gift of Christ’s birth.

• Many people today emphasize the need for community and compassion, which align with the season’s message of hope and reconciliation.


2. Celebrations in the Church:

• Many Episcopal congregations maintain Christmas decorations and continue singing carols throughout Christmastide, as opposed to ending celebrations abruptly after Christmas Day.

• Special services, including Lessons and Carols, offer opportunities to reflect on the story of salvation.


3. Challenges:

• In a world marked by consumerism and individualism, Christmastide calls Episcopalians to focus on the deeper meaning of Christmas: God’s presence among us and the call to share that love with others.


4. Application to Life:

• Christmastide is a reminder to live as witnesses of Christ’s light and love in the world, carrying forward the joy of Christmas into daily life.


For Episcopalians today, Christmastide is both a liturgical season and a spiritual invitation: to dwell on the mystery of Christ’s coming, to embody God’s love in our actions, and to share the hope and peace of the Incarnation with a world in need.


Introducing St. Mary’s Giving Basket Program!


We are excited to launch St. Mary’s Giving Basket Outreach, a monthly opportunity for our community to make a tangible difference in the lives of those in need.


Each month, we’ll focus on supporting a specific organization or cause—and we invite you to join us in this meaningful mission!


This December, let’s come together to support The Branches Outreach Food Pantry in Rio Grande.


They are in need of the following items:


  • Shelf-stable milk
  • Spam and canned chicken
  • Juice
  • Can openers
  • Full-sized toiletries: razors, shaving cream, shampoo, etc.


You’ll find a large Giving Basket in the front of the church, ready to receive your contributions. Whether you can give a little or a lot, every item you donate will bring comfort and hope to someone in need this holiday season.


Together, we can be a beacon of love and generosity. Let’s fill that basket to the brim and make December a month of giving from the heart.


Thank you for being part of this wonderful outreach!

Will you join us in making a difference?



Episcopal News

Presiding Bishop Sean Rowe's Christmas message

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2025 CHURCH YEAR CALENDAR


Churchman's Ordo

Church Year Guide


Calendars for 2025, are now available in both of the church narthexes. The calendars are provided by Radzieta Funeral Home. Please help yourself and feel free to take one to a friend.

Forward Day by Day

November, December, January issue

The November, December, January issue of Forward Day by Day is now available in both large and small size booklets, in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for a friend who may enjoy having it. If you would like us to mail a copy to you, please let the church office know and we will be glad to send it.

Stewardship Minute

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
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Formation/ Education

What We Believe

As Episcopalians, we believe in and follow the teachings of Jesus Christ, whose life, death, and resurrection saved the world. We believe that God loves you - no exceptions. The [...]

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Timeline

History: Timeline For more information, visit or contact The Archives of The Episcopal Church. This page is available in: Español

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Music & Liturgy

Music & Liturgy Liturgy is the term for the church's sacramental rites and texts used in public worship. In An Episcopal Dictionary of the Church (Church Publishing, 2000), Don S. Armentrout and [...]

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Stay Connected through Bible Study


We offer two convenient times to fit your schedule:

10-11:30 AM or 7-8:30 PM.


This Bible study is more than just a class; it’s an opportunity to build deeper relationships with God and with each other. As we explore the Gospel of Luke together, we’ll strengthen our faith, grow in our understanding, and stay connected as a community, no matter where we are.


If you’re interested or have any questions, feel free to reach out to Tracy Rubin at tgrubin3@gmail.com or 781-856-2125.


To sign up, please contact Ali at office@ccneedham.org

or call 781-444-1469.


Let’s stay connected and continue our spiritual journey together!

Coffee Hour


Coffee Hour is held after service every Sunday in the parish hall.


It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.


If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up.


Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.


You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!

CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.

Fourth Sunday of Advent


Isaiah 61:10-62:3

Galatians 3:23-25; 4:4-7

John 1:1-18

Psalm 147 or 147:13-21


Worship Services

Tuesday - Friday 8:45 am Morning Prayer via Zoom

Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

and Live on Facebook

Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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