St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

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Rector's Corner

Finding Refuge and Joy in Psalm 16: A Guide for Life, Prayer and Meditation


Beloved in Christ,


Psalm 16 begins with a beautiful and simple plea: “Protect me, O God, for I take refuge in you.” These words offer us an invitation to find comfort, guidance, and hope in God’s presence, especially in moments when we feel uncertain, overwhelmed, or simply in need of a reminder that we are not alone. As we journey through life, Psalm 16 can become a faithful companion in prayer and meditation, a wellspring of divine reassurance that speaks to the very heart of our need for refuge and joy.


When Psalm 16 Speaks to Us

Each of us has times in life when we yearn for safety, clarity, and purpose. It may be during a period of transition, a season of loss, or simply a moment of weariness. Perhaps, like many, you’ve found yourself carrying the weight of a world that can often feel chaotic and confusing. In these times, Psalm 16 reminds us that we have a place of refuge—not just in the physical sense, but a true refuge for our spirits and minds.


Psalm 16 teaches us that God is our safe harbor, the anchor that grounds us, no matter how turbulent the waters may be. The psalmist declares, “I have set the Lord always before me; because he is at my right hand I shall not fall.” When we repeat these words in prayer or meditate upon them, they remind us that God’s presence is as close as our very breath. We are held, protected, and sustained by God, even when we may feel that life is slipping beyond our control.


A Source of Joy and Thanksgiving

Psalm 16 doesn’t just call us to seek God in times of fear or uncertainty. It also invites us into joy and gratitude. In verse 9, the psalmist says, “My heart, therefore, is glad, and my spirit rejoices; my body also shall rest in hope.” This line holds a precious truth: our joy, our sense of gladness, can be deeply rooted in God’s love and care.


In moments of meditation, you might try focusing on this sense of joy and rest. Take a few deep breaths and let yourself feel God’s presence. Allow your heart to be glad for the gift of each moment, for the blessings—big and small—that fill your life. We often forget, in the busyness of our days, to thank God for the simple joys, the “goodly heritage” we have been given. Psalm 16 can be a wonderful way to reconnect with a heart of gratitude, a practice that can profoundly shift our spirits.


An Invitation to Discernment and Focus

In our lives, we are constantly making choices about where we invest our energy, time, and love. The psalmist recognizes the importance of turning away from things that might pull us from our focus on God, saying, “Those who run after other gods shall have their troubles multiplied.” These “other gods” may not resemble the idols of ancient times, but they are present in many forms today—whether they are the pressures of achievement, the lure of material security, or the distractions that often keep us from peace.


Reflecting on Psalm 16, especially verse 7—“I will bless the Lord who gives me counsel; my heart teaches me, night after night”—can help us find focus in our lives. God’s guidance is always available, a steady voice helping us discern what is truly important, what is nourishing and life-giving, and what we can release. This psalm reminds us to come back to our spiritual center, to God’s wisdom, and let it be our guide.


A Reminder of God’s Faithfulness, Now and Forever

Perhaps one of the most comforting assurances in Psalm 16 is in its final verse: “You will show me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy, and in your right hand are pleasures for evermore.” Here, the psalmist speaks of a joy and peace that go beyond this world. This line has echoed in the hearts of countless people over the ages, offering hope of God’s eternal care.


In times of grief or loss, these words can be a balm to our spirits. We are reminded that God’s love transcends even death, that God’s care holds us now and will hold us forever. Whether we find ourselves needing assurance of God’s presence in this life or hope for the life to come, Psalm 16 stands as a reminder that our journey is never without God’s loving hand.


A Prayer of Trust and Joy

I invite you to carry Psalm 16 with you this week. Find a quiet time, perhaps in the morning or evening, to read and meditate on these verses. Let its words guide you in prayer, a prayer that might look something like this:


“Loving God, I take refuge in you. You are my portion and my cup, the source of my joy. Help me to find rest in your presence, to walk in your counsel, and to rejoice in your steadfast love. Thank you for the goodly heritage you have given me, for the gift of life, and the promise of life everlasting. May my heart always find its rest and delight in you. Amen.”


As you read and pray, may you feel surrounded by God’s unshakable presence. And may this psalm become a faithful companion to you, a source of peace, joy, and hope wherever you may be on your journey.


Psalm 16

Conserva me, Domine


1 Protect me, O God, for I take refuge in you; *

I have said to the Lord, "You are my Lord,

my good above all other."


2 All my delight is upon the godly that are in the land, *

upon those who are noble among the people.


3 But those who run after other gods *

shall have their troubles multiplied.


4 Their libations of blood I will not offer, *

nor take the names of their gods upon my lips.


5 O Lord, you are my portion and my cup; *

it is you who uphold my lot.


