St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Rector's Corner


Turn and Live (Ezekiel 18:1-4, 25-32)


There are seasons when a community can feel tired of its own story.


We inherit things we did not choose. Family patterns. Cultural wounds. Systems that formed us long before we were old enough to name them. Sometimes it is easier to sigh and say, “This is just how it is. This is just who we are.”


In Ezekiel 18, the people of Israel voice a proverb that sounds suspiciously familiar: The parents have eaten sour grapes, and the children’s teeth are set on edge. In other words, we are suffering because of what they did. We are stuck because of the past.


God interrupts that narrative.


Through the prophet, God says something both bracing and liberating: each life belongs to me. Each soul matters. You are not locked inside someone else’s failure.


This is not a denial of history. Scripture never pretends that generational harm is imaginary. Trauma travels. Injustice echoes. Sin has consequences that ripple outward. We know this in our own families, in our nation, in the church.


But Ezekiel refuses fatalism.


God does not say, “You are doomed.”

God says, “Turn and live.”


It is one of the most pastoral lines in all of prophetic literature. God insists, “I have no pleasure in the death of anyone.” Not in literal death alone, but in the slow spiritual dying that happens when we give up. When we resign ourselves to repeating what wounded us. When we believe we cannot change.


Ezekiel 18 places both responsibility and hope in our hands.


Yes, our choices matter.

Yes, we are accountable for how we live.

But we are also free to begin again.


Our world often swings between blame and denial, this passage calls us into holy maturity. We do not scapegoat those who came before us, nor do we excuse ourselves from transformation. Instead, we stand before God as beloved, responsible, capable of repentance, capable of renewal.


As your rector, I find this passage deeply encouraging for us as a parish family.


We are not bound to repeat patterns that no longer serve the Gospel. We are not trapped by yesterday’s missteps. We are not required to live out of old fears. If something in our common life needs turning, then we turn. If something in our hearts needs softening, then we soften. If something in our witness needs courage, then we ask the Spirit for courage.


The invitation is not harsh. It is tender.


Turn. Live.


This is the rhythm of Lent, and of every season. This is the quiet work of discipleship. This is what it means to trust that the God who formed us is still forming us.


Beloved, whatever you carry from your past, whatever story you think defines you, hear this clearly: you are not condemned to repeat it. You belong to God. And the God who claims you delights in your becoming.


May we have the courage to turn where we must, and the faith to trust that life waits on the other side.


With love and steady hope in Christ,

Mo. Allison+

The Episcopal Diocese of New Jersey


MONTHLY TOWN HALL MEETINGS

1st Thursday of each month


7:00 PM LAY LEADERS TOWN HALL - Register


March 1:  Absalom Jones Service of Witness

March 1:  Annual Parochial Reports Due - See Item Below

March 12: Fresh Start

March 21: Stations of Reparation

March 26: Chrism Mass

March 29: Palm Sunday


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2026 Liturgical Calendars

Radzieta Funeral Home has provided liturgical calendars to St. Mary's. They can be found in the parish hall, and church narthex. Please help yourself to one.

Forward Day By Day for 
February, March and April

The new year is a wonderful time to start or renew a habit of daily scripture reading. Forward Day by Day makes it easy, with daily scripture listings and reflections, prayer and action. Pick one up …and your new year habit begins!


The February, March and April 2026 edition of Forward Day by Day is available in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for someone who may enjoy this devotional. If you would like us to mail one to you, please contact the church office. 609.368.5922

Stewardship Minute

Stewardship packets were mailed. If you did not receive one and would like to, please let the church office know. 609.368.5922 jultaylor9425@gmail.com


You may read the Stewardship letter from Larry Schmidt, St. Mary's Stewardship Chair, at this link.

Your 2026 Pledge Form is Online for your convenience. 

Click here.

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@StMarysStoneHarbor


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Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
    
  • We accept donations via Venmo! @StMarysStoneHarbor

http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Sunday Coffee Hour


Please join us for Coffee Hour on Sundays in the parish hall.

It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.

If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.

You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!


CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.


First Sunday in Lent

Genesis 2:15-17; 3:1-7

Romans 5:12-19

Matthew 4:1-11

Psalm 32

Worship Services


Sunday Service Time: 10:00 AM

St. Mary's 2025 Vestry

Sr. Warden

Lillian Armstrong


Jr. Warden/Clerk of the Vestry

Dina Ziemba

 

Vestry

Cathy Johnson

Kate Rodriguez

Pat Saunders

Susan DiStefano

Larry Schmidt


Treasurer

Jack Olthuis


Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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