St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


All are welcome. Please join us!


Sunday Service - 10:00 am


Morning Prayer: Tuesday and Friday 8:45 am


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Annual Meeting: January 19th


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Staying Connected

WELCOME HOME!

Worship with us:

Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

in person and Live on Facebook


Your 2025 Pledge Form is Online for your convenience.


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We also accept donations via Venmo!


@StMarysStoneHarbor


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Rector's Corner


A Call to Prayer, Discernment, and Service


As we gather for our Annual Meeting, we are reminded of the many blessings God has bestowed upon us as a church community. We are a small but mighty congregation, filled with vibrant ministries and a shared passion for living out our faith in service to one another and the world. This moment calls us to reflect on the foundation of our life together: prayer, discernment, and the gifts of the Spirit that God has entrusted to each of us.


Prayer: Opening Our Hearts to God's Will

Prayer is our starting point. It is where we center ourselves in God's presence, listen for God's voice, and seek guidance for the path ahead. As we come together, I invite each of you to commit to praying for our church: for its leadership, for its ministries, and for the Spirit's movement among us. Let us pray not only for direction but for courage and boldness to follow where God leads.


"Ask, and it will be given you; search, and you will find; knock, and the door will be opened for you" (Matthew 7:7). God promises to meet us in prayer, and through prayer, we are drawn closer to God's purposes for us.


Discernment: Seeking God's Purpose Together

Discernment is the holy work of listening—not just with our ears, but with our hearts. It is a practice of asking, "What is God calling us to do?" and "How can I use the gifts I have been given to answer that call?"


This year, I encourage you to take time to reflect on where your passions and gifts meet the needs of our church and community. Perhaps God is nudging you toward leadership, service in a ministry, or a new way of sharing your time and talents. Discernment happens in community, so let us have open hearts and ears as we seek to understand God's call for our church in the year ahead.


Spiritual Gifts: Sharing God's Abundance

Each of us has been blessed with spiritual gifts—unique abilities given by the Holy Spirit for the good of the body of Christ. Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 12:4-7:


"Now there are varieties of gifts, but the same Spirit; and there are varieties of services, but the same Lord; and there are varieties of activities, but it is the same God who activates all of them in everyone. To each is given the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good."


What gifts has God given you? Perhaps it is the gift of teaching, organizing, hospitality, or encouraging others. Maybe you have a knack for problem-solving, a creative spirit, or a heart for social justice. No matter what your gifts are, they have been given to you for a purpose: to build up the body of Christ and to serve God's mission in the world.


An Invitation to Leadership and Service

Our church has many ministries, and each one plays a vital role in bringing God's love to life. Whether you feel called to serve on a committee, help with outreach, offer your skills in a specific area, or simply lend your hands and heart where needed, your participation matters.


Leadership isn't reserved for a select few; it is an invitation extended to all of us. It begins with a willingness to say, "Here I am, Lord. Use me." If you have ever considered stepping into a leadership role or supporting a ministry in a new way, let this be your year to say "yes."


Moving Forward in Faith

As we step into this new season together, let us do so with hearts full of gratitude and a readiness to respond to God's call. Let us pray, discern, and offer our gifts with joy and confidence, trusting that God will provide what we need to do the work set before us.


The beauty of this church is that we are many parts, but one body. Each of you has a place here. Each of you is essential to the work we do. Together, with God's guidance, we can accomplish far more than we could ever imagine.


May this Annual Meeting be a time of celebration, reflection, and renewed commitment to our shared mission. May the Holy Spirit inspire each of us to take a bold step forward in faith, offering our gifts for the glory of God and the good of our community.


In Christ’s love,

Mo. Allison+

Annual Pot Luck for our Congregational Meeting

This Sunday, we will gather for our Annual Congregational Meeting following the service, and we’re excited to share a time of fellowship with a Pot Luck meal!


We kindly ask everyone to bring a dish to share—whether it’s a family favorite, a sweet treat, or something savory to enjoy. Your contributions will help make this gathering a warm and delicious celebration of our life together as a parish.


Let’s come together in the spirit of community and gratitude as we reflect on the past year and look ahead to what God has in store for us in the year to come.


Thank you for your generosity and participation. See you on Sunday!


Notice of Annual Meeting

January 19, 2025


The Annual Meeting for the election of Wardens and Vestrypersons, for the elections of three (3) Lay Deputies, and three (3) Alternate Lay Deputies to the Diocesan Convention, six (6) Delegates to the Convocation, for receiving of reports, and for any other matters requiring action by the membership, shall be held on the 3rd Sunday of January.


Those eligible to vote at any Annual or Special Meeting shall be:


  • baptized
  • at least sixteen (16) years of age
  • domiciled in the parish or adjacent thereto,
  • of good moral character, adhering to this Church
  • regular attendants at the services of St. Mary’s Episcopal Church (as defined by the Rector, or in his/her absence the Senior Warden)
  • and regular contributors (pledging members) to the current expenses of the parish for the six months preceding such Meeting.


Three persons qualified to vote shall constitute a quorum.



