St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Sunday Service - 10:00 am


Morning Prayer: Tuesday-Friday 8:45 am


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Staying Connected

WELCOME HOME!

Worship with us:

Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

in person and Live on Facebook


Your 2025 Pledge Form is Online for your convenience.


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We also accept donations via Venmo!


@StMarysStoneHarbor


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Rector's Corner


Preparing Our Hearts for Advent


One of my favorite childhood memories is waiting for Christmas morning. I would squeeze our eyes shut on Christmas Eve, convinced that the faster I fell asleep, the sooner morning would come. But as anyone who has tried to sleep while brimming with excitement knows, the waiting itself became part of the magic. That tension between the “already” and the “not yet”—knowing the gifts were ready but not quite within our grasp—shaped the joy we experienced when morning finally arrived.


Advent, too, invites us into a time of joyful anticipation. It’s a season of waiting, hope, and preparation—not just for the celebration of Christmas but for the arrival of Christ in our hearts and lives. It’s easy to get swept up in the bustle of holiday preparations, but Advent asks us to slow down, to wait with intention, and to open ourselves to the transformative love of the Christ Child.


How, then, do we deepen our relationship with Christ during this holy season? Perhaps it starts with rediscovering the sacredness of waiting. Advent isn’t about rushing to get to Christmas; it’s about making room in our hearts and lives for the One who comes to bring peace and hope to a weary world.


Here are a few ways we might embrace this time of waiting and hope:


Carve Out Quiet Moments

Amid the noise of the season, take time for stillness. Light an Advent candle, sit in prayer, or simply pause to reflect on the gifts of hope, peace, joy, and love that Christ offers us. These moments of quiet can help ground us in the true meaning of Advent.


Engage with Scripture

Reading the Advent lectionary passages can draw us closer to the stories of anticipation and promise. Reflect on Mary’s “yes,” the words of the prophets, and the shepherds’ awe as you imagine yourself in their place, waiting for the Christ Child.


Practice Generosity

Advent reminds us of God’s boundless love for humanity. Look for opportunities to share that love with others—whether through acts of kindness, supporting those in need, or offering words of encouragement to someone who feels forgotten.


Create a Ritual of Hope

Consider adopting a simple ritual, such as writing down prayers of gratitude or lighting an Advent wreath with your family. These small acts can help you focus on the season’s themes and invite Christ’s presence into your daily life.


This Advent, let’s remember that the waiting itself is sacred. As we light each candle on the wreath, as we pray and prepare our hearts, let us remember that Christ is not only coming—He is already with us. The love of the Christ Child is a gift for all, one that calls us to transform our lives and embrace the hope, peace, and joy He brings.


May this season of anticipation fill your heart with wonder, deepen your connection to Christ, and prepare you to welcome the greatest Gift of all.


With blessings and love,

Mo. Allison+



Walk in Love

Stewardship 2025


Share your vision of the words "Walk in Love." 


As we enter stewardship season at St. Mary's, we are embracing the theme "Walk in Love" by sharing photographs of what that means to us. Whether pets, families, places, or things, share an image and explain what it means to you. We'll have some elves working behind the scenes to create ornaments featuring the photos to hang on our Tree of Love Christmas Tree in the parish hall. The picture holders are round and images will be trimmed down to 2.8 inch circles, and there can be one on each side of the ornament. You can bring your photographs to church and we will trim them down, or make a scan of the photograph and return it to you. If you prefer to submit a digital photograph, please send it to Mother Allison.


You will receive this year's stewardship appeal in the mail next week, and we ask that all pledges be turned in by Friday, December 6th. On Sunday, December 8th, we will have a festive coffee hour to celebrate the success of our stewardship campaign, and maybe, just maybe, Mother Allison will put together one of her wonderful video storybooks. 


We hope for 100% participation both in pledging and in sharing your photographs! 


Lillian B. Armstrong, Sr. Warden


Stewardship Update


By now you should have received this year's stewardship letter in the mail, if we have a mailing address for you! We hope you will drop your pledge card in the mail or into the offering plate this coming Sunday or on December 1st, which is the first Sunday of Advent. The December 6th deadline allows us to include pledge income in the 2025 budget, and we certainly hope you can make a pledge either equal to last year's or a little bit more, or better yet, for the first time! 

 

You are also invited to submit a photograph depicting what "Walk in Love..." means to you. You can drop it off in the office or send it to Mother Allison via email. We will make it into an ornament to hang on our Tree of Love Christmas Tree in the Parish Hall and Mother Allison will include it in a presentation during our festive coffee hour on Sunday, December 8th, celebrating our Stewardship drive. 

 

Becoming a pledging member of St. Mary's is an important step as you walk in faith and gratitude for God's gifts and blessings. Many thanks to our devoted members for your support. 


Lillian

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Episcopal News

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Forward Day by Day

November, December, January issue

The November, December, January issue of Forward Day by Day is now available in both large and small size booklets, in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for a friend who may enjoy having it. If you would like us to mail a copy to you, please let the church office know and we will be glad to send it.

Stewardship Minute

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
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We have now joined Venmo! If you have Venmo, you can donate to the church - @StMarysStoneHarbor


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Formation/ Education

What We Believe

As Episcopalians, we believe in and follow the teachings of Jesus Christ, whose life, death, and resurrection saved the world. We believe that God loves you - no exceptions. The [...]

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Timeline

History: Timeline For more information, visit or contact The Archives of The Episcopal Church. This page is available in: Español

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Music & Liturgy

Music & Liturgy Liturgy is the term for the church's sacramental rites and texts used in public worship. In An Episcopal Dictionary of the Church (Church Publishing, 2000), Don S. Armentrout and [...]

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Stay Connected through Bible Study


We offer two convenient times to fit your schedule:

10-11:30 AM or 7-8:30 PM.


This Bible study is more than just a class; it’s an opportunity to build deeper relationships with God and with each other. As we explore the Gospel of Luke together, we’ll strengthen our faith, grow in our understanding, and stay connected as a community, no matter where we are.


If you’re interested or have any questions, feel free to reach out to Tracy Rubin at tgrubin3@gmail.com or 781-856-2125.


To sign up, please contact Ali at office@ccneedham.org

or call 781-444-1469.


Let’s stay connected and continue our spiritual journey together!

Coffee Hour


Coffee Hour is held after service every Sunday in the parish hall.


It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.


If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up.


Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.


You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!

CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.

First Sunday of Advent

Jeremiah 33:14-16

1 Thessalonians 3:9-13

Luke 21:25-36

Psalm 25:1-9

Worship Services

Tuesday - Friday 8:45 am Morning Prayer via Zoom

Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

and Live on Facebook

Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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