St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Staying Connected

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Worship with us:

Sunday at 9:00 am in the sanctuary

in person and Live on Facebook


The Third Sunday of Advent

We are now accepting donations via Venmo!

@StMarysStoneHarbor


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Rector's Corner


Embracing the Timeless Tradition of Advent at St. Mary's


Dear Beloveds in Christ,


In these reflective days of Advent, I find myself contemplating our shared journey through the changing landscape of the Church, the enduring beauty of our traditions, and the unifying strength of our liturgy. As we continue to embrace this sacred season, I am reminded of the rich history that Advent carries, a tradition that has evolved yet remains a cornerstone of our faith.


The Historical Tapestry of Advent

The story of Advent, originating from the Latin "Adventus" meaning "coming," is a vivid tapestry woven through centuries. Initially observed in the Western Church, it began as a period of preparation for the birth of Jesus and a period of time in which converts would prepare to be baptized on the Epiphany. By the fifth century, special sermons during Advent became a customary practice, enriching the season with spiritual depth. Initially lasting forty days, reminiscent of a second or "little" Lent, as some would say, Advent was gradually reshaped into the four weeks we now observe, a change first noted in the ninth century. This evolution reflects our church's responsiveness to the needs of its people during a time when fasting was an obligatory practice, adapting while preserving the essence of spiritual preparation and anticipation. Though shortened, the four Sundays symbolize the four millennia that humanity waited for the Savior, according to the Christian interpretation of the Old Testament.


In a society often focused on immediate gratification, Advent teaches us patience and waiting, offering a stark contrast to the commercialization of Christmas. It is important not to rush through the Advent season but to look more deeply inward, to read our scriptures more thoroughly, and to prepare ourselves more fully. For us as Episcopalians, the observance of Advent and the liturgical calendar, provides a rhythm to the year that is profoundly grounding, connecting us with the broader Anglican community across time and space. Our Liturgy is important.


A Unified Liturgy

Our Common Thread In a world where we often encounter division, the unified liturgy of the Advent season and the Episcopal Church is a testament to our collective faith and shared journey. It’s a period where we, as a community, come together to reflect on the profound mysteries of our faith, unified in prayer and purpose.


This uniformity in our worship practices during Advent not only enhances our communal bond but also ensures that our focus remains steadfast on the spiritual essence of the season. It allows each of us, regardless of our backgrounds, to fully engage in the life of the Church, united in our anticipation of Christ's birth and His eventual return.


In our Episcopal tradition, the Book of Common Prayer stands as a beacon of unity amidst change. It guides us through Advent with prayers and scriptures that resonate with timeless themes of hope, preparation, repentance, and joy. This shared liturgy, a beautiful blend of ancient wisdom and contemporary relevance, offers us a collective voice and a common experience. In these shared words and rituals, we find a profound sense of belonging. There is a deep comfort in knowing that regardless of what Episcopal Church we choose to walk in, we will share in the same Liturgy, whether near or far. That is a thread that binds us as the Episcopal Church.


The Joy and Comfort of Shared Liturgy

As we partake in Advent services and these four Sundays, each prayer and scripture reading serves as an important reminder that we are part of a larger story and community. We are united not just with those who are present but with generations past and those yet to come. In a world of constant change, there is deep joy and solace in our shared liturgical practices. They ground us, remind us of our shared heritage, and guide us towards the light of Christ's birth.


Embracing Tradition and the Larger Church

As we navigate the church in this new world, let us take comfort in the steadfast traditions of our liturgy and the Eucharist here at St. Mary’s. These are the elements that bind us together as the Episcopal Church. They are our constants in a sea of change—the spiritual anchors that sustain and nourish our faith, essential to our community and connection.


In this Advent season, let us embrace the joy and comfort found in our shared liturgy. Let us gather in anticipation and hope, united in our journey towards the celebration of Christ's birth. 


May this time of Advent be a source of spiritual renewal and deep connection for us all.


In Christ,

Mo. Allison+



Poinsettias at Christmas

Poinsettias will be placed in the sanctuary for the Christmas season.


If you would like to dedicate a poinsettia in honor or memory of, or in thanksgiving for, a loved one, please fill out the attached form and return it in the plate on Sunday or to the parish office by mail or email.


The deadline for the inclusion of your names is December 17th.

After Christmas, you may take the flowers to enjoy or give.


Here is the download link for the form.

St. Mary's This 'n That Thrift Shop

Did you know?


Our Thrift Shop continues to be a beacon of mission and ministry out in the community. Each month is dedicated to a community organization.


In December, they are collecting for Toys for Tots. New unwrapped toys may be dropped off at the thrift shop any time during the month of December.


Thank you to Debbie, our Staff, and customers for your support, donations and care.

Store Hours: Tuesday - Saturday 10 am - 4 pm

Location: St. Mary's This 'n That, 1304 Rt. 47 So., Rio Grande, NJ 08242   609-886-7272


Thrift items donation days: Tuesday and Thursday, 10 am - 3 pm, and on the 1st Saturday of the month 10 - 3 pm.


Gold Winner of the 2022 and 2023 Best of the Jersey Shore thrift shops, This 'n That Furniture Shop is a great addition to the home goods, housewares, including small appliances, and clothing shops at This 'n That.


Don't forget the thrift shop when you're fall cleaning and re-organizing. Household items, furniture and clean usable clothing are welcome!


Remember - Upcycling is good for the planet!



You can keep up with special sales and featured furniture by following them on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/St-Marys-This-N-That-Thrift-Shop-268676343298636/

Items may be dropped off at The Branches Outreach Center

201 Hirst Ave., Rio Grande, NJ 08242 609-886-5091


Monday – Friday: 8:30am – 1:30pm - Saturday: 10am – 12pm

Sunday: Closed

Stewardship Minute

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To All of our seasonal members and friends


Please consider making a donation or pledge for 2024 before you head home for the season.


Your support of our mission and ministry is important to us.

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
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We have now joined Venmo! If you have Venmo, you can donate to the church - @StMarysStoneHarbor


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Happy Anniversary to

Barbara & Michael DeLorey on December 21st!

Happy Birthday to

Pamela Ritterhoff on December 16th, Ann Albright on December 17th, Stephen Haines on December 18th, and Daniel Layre on December 20th!


If you would like to be remembered on your birthday or anniversary, please give us your information so we may add you to our data base. Email or call the church office: jultaylor9425@gmail.com or 609-368-5922

Coffee Hour

Coffee Hour is held after service every Sunday in the parish hall. It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee. If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up on the sheet on the door to the kitchen. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee. Thank you!

Upcoming Events

Sunday, December 17th - 10:00 AM

Advent 3


Sunday, December 17th, 11 AM Vestry Meeting


Thursday, December 21st - 7:00 PM

Blue Christmas - a Service of Healing, Hope, and Wholeness with a Litany for Peace


Sunday, December 24th at 9:00 am

Advent 4


Sunday, December 24th at 9:00 PM

Christmas Eve Festive Eucharist



12 Step Meetings in the Church Hall

Narcotics Anonymous (NA) Monday at 7:30 pm

Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) Tuesday at 8:00 pm

CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.

The Third Sunday of Advent

Isaiah 61:1-4, 8-11

1 Thessalonians 5:16-24

John 1:6-8,19-28

Psalm 126 

Worship Services

Tuesday - Friday 8:30 am Morning Prayer via Zoom

Sunday 9:00 AM in person (church)

and Live on Facebook

Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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