Election of Wardens and Vestrypersons and Delegates


At each Annual Meeting, one Warden (Senior Warden or Junior Warden) shall be elected to hold office for two (2) years and shall be eligible for one successive term in office or until a successor shall be chosen. Vestrypersons will be elected to hold office for three years terms. Delegates to the Diocesan Convention and Delegates to the Convocation shall be elected to serve a one-year term and may serve four consecutive terms. 

A slate of nominations for Wardens or Vestrypersons and delegates will be submitted by the Nominating Committee appointed by the Rector. This slate will be posted two weeks prior to the date of the Annual Meeting. Nominations from the floor of the Annual Meeting will be accepted. Each such nominee must have indicated his/her willingness to serve if elected.


The polls shall remain open for ½ hour, and for such longer time as may be required to receive the ballots or requests of the persons present and ready to vote.


Thank you to all who have served!


St. Mary's 2024 Vestry


Sr. Warden

Lillian Armstrong


Jr. Warden

Cheryl Lukens Oleferuk

 

Clerk of the Vestry

Dina Ziemba

 

Vestry

Marion Myers

Lawrence Schmidt

Dr. Sandra Harmon-Weiss

Cheryl Lukens Oleferuk

Cathy Johnson

Allyn Penkethman


Treasurer

Jack Olthuis



Election Slate for 2025:


Sr. Warden (2 year term) Lillian Armstrong


Vestry 2 persons (3 Year term) Kate Rodriguez

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Vestry 2 persons to fill a 1 year unexpired term: Dina Ziemba

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3 Lay Deputies to Convention (1 year term)


3 Alternate Deputies to Convention (1 year term)


6 Delegates to the Convocation (1 year term)



If you are interested in serving, please contact Mo. Allison, your wardens, or vestry member.


St. Mary’s Giving Basket Program!

An exciting new program for our church is St. Mary’s Giving Basket Outreach, a monthly opportunity for our community to make a tangible difference in the lives of those in need.


Each month, we’ll focus on supporting a specific organization or cause—and we invite you to join us in this meaningful mission!


Currently, let’s come together to support The Branches Outreach Food Pantry in Rio Grande.


They are in need of the following items:


  • Shelf-stable milk
  • Spam and canned chicken
  • Juice
  • Can openers
  • Full-sized toiletries: razors, shaving cream, shampoo, etc.


You’ll find a large Giving Basket in the front of the church, ready to receive your contributions. Whether you can give a little or a lot, every item you donate will bring comfort and hope to someone in need this holiday season.


Together, we can be a beacon of love and generosity. Let’s fill that basket to the brim and make December a month of giving from the heart.


Thank you for being part of this wonderful outreach!

Will you join us in making a difference?



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Both large print and small booklets are available in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for someone who may enjoy this devotional.

If you would like us to mail one to you, please contact the church office. 609.368.5922


Forward Day by Day is a booklet of daily inspirational meditations reflecting on a specific Bible passage, chosen from the daily lectionary readings as listed in the Revised Common Lectionary or the Daily Office from the Episcopal Church's Book of Common Prayer.

2025 CHURCH YEAR CALENDAR


Churchman's Ordo

Church Year Guide


Calendars for 2025, are now available in both of the church narthexes. The calendars are provided by Radzieta Funeral Home. Please help yourself and feel free to take one to a friend.

Stewardship Minute

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
Visit our Website

We have joined Venmo! If you have Venmo, you can donate to the church - @StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Formation/ Education

Diocesan Scripture Study


Wednesdays at 7 pm on Zoom. These are come-as-you-like classes, so anyone can drop in anytime. We’ll be covering the Book of Acts, the prophets Jeremiah and Zephaniah, and Paul’s Letter to the Romans over the next couple of months. Please share the Zoom link with your congregations, and please also consider whether you’d like a hand in leading some of these classes. We had great help from a few of our clergy and lay leaders in the fall study, and it was great to learn from them—also a great chance for folks around the diocese to meet their fellow Episcopalians and seekers.


Here's the registration link: https://dioceseofnj.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZUuceCqrzkrG9N9kTgSn_HUkRXoasHImbcp



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Stay Connected through Bible Study


We offer two convenient times to fit your schedule:

10-11:30 AM or 7-8:30 PM.


This Bible study is more than just a class; it’s an opportunity to build deeper relationships with God and with each other. As we explore the Gospel of Luke together, we’ll strengthen our faith, grow in our understanding, and stay connected as a community, no matter where we are.


If you’re interested or have any questions, feel free to reach out to Tracy Rubin at tgrubin3@gmail.com or 781-856-2125.


To sign up, please contact Ali at office@ccneedham.org

or call 781-444-1469.


Let’s stay connected and continue our spiritual journey together!

Coffee Hour


Coffee Hour is held after service every Sunday in the parish hall.


It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.


If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up.


Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.


You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!

CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.

Second Sunday after the Epiphany

Isaiah 62:1-5

1 Corinthians 12:1-11

John 2:1-11

Psalm 36:5-10

Worship Services

Tuesday - Friday 8:45 am Morning Prayer via Zoom

Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

and Live on Facebook

Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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