St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Rector's Corner


Matthew 5:13-20


Sunday’s Gospel opens with words many of us know by heart: You are the salt of the earth. You are the light of the world. Not try to be. Not someday you might become.

Jesus speaks in the present tense.


You already are.


Salt and light sound gentle, even quaint, until we slow down and remember what they actually do. Salt preserves. It draws out flavor. It keeps what is precious from spoiling. Light exposes what hides in shadow. It guides the lost. It makes a way where there seemed to be none.


In other words, Jesus is not offering compliments. He is commissioning disciples.


This teaching arrives early in Matthew’s Gospel, just after the Beatitudes. Before the disciples have organized committees or built sanctuaries. Before they feel ready. Jesus looks at ordinary people and says, This is who you are in the world.


Salt does not exist for itself. Light does not shine inward. Both are meant to be spent.


And here is where the passage presses on us.


Jesus does not invite a quiet faith. He does not bless a spirituality that stays private or polite. He speaks of visibility. Of public goodness. Of lives shaped so clearly by love that others glimpse God through them.


“Let your light shine before others,” he says, “so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father in heaven.”


Not for applause.

Not for ego.

But so that God’s goodness becomes harder to deny.


Then Jesus turns toward the Law, toward justice, toward righteousness, and makes something very clear. Faith is not merely what we believe. It is how we live. It is how we treat our neighbors. It is how we show up when systems are broken. It is how we refuse cruelty. It is how we practice mercy when it costs us something.


Jesus tells his followers that righteousness is not about checking religious boxes. It is about embodying God’s heart in real time. Loving boldly. Forgiving stubbornly. Choosing compassion when anger feels easier. Standing with the vulnerable. Telling the truth. Refusing to look away.


Salt that loses its saltiness is useless. Light hidden under a basket helps no one.


Those are strong words. They are not meant to shame us. They are meant to wake us up.


Friends, we are living in a moment that desperately needs salt and light. A moment when fear is loud, cruelty feels normalized, and many are exhausted by headlines and heartbreak. In times like these, Jesus does not call us to withdrawal. He calls us to presence. To integrity. To courage rooted in love.


You do not have to be perfect. You do not have to have all the answers. You simply have to keep showing up as people shaped by Christ.


Every act of kindness matters.

Every truth spoken in love matters.

Every prayer whispered in the dark matters.

Every stand taken for dignity matters.


This is how the world is seasoned.

This is how shadows are pierced.


Beloved, you are salt. You are light. Not someday. Now.

May we live like it.


In Christ,

Mo. Allison+


Flip into Lent With Us on Shrove Tuesday!


We look forward to seeing you and please feel free to RSVP by emailing Lillian at lilarmstrong1@yahoo.com, just to have a rough head count.


Also, we have most of what we need already. We could use donations of the following items:


Creamer and milk for coffee

Juice or other beverage

Bacon


**If you're willing to cook a bunch of bacon at home, you can always bring it over cooked and we'll crisp it up! 


Lastly, let Lillian know if you'd like to come early, around 5:15 pm to help.

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2026 Liturgical Calendars

Radzieta Funeral Home has provided liturgical calendars to St. Mary's. They can be found in the parish hall, and church narthex. Please help yourself to one.

Forward Day By Day for 
February, March and April

The new year is a wonderful time to start or renew a habit of daily scripture reading. Forward Day by Day makes it easy, with daily scripture listings and reflections, prayer and action. Pick one up …and your new year habit begins!


The February, March and April 2026 edition of Forward Day by Day is available in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for someone who may enjoy this devotional. If you would like us to mail one to you, please contact the church office. 609.368.5922

Stewardship Minute

Stewardship packets were mailed. If you did not receive one and would like to, please let the church office know. 609.368.5922 jultaylor9425@gmail.com


You may read the Stewardship letter from Larry Schmidt, St. Mary's Stewardship Chair, at this link.

Your 2026 Pledge Form is Online for your convenience. 

Click here.

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@StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
    
  • We accept donations via Venmo! @StMarysStoneHarbor

http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Sunday Coffee Hour


Please join us for Coffee Hour on Sundays in the parish hall.

It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.

If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.

You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!


CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.


Fifth Sunday After the Epiphany

Isaiah 58:1-9a, [9b-12]

1 Corinthians 2:1-12, [13-16]

Matthew 5:13-20

Psalm 112:1-9, (10) 

Worship Services


Sunday Service Time: 10:00 AM

St. Mary's 2025 Vestry

Sr. Warden

Lillian Armstrong


Jr. Warden/Clerk of the Vestry

Dina Ziemba

 

Vestry

Cathy Johnson

Kate Rodriguez

Pat Saunders

Susan DiStefano

Larry Schmidt


Treasurer

Jack Olthuis


Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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