St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Sunday Holy Eucharist: 10:00 am


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Rector's Corner


Life That Breathes Within Us


There are moments when the world settles heavily in the body, in your chest, in your shoulders, in the quiet places where worry lingers. The weight of relationships, the uncertainty of what lies ahead, the grief that moves in and out like the tide.


And into that reality, Paul speaks:


"To set the mind on the Spirit is life and peace."


Paul understands the human heart. He knows what it feels like to be pulled in different directions, to long for clarity while feeling unsettled within. He names this disorientation as life shaped apart from God, a life that loses its center and begins to drift. We recognize that feeling: life shaped by fear, by scarcity, by the quiet sense that everything rests on our shoulders. It leaves us tired, fragmented, longing for something deeper.


Then Paul offers a different truth:


"You are in the Spirit, since the Spirit of God dwells in you."


Dwells in you.

God makes a home within you, in your ordinary days, in your questions, in your joys and your weariness. Breathing life into places that feel stretched thin, tending to what feels fragile, holding what feels uncertain.


Where the Spirit dwells, something shifts. Gently. Steadily. A life shaped by trust begins to grow. A quiet strength emerges. A deeper peace settles in, even as life continues with all its complexity.



Paul carries this further: the same Spirit who raised Jesus from the dead now lives in us. Resurrection power moves quietly through our lives, bringing renewal in ways we may not yet fully see. What feels heavy is held within grace. What feels broken is gathered into God's care. What feels weary is being gently renewed. Even our bodies, tender and vulnerable, are included in this promise of life.


So this week, I invite you into a simple awareness:

Where is your mind resting?

What is shaping your inner life?


Then, with gentleness, turn toward the Spirit who already dwells within you.

Breathe deeply.

Let yourself be held.

Trust that life is already stirring within you.

And may that life grow in you as peace.


With love and steady hope in Christ,

Mo. Allison+

A Prayer to End All Wars


God of every nation,

Breath within every living soul,

You who formed us from the same dust

and placed within us the same fragile heart,

hear the cry of your children.


The earth trembles beneath the weight of our violence.

Cities burn.

Fields meant for harvest are soaked with tears.

Mothers cradle photographs instead of their children.

Fathers stand in silence before freshly turned soil.

And across the world the grieving ask the same question,

How long?


Merciful God,

we confess what we have done to one another.

We have chosen power over compassion,

profit over human life,

revenge over mercy.


We have told ourselves stories that make enemies of neighbors,

and in doing so we have forgotten

that every face bears your image.


Break the machinery of war, O Lord.

Unravel the hands that profit from bloodshed.

Confound the plans of those who trade human lives for strategy.

Trouble the sleep of leaders who send the young to die

while they remain far from the fire.


Turn the hearts of nations.

Let swords fall from tired hands.

Let missiles rust in their silos.

Let soldiers walk home to their families

under skies that no longer thunder with fear.


Teach us again the courage of peace.

The quiet bravery of forgiveness.

The holy discipline of seeing Christ

in the stranger,

in the refugee,

in the enemy we were taught to hate.


Raise up peacemakers in every land.

Prophets who refuse the language of domination.

Mothers and fathers who will no longer offer their children

to the altar of empire.


And where the wounds of war already scar the earth,

send your healing.

Comfort the grieving.

Strengthen the weary.

Hold the traumatized and the displaced.


Plant seeds of mercy in the ruins

so that even in the ashes

new life may grow.


God of justice and peace,

bend the arc of our history away from destruction

and toward the day your prophets promised,

when nation shall not lift up sword against nation,

and no one shall learn war anymore.


Until that day,

make us stubborn in hope,

brave in compassion,

and relentless in the work of peace.


We ask this in the name of the Prince of Peace,

who disarmed hatred with love

and showed us another way.


Amen.


" I'm very excited to announce that the Episcopal Diocese of New Jersey's ECW is having a Lenten Retreat again this year, facilitated by the wonderful Very Rev. Allison Burns-LaGreca!

See the flyer below.


Register by contacting me, at dlfesq@aol.com or via messenger, so we can plan materials and refreshments. Thank you to Linda Kinsley and St. Thomas' ECW for hosting!"


Please register by contacting Donna Freidel at dlfesq@aol.com

Strawberry Festival May 24th

Spring is right around the corner and we're already looking forward to this year's STRAWBERRY FESTIVAL to be held on Sunday, May 24th!


Volunteers prior to the event and on the day of, are very welcome! If you'd like to be part of the fun, please let Dina Ziemba or Lisa LaGreca know.

The Episcopal Diocese of New Jersey


MONTHLY TOWN HALL MEETINGS

1st Thursday of each month


7:00 PM LAY LEADERS TOWN HALL - Register



March 21: Stations of Reparation

March 21: ECW Retreat at St. Thomas, Glassboro

March 26: Chrism Mass

March 29: Palm Sunday

Around the Episcopal Church

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Easter Flowers

Spring flowers and lilies will be placed in the sanctuary at Easter. If you would like to honor or remember a loved one, please let the church office know their name and if it is a memorial or thank offering. The flowers will be available for you to take after Easter Sunday. Call 609-368-5922, email jultaylor9425@gmail.com, or you may use the attached. Deadline for insertion in the Easter leaflet is Sunday, March 29th.

Forward Day By Day for 
February, March and April

Any time is a good time to start or renew a habit of daily scripture reading. Forward Day by Day makes it easy, with daily scripture listings and reflections, prayer and action. Pick one up …and your new habit begins!


The February, March and April 2026 edition of Forward Day by Day is available in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for someone who may enjoy this devotional. If you would like us to mail one to you, please contact the church office. 609.368.5922

Stewardship Minute

Stewardship packets were mailed. If you did not receive one and would like to, please let the church office know. 609.368.5922 jultaylor9425@gmail.com


You may read the Stewardship letter from Larry Schmidt, St. Mary's Stewardship Chair, at this link.

Your 2026 Pledge Form is Online for your convenience. 

Click here.

We accept donations via Venmo!

@StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
    
  • We accept donations via Venmo! @StMarysStoneHarbor

http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Sunday Coffee Hour


Please join us for Coffee Hour on Sundays in the parish hall.

It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.

If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.

You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!


CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.


Fifth Sunday in Lent

Ezekiel 37:1-14

Romans 8:6-11

John 11:1-45

Psalm 130

Worship Services


Sunday Service Time: 10:00 AM

St. Mary's 2025 Vestry

Sr. Warden

Lillian Armstrong


Jr. Warden/Clerk of the Vestry

Dina Ziemba

 

Vestry

Cathy Johnson

Kate Rodriguez

Pat Saunders

Susan DiStefano

Larry Schmidt


Treasurer

Jack Olthuis


Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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