St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Sunday Service - 10:00 am


Morning Prayer: Tuesday-Friday 8:45 am


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Staying Connected

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Worship with us:

Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

in person and Live on Facebook

We accept donations via Venmo!


@StMarysStoneHarbor


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Rector's Corner


"Almighty and everlasting God, increase in us the gifts of faith, hope, and charity; and, that we may obtain what you promise, make us love what you command; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever. Amen."


In this week’s Collect, we ask God to “increase in us the gifts of faith, hope, and charity” and to help us love what God commands so that we may receive the promises of the Gospel. These words carry a profound invitation to live a life deeply rooted in the love and grace of God, but how do we truly live into these virtues?


I recently heard a story that beautifully exemplifies the meaning of this Collect.


Sarah, had always been deeply involved in the life of the church. She served on various committees, taught Sunday School, and regularly visited those in need. But one day, she found herself in the middle of a personal storm. Her husband became ill, and financial worries began to pile up. Sarah, a person of deep faith, began to feel her faith flicker.


One Sunday, as she sat quietly in a pew, tears welled up in her eyes. She felt overwhelmed, unsure of how to carry on. As the service unfolded, the words of a hymn—“O God, our help in ages past, our hope for years to come”—struck her heart. She remembered that her faith wasn’t just about her own strength but about trusting in God’s promises, even when she couldn’t see a way forward. That day, something shifted.


Sarah didn’t leave church with all the answers, but she left with a renewed sense of hope and a deeper faith in God’s presence. Her circumstances didn’t immediately change, but her heart did. With that renewed strength, she continued to show up—both for herself and for others—trusting that God would sustain her, one day at a time.


Faith, Hope, and Charity: Anchoring Us in God’s Love


Sarah’s story reflects what we are praying for in this Collect. When we ask God to “increase in us” these gifts, we are recognizing that faith, hope, and charity are not things we muster up on our own—they are gifts from God that grow as we lean into our relationship with Christ.


Faith is trusting God when life is uncertain, as Sarah did. It’s about placing our confidence not in ourselves but in God’s promises, which remain steady and true, even when the ground feels shaky beneath us.


Hope is what carries us through those moments when we can’t yet see the outcome, but we trust that God is working behind the scenes. Just as Sarah found renewed hope in a hymn, we are reminded that hope often arrives in small, surprising ways—through the kindness of a friend, a prayer, or a quiet moment of grace.


Charity, or love, is how we respond to the needs of the world around us. Even in her own pain, Sarah didn’t stop loving. She continued to care for others, trusting that God’s love would pour through her. This is the heart of our calling as Christians—to love as Christ loves, without counting the cost.

Living What God Commands


When we pray to love what God commands, we are asking for hearts aligned with God’s will—a will that always seeks the flourishing of all creation. Loving what God commands means not just hearing the words of Jesus but living them out. It means forgiving when it’s hard, loving when it’s costly, and serving when it’s inconvenient.


Sarah’s story is a reminder that living in faith, hope, and love isn’t always easy. It doesn’t mean life will be without struggle. But it does mean that in those struggles, we are not alone. The saints, both those who have gone before us and those walking alongside us now, remind us that God’s promises are true and that the gifts of faith, hope, and love will see us through.


As we move into this week, I invite you to reflect on where God might be calling you to grow in these gifts. Where do you need faith to trust in what you cannot see? Where is hope waiting to be rekindled in your heart? And where can love guide your actions, even when it requires sacrifice?


Let us walk together in faith, hope, and love, trusting that God is with us every step of the way.


In grace and peace,

Mo. Allison+




Guided by Grace: A Prayer for Faith, Hope, and Love


O God, Almighty and everlasting,

In the stillness of this hour, we ask:

Increase in us the quiet strength of faith,

The unwavering light of hope,

The boundless depth of love.


Teach us to love what You command,

To see Your will in every moment,

In the breaking of bread,

In the touch of a stranger,

In the weeping of the world.


Call upon the saints in light,

Those who have walked this path before,

Who held fast when shadows loomed,

Who loved fiercely when love seemed scarce.

Let their witness stir our hearts

And guide our feet on this holy road.


O blessed saints,

You who have tasted the sweetness of grace,

Walk with us now.

Teach us to hope when all seems lost,

To trust when the way is hidden,

To give when it costs us all.


May our faith grow like roots unseen,

Twining deep in the soil of Your promise,

May our hope rise like dawn,

Patient and unhurried,

And may our love,

O God of light,

Be wide as Your eternal mercy,

Unfolding in every step we take toward You.


