St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Sunday Holy Eucharist: 10:00 AM


Saturday 5:30 pm on the 
101st Street Beach Pavilion



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Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

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Saturday Worship at the Beach 5:30 pm
on the 101st Street Beach Pavilion

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Rector's Corner


Growing Wheat


There is something in us that longs to pull weeds.

We see injustice and want it gone. We see cruelty and want it stopped. We see division, hatred, violence, and deception, and every fiber of our being wants to separate good from evil as quickly as possible. It is a holy instinct in many ways. We long for God's kingdom to come.

Yet in this Sunday's Gospel, Jesus tells a story that unsettles our desire for quick certainty.


A farmer sows good seed in his field. While everyone is asleep, an enemy scatters weeds among the wheat. When the plants begin to grow, the servants notice the problem and ask what most of us would ask: "Shall we go and gather the weeds?"


The master's answer is surprising.


"No. In gathering the weeds you would uproot the wheat along with them. Let both grow together until the harvest."


To modern ears, this can sound passive, as though Jesus is asking us to ignore evil. He is doing something far more profound.


Jesus acknowledges that evil is real. Someone intentionally sowed destruction into a good field. Yet he also recognizes something we often forget. Human beings are not nearly as skilled at separating wheat from weeds as we imagine ourselves to be.


In the ancient world, the weed Jesus describes looked almost identical to wheat while it was growing. Their roots intertwined beneath the soil. Pull one too early, and you risk destroying the very thing you hoped to protect.

Perhaps that is why Jesus consistently calls us toward humility before he calls us toward certainty.


History offers countless examples of people convinced they knew exactly who the "weeds" were. Wars have been fought, neighbors rejected, entire communities excluded, all in the name of protecting the field. Again and again, innocent lives have been damaged by people who believed they were doing God's work.


Jesus invites us onto another path.


He asks us to trust that God sees more clearly than we do.

This does not mean we stop working for justice. Quite the opposite. We continue feeding the hungry, welcoming the stranger, comforting the grieving, standing with the oppressed, speaking truth to power, and planting seeds of compassion wherever we find ourselves.


Our energy belongs in growing wheat.

God's wisdom belongs to the harvest.


There is deep freedom in that distinction. It releases us from carrying a burden that was never ours to bear. We are disciples, not judges. Gardeners, not harvesters.



Perhaps the invitation this week is beautifully simple.

Instead of asking, "Who are the weeds?" we might ask, "What kind of fruit is God growing in me?"


May our lives bear witness to love that is patient, hope that is steadfast, mercy that refuses to give up, and faith that trusts God to finish the work God has begun.


Faithfully in Christ,

Mo. Allison+


HELP WANTED

The Sunday service happens every Sunday thanks to our Rector, Mo. Allison, but also because of our wonderful volunteers. If you would like to be a part of the team, please let Mo. Allison know. We are in need of greeters, ushers, eucharistic ministers, and if you prefer to work behind the scenes, altar guild members. Training will be available. Serving in church is not just a job—it’s a blessing! Come join the team!

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Stewardship

Stewardship is the sharing of your time, talent and treasure with your church. Stewardship packets are available. If you would like to receive one, please let the church office know. 609.368.5922 or email jultaylor9425@gmail.com


Please read the Stewardship letter from Larry Schmidt, St. Mary's Stewardship Chair, at this link.

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Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
    
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Sunday Coffee Hour


Please join us for Coffee Hour on Sundays in the parish hall.

It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.

If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.

You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!


CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.


7 Pentecost: Proper 10


 Isaiah 44:6-8

Psalm 86:11-17

Romans 8:12-25

Matthew 13:24-30,36-43



Worship Services


Sunday Service Time: 10:00 AM


Saturday Worship at the Beach 5:30 pm
on the 101st Street Beach Pavilion

St. Mary's 2026 Vestry

Sr. Warden

Lillian Armstrong


Jr. Warden/Clerk of the Vestry

Dina Ziemba

 

Vestry

Cathy Johnson

Kate Rodriguez

Pat Saunders

Susan DiStefano

Larry Schmidt


Treasurer

Jack Olthuis


Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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