St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Staying Connected

WELCOME HOME!

Worship with us:

Sunday at 9:00 am in the sanctuary

in person and Live on Facebook


The First Sunday after Christmas

We are now accepting donations via Venmo!

@StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Rector's Corner

Dear Beloved St. Mary's, friends and family,


As we stand on the threshold of a New Year, I am filled with a deep sense of gratitude and awe for all that we have journeyed through together in 2023. Your unwavering faith, generosity, and commitment to our community have been a beacon of hope and light in a world that often seems shrouded in shadows.


Throughout this year, we have witnessed the Holy Spirit moving among us, knitting us closer together as we navigated both challenges and celebrations. Your kindness and support, not just to our church but to each other and to those in need in our wider community, have truly embodied the love and teachings of Christ. It is your hands, your voices, and your hearts that have brought to life the mission of St. Mary's.


As your Rector, I have been profoundly moved by your acts of compassion and service. Whether it was through our outreach programs, community gatherings, or the quiet, often unseen acts of kindness, you have shown what it means to be the hands and feet of Christ in the world.


Looking ahead to 2024, let us continue to be guided by the Holy Spirit. There are new opportunities, new challenges, and new joys that await us. I have faith that, together, we will meet them with the same courage, love, and faith that have characterized our journey so far.


May the coming year bring each of you abundant blessings, health, and joy. May it be a year where we see our faith deepening, our community strengthening, and our love for one another and for God growing ever more profound.


Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for all that you are and all that you do. You are not just members of a congregation; you are a family, a community of faith and love that extends far beyond the walls of St. Mary's.


Wishing you a Happy, Healthy, and Blessed New Year,

Mo. Allison+


The Continuing Resonance of the Holy Innocents in the Plight of Modern Refugees


In the heart of the Christian narrative, nestled within tales of miracles and teachings of love, lies the story of the Holy Innocents. Each year, as we commemorate the Feast of the Holy Innocents, we are drawn to the passage from Matthew 2:13-18. This scripture, often overshadowed by the Nativity's joy, bears a profound and somber message, particularly relevant in today's global context marked by the refugee crisis. The flight of the Holy Family to Egypt and the tragedy of Herod's massacre present not just a historical account but a mirror reflecting the experiences of millions of refugees today.


The urgent nocturnal escape of Joseph, Mary, and Jesus to Egypt resonates deeply with the plight of modern refugees. Like the Holy Family, many today are forced to flee their homes under the threat of violence and persecution. Their journeys, often embarked upon under the cover of darkness, are fraught with uncertainty and danger. This parallel draws a poignant line connecting the Biblical narrative with the contemporary stories of families seeking refuge in unfamiliar lands, driven by the primal instinct to protect and preserve life.


In Herod's brutal decree and the subsequent massacre of Bethlehem's children, we see the vulnerability of the innocent in times of conflict. This aspect of the story painfully echoes in the lives of refugee children today. Innocent and vulnerable, they bear the brunt of the horrors of war and displacement, much like the young lives lost in Bethlehem centuries ago. The grief and mourning for these lost innocents, encapsulated in the biblical account, mirror the lamentations for the millions of children whose lives are irrevocably altered by displacement and loss.


The divine guidance that leads Joseph to safety with his family is emblematic of the faith and resilience that many refugees hold onto. In the face of adversity, the strength derived from faith and inner resilience becomes a beacon of hope. This parallel is strikingly relevant, reminding us of the universal nature of seeking guidance and strength beyond oneself in times of turmoil and uncertainty.


Amidst the narrative of flight and fear, the story of the Holy Family in Egypt is also one of hope and preservation. This period of exile, though fraught with challenges, was a time when the family remained safe, awaiting their return. This aspect of their journey speaks to the experience of many refugees who live with hope — hope for a safer future, hope for a return to their homeland, or hope for a new beginning in a foreign land.


Finally, the story of the Holy Innocents is a call to moral action. It challenges us, as a community, to extend compassion and protection to those who are vulnerable and displaced. The story urges us to see the face of the Holy Family in every refugee and to respond with empathy and support. Whether through advocacy, providing aid, or welcoming resettled families, we are called to act as protectors and supporters of those in need.


In conclusion, the story of the Holy Innocents, while ancient, continues to find relevance in our contemporary world, especially in the context of the refugee crisis. It invites us to see beyond the historical and religious context, recognizing the enduring human experiences of flight, vulnerability, resilience, grief, and hope. As a community, this reflection not only deepens our understanding but also inspires us to act, honoring our shared humanity and responding to the divine call to protect and support the vulnerable among us.



In Christ’s Unfailing Love,

Mo. Allison+



Stewardship Minute

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To All of our seasonal members and friends


Please consider making a donation or pledge for 2024 before you head home for the season.


Your support of our mission and ministry is important to us.

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
Visit our Website

We have now joined Venmo! If you have Venmo, you can donate to the church - @StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Happy Birthday to

Michael DeLorey on January 1st!


If you would like to be remembered on your birthday or anniversary, please give us your information so we may add you to our data base. Email or call the church office: jultaylor9425@gmail.com or 609-368-5922

Coffee Hour in 2024

A new sheet for Coffee Hour in the new year is posted on the door to the kitchen. Coffee Hour is held after service every Sunday in the parish hall. It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee. If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee. Thank you!

Upcoming Events

12 Step Meetings in the Church Hall

Narcotics Anonymous (NA) Monday at 7:30 pm

Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) Tuesday at 8:00 pm


Coming Soon: Thursday Night (AA) Big Book Meeting



CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.

The First Sunday after Christmas

Isaiah 61:10-62:3

Galatians 3:23-25; 4:4-7

John 1:1-18

Psalm 147

Worship Services

Tuesday - Friday 8:30 am Morning Prayer via Zoom

Sunday 9:00 AM in person (church)

and Live on Facebook

Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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