Amen.

All Saints Sunday



All Saints Sunday

A Time to Remember and Celebrate



Dear Friends,


As we approach All Saints Sunday on November 3rd, we prepare to celebrate and remember the saints who have touched our lives—both those famous for their faith and the many everyday saints who have quietly shaped our hearts and souls. It is a day to honor those who have gone before us, leaving behind a legacy of love, wisdom, and faith. This sacred time in the church reminds us that we are part of a larger, eternal community of believers, bound together in the love of Christ.


At St. Mary’s, we hold this day as an opportunity to lift up the names of our loved ones—family members, friends, mentors—those whose lives continue to inspire and guide us. We will remember them in prayer during our service, giving thanks for their influence and seeking comfort in the hope of resurrection.


If you would like us to remember a loved one during the service, please email their name(s) to SaintMarysStoneHarbor@gmail.com. Whether they were part of this community or have impacted your life from afar, we would be honored to include them in our prayers.


As we gather to commemorate these lives, may we also be reminded of our own call to live as saints, following Christ’s example and loving one another deeply.


In love and peace,

Mo. Allison+

Rector, St. Mary’s Episcopal Church


Convocational Lay Ministry Training


If you’re serving as a Lay Eucharistic Minister or Visitor, remember that your license must be renewed every 3 years. And if you’d like to serve, you must be trained in accordance with our diocesan guidelines. Need some help? Our diocesan staff is ready for you! In conversation with our clergy and lay leaders, we’re holding convocational lay ministry training throughout the diocese.


Holy Trinity Episcopal Church in Ocean City,

Saturday, Nov. 9th at 10:00 am


If you’re interested, let your lay or clergy leadership know, or you can email the Reverend Canon Susanna Cates directly: scates@dioceseofnj.org.




Atlantic Convocation News


Annual Meeting of the Convocation

Tuesday, Nov. 12th

6:00pm


St. Mark's & All Saints

429 S. Pitney Rd., Galloway, NJ 08205


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Prayer, Dinner, Roll Call and Check-in, and business meeting to elect our next Dean.


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All are welcome to attend.

Please let Mo. Allison know if you are attending and would like to carpool.


If you are a delegate and cannot attend, please inform Mother ASAP.

551-697-6133


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Stay Connected through Bible Study


We offer two convenient times to fit your schedule:

10-11:30 AM or 7-8:30 PM.


This Bible study is more than just a class; it’s an opportunity to build deeper relationships with God and with each other. As we explore the Gospel of Luke together, we’ll strengthen our faith, grow in our understanding, and stay connected as a community, no matter where we are.


If you’re interested or have any questions, feel free to reach out to Tracy Rubin at tgrubin3@gmail.com or 781-856-2125.


To sign up, please contact Ali at office@ccneedham.org

or call 781-444-1469.


Let’s stay connected and continue our spiritual journey together!


Diocesan Adult Confirmation and Faith Discovery Groups 


Beginning September 25th: Sign Up Now!


The Diocese of New Jersey is excited to present our program for Adult Confirmation! Whether you’re new to the Episcopal Church and are seeking Confirmation, or a long-time member who wants to share and renew their faith, you are invited to join folks from around the diocese as we discover and re-discover our love for Christ, our joy in the Church, and the gifts that God has given each of us. This series of 10 1- hour Zoom classes will begin on Wednesday, September 25th at 7 pm. This puts us in a perfect position to be ready for our Diocesan Confirmation Service shortly after the new year. For more information and to register, please contact the Reverend Canon Susanna Cates: scates@dioceseofnj.org


Forward Day by Day

November, December, January issue

The November, December, January issue of Forward Day by Day is now available in both large and small size booklets, in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for a friend who may enjoy having it. If you would like us to mail a copy to you, please let the church office know and we will be glad to send it.

Stewardship Minute

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
Visit our Website

We have now joined Venmo! If you have Venmo, you can donate to the church - @StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Coffee Hour


Coffee Hour is held after service every Sunday in the parish hall.


It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.


If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up.


Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.


You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!

CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.

The Twenty-Third Sunday after Pentecost: Proper 25

Jeremiah 31:7-9

Psalm 126

Hebrews 7:23-28

Mark 10:46-52

Worship Services

Tuesday - Friday 8:45 am Morning Prayer via Zoom

Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

and Live on Facebook

Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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