St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Sunday at 9:00 am in the sanctuary

in person and Live on Facebook


The First Sunday in Lent

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Rector's Corner


Reflection and Invitation: Friday's Daily Office Reading: Ezek. 18:1-4,25-32


In the quietude of our hearts, during the contemplative season of Lent, we are invited to draw near to the essence of reconciliation, as echoed in the profound words of the Prophet Ezekiel. In the spirit of Henri Nouwen, whose writings tenderly touch the soul, let us reflect on the nature of our journey towards God's boundless mercy and grace.


Ezekiel speaks to us of a God who is deeply invested in the life of every individual, asserting that every soul belongs to Him - both parent and child. This passage dismantles the age-old proverb of inherited sin, suggesting instead a God of personal relationships and individual accountability. "It is only the person who sins that shall die," declares the Lord, inviting us into a personal reckoning with our own actions and their consequences.


Henri Nouwen, with his characteristic gentleness, would perhaps see in these words not a threat but an invitation. An invitation to acknowledge our brokenness, to face our transgressions not with fear but with the hope of transformation. The passage from Ezekiel challenges the complaint of unfairness often directed at God's ways, reminding us that it is in our power to turn away from wrongdoing and embrace a life of righteousness.


In the spirit of Nouwen's understanding of the compassionate heart of God, let us see this Lenten season as a time to deeply consider our own paths. It is a time to question, not God's fairness, but our own adherence to His ways. Are we, perhaps, holding onto old proverbs that justify our actions, or are we willing to cast them aside and take responsibility for our own lives?


God's call to "get yourselves a new heart and a new spirit" is at the core of the Rite of Reconciliation. It is a call to not only turn away from sin but to actively turn towards God, to embrace a new way of being that is aligned with His love and justice. This Lent, let us respond to this call with open hearts, willing to cast away the transgressions that have distanced us from God and from one another.


As your priest, I extend an invitation to each of you to experience the grace of confession and absolution. In the safety of God's love, we can acknowledge our frailties and failures, secure in the knowledge that transformation is always possible. Together, let us approach the throne of grace, not with fear, but with the hopeful anticipation of receiving a new heart and a new spirit.


This Lent, may we all find the courage to turn and live, embracing the life-giving repentance to which God calls us. Let us remember that in the heart of God, there is no pleasure in the death of anyone. He desires for us to live, fully and freely, in His love. Come, let us turn and live anew.


In faith and love,

Mo. Allison+


14. A Song of Penitence

Kyrie Pantokrator

Prayer of Manasseh 1-2, 4, 6-7, 11-15


O Lord and Ruler of the hosts of heaven, *

God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob,

and of all their righteous offspring:


You made the heavens and the earth, *

with all their vast array.


All things quake with fear at your presence; *

they tremble because of your power.


But your merciful promise is beyond all measure; *

it surpasses all that our minds can fathom.


O Lord, you are full of compassion, *

long-suffering, and abounding in mercy.


You hold back your hand; *

you do not punish as we deserve.


In your great goodness, Lord,

you have promised forgiveness to sinners, *

that they may repent of their sin and be saved.


And now, O Lord, I bend the knee of my heart, *

and make my appeal, sure of your gracious goodness.


I have sinned, O Lord, I have sinned, *

and I know my wickedness only too well.


Therefore I make this prayer to you: *

Forgive me, Lord, forgive me.


Do not let me perish in my sin, *

nor condemn me to the depths of the earth.


For you, O Lord, are the God of those who repent, *

and in me you will show forth your goodness.


Unworthy as I am, you will save me,

in accordance with your great mercy, *

and I will praise you without ceasing all the days of my life.


For all the powers of heaven sing your praises, *

and yours is the glory to ages of ages. Amen.


LENT AND HOLY WEEK

St. Mary's This n' That Thrift Shop

For the month of February, we will be collecting needed items for the Lower Township Senior Center. If you are able to help, please bring items to the thrift store and place them in the box. The collected items will be delivered at the end of the month. Together, we can make a difference in our community!❤️


Located in the Village Shoppes, 1304 Rt 47 South, Rio Grande.

609-886-7272

Hours: Tuesday - Saturday 10 - 4 pm

The Annual Congregational Meeting for St. Mary's was held on January 28, 2024. If you missed the meeting, copies of the Report are available in the church narthex and parish hall. Also a copy may be downloaded here.

Stewardship Minute

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To All of our members and friends


Please consider making a donation or pledge for 2024 if you haven't already.


Your support of our mission and ministry is important to us.

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
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We have now joined Venmo! If you have Venmo, you can donate to the church - @StMarysStoneHarbor


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Happy Birthday to

Gloria Parker on February 22nd and Sandra Harmon-Weiss on February 23rd!


If you would like to be remembered on your birthday or anniversary, please give us your information so we may add you to our data base. Email or call the church office: [email protected] or 609-368-5922

St. Mary's This 'n That Thrift Shop


St. Mary's This 'n That Thrift and Furniture Shop is full of lovely bargains. Stop on by and take a look. You never know what you may find!



Located in the Village Shoppes, 1304 Rt 47 South,

Rio Grande.

609-886-7272

Hours: Tuesday - Saturday 10 - 4 pm

Forward Day by Day

The new edition of Forward Day by Day for February, March and April 2024 is now available in the church narthex in both large and small print booklets.

Please help yourself and take one for a friend. If you would like, we would be happy to mail a copy to you. Just email or call the church office.

Forward Day by Day is a booklet of daily inspirational meditations reflecting on a specific Bible passage, chosen from the daily lectionary readings as listed in the Revised Common Lectionary or the Daily Office from the Episcopal Church's Book of Common Prayer.

Coffee Hour

Coffee Hour is held after service every Sunday in the parish hall. It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee. If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee. You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen. Thank you!

Upcoming Events

12 Step Meetings in the Church Hall

Narcotics Anonymous (NA) Monday at 7:30 pm

Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) Tuesday at 8:00 pm

Big Book Meeting (AA) Thursday 7:00 pm

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Lenten Wednesday's Centering Prayer and Meditation 6 PM

February 21st to March 20th


Lenten Adult Formation 2 PM March 5th and March 12th


Lenten Fridays Stations of the Cross at St. Mary's and St. Simeon's


Dates, times and details for all Lenten events are listed above and can be downloaded here.

CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.

First Sunday in Lent

Genesis 9:8-17

1 Peter 3:18-22

Mark 1:9-15

Psalm 25:1-9

Worship Services

Tuesday - Friday 8:30 am Morning Prayer via Zoom

Sunday 9:00 AM in person (church)

and Live on Facebook

Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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