6 My boundaries enclose a pleasant land; *

indeed, I have a goodly heritage.


7 I will bless the Lord who gives me counsel; *

my heart teaches me, night after night.


8 I have set the Lord always before me; *

because he is at my right hand I shall not fall.


9 My heart, therefore, is glad, and my spirit rejoices; *

my body also shall rest in hope.


10 For you will not abandon me to the grave, *

nor let your holy one see the Pit.


11 You will show me the path of life; *

in your presence there is fullness of joy,

and in your right hand are pleasures for evermore.


In Christ's Love,

Mo. Allison+



Walk in Love

Stewardship 2025


Share your vision of the words "Walk in Love." 


As we enter stewardship season at St. Mary's, we are embracing the theme "Walk in Love" by sharing photographs of what that means to us. Whether pets, families, places, or things, share an image and explain what it means to you. We'll have some elves working behind the scenes to create ornaments featuring the photos to hang on our Tree of Love Christmas Tree in the parish hall. The picture holders are round and images will be trimmed down to 2.8 inch circles, and there can be one on each side of the ornament. You can bring your photographs to church and we will trim them down, or make a scan of the photograph and return it to you. If you prefer to submit a digital photograph, please send it to Mother Allison.


You will receive this year's stewardship appeal in the mail next week, and we ask that all pledges be turned in by Friday, December 6th. On Sunday, December 8th, we will have a festive coffee hour to celebrate the success of our stewardship campaign, and maybe, just maybe, Mother Allison will put together one of her wonderful video storybooks. 


We hope for 100% participation both in pledging and in sharing your photographs! 


Lillian B. Armstrong, Sr. Warden




We're having a Cookie Stroll!

Join Us November 30th - 11 am to 1 pm

Calling all Bakers and Volunteers

We are planning to make St. Mary's "first annual" Cookie Stroll the best possible cookie stroll and fundraiser! Your help will make it possible.


We need:


Bakers - sign up on the sheet in the parish hall or email Dina Ziemba to let her know that you plan to bake.


Decorators - Currently the parish hall kitchen is under construction and not looking its best. People to "decorate" and make it cheery would be very welcome.


Volunteers - to help the day of the sale.

Thank you!!


Convocational Lay Ministry Training


If you’re serving as a Lay Eucharistic Minister or Visitor, remember that your license must be renewed every 3 years. And if you’d like to serve, you must be trained in accordance with our diocesan guidelines. Need some help? Our diocesan staff is ready for you! In conversation with our clergy and lay leaders, we’re holding convocational lay ministry training throughout the diocese.


Holy Trinity Episcopal Church in Ocean City,

Saturday, Nov. 9th at 10:00 am


If you’re interested, let your lay or clergy leadership know, or you can email the Reverend Canon Susanna Cates directly: scates@dioceseofnj.org.


Episcopal News

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Forward Day by Day

November, December, January issue

The November, December, January issue of Forward Day by Day is now available in both large and small size booklets, in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for a friend who may enjoy having it. If you would like us to mail a copy to you, please let the church office know and we will be glad to send it.

Stewardship Minute

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
Visit our Website

We have now joined Venmo! If you have Venmo, you can donate to the church - @StMarysStoneHarbor


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Formation/ Education

What We Believe

As Episcopalians, we believe in and follow the teachings of Jesus Christ, whose life, death, and resurrection saved the world. We believe that God loves you - no exceptions. The [...]

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Timeline

History: Timeline For more information, visit or contact The Archives of The Episcopal Church. This page is available in: Español

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Music & Liturgy

Music & Liturgy Liturgy is the term for the church's sacramental rites and texts used in public worship. In An Episcopal Dictionary of the Church (Church Publishing, 2000), Don S. Armentrout and [...]

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Stay Connected through Bible Study


We offer two convenient times to fit your schedule:

10-11:30 AM or 7-8:30 PM.


This Bible study is more than just a class; it’s an opportunity to build deeper relationships with God and with each other. As we explore the Gospel of Luke together, we’ll strengthen our faith, grow in our understanding, and stay connected as a community, no matter where we are.


If you’re interested or have any questions, feel free to reach out to Tracy Rubin at tgrubin3@gmail.com or 781-856-2125.


To sign up, please contact Ali at office@ccneedham.org

or call 781-444-1469.


Let’s stay connected and continue our spiritual journey together!

Coffee Hour


Coffee Hour is held after service every Sunday in the parish hall.


It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.


If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up.


Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.


You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!

CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.

26 Pentecost: Proper 28

Daniel 12:1-3

Psalm 16

Hebrews 10:11-14 (15-18) 19-25

Mark 13:1-8

Worship Services

Tuesday - Friday 8:45 am Morning Prayer via Zoom

Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

and Live on Facebook

Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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