St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Rector's Corner


Holding Hope in an Unsettled World


There are seasons when the world feels steady beneath our feet, and there are seasons when everything feels uncertain. Many of us sense that we are living in one of those unsettled moments now. The news is heavy with stories of war and violence. Images of suffering reach us from across the globe, while here at home we continue our ordinary rhythms of work, family, and daily responsibilities. Holding those two realities at the same time can be emotionally exhausting.


For many people, especially those with loved ones serving in the military or living in regions touched by conflict, the tension is deeply personal. Even for those of us far from the bombs and sirens, our hearts are not untouched. Compassion stretches across oceans.


In times like these, I find myself returning to a passage from the Epistle to the Romans. In chapter five, Paul the Apostle writes words that have steadied Christians for centuries:


“Since we are justified by faith, we have peace with God through our Lord Jesus Christ.”


Notice what Paul does not say. He does not promise that the world will be peaceful. He does not suggest that suffering will disappear. Paul himself lived in a violent and uncertain time under the rule of the Roman Empire, a world marked by power struggles, injustice, and conflict.

Yet in the midst of that reality he speaks of peace.


This peace is not the absence of turmoil in the world. It is something deeper, a peace rooted in the knowledge that we belong to God. A peace that reminds us that even when the world trembles, the love of God has already reached toward us and holds us fast.


Paul goes on to say something that may sound surprising: suffering can lead to endurance, endurance to character, and character to hope. This is not a celebration of pain. Rather, it is a testimony that hardship does not have the final word. When we walk through difficult seasons held by the love of God and supported by community, something within us is strengthened. Hope takes root in places we did not expect.


And Paul offers perhaps the most reassuring line of all. He reminds us that God’s love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit. Love is not distant. It is not theoretical. It is present within us and among us.

That love is visible every day in the quiet ways our parish community cares for one another. It appears in prayers offered for those who are suffering. It shows up in meals delivered, in phone calls made, in hands held during difficult moments. The body of Christ becomes tangible through these simple acts of compassion.


In unsettled times, we may feel small in the face of global events. Yet the gospel reminds us that faithfulness begins in the places where we stand. We pray. We care for one another. We refuse to let fear harden our hearts. We continue to practice kindness and mercy in a world that desperately needs both.


Hope is not denial of the world’s pain. Hope is the quiet courage to believe that God’s love is still at work, even in the midst of suffering.


May we continue to be a community that holds that hope together, trusting that the peace of Christ can steady our hearts and guide our steps in the days ahead.


With love and steady hope in Christ,

Mo. Allison+

A Prayer to End All Wars


God of every nation,

Breath within every living soul,

You who formed us from the same dust

and placed within us the same fragile heart,

hear the cry of your children.


The earth trembles beneath the weight of our violence.

Cities burn.

Fields meant for harvest are soaked with tears.

Mothers cradle photographs instead of their children.

Fathers stand in silence before freshly turned soil.

And across the world the grieving ask the same question,

How long?


Merciful God,

we confess what we have done to one another.

We have chosen power over compassion,

profit over human life,

revenge over mercy.


We have told ourselves stories that make enemies of neighbors,

and in doing so we have forgotten

that every face bears your image.


Break the machinery of war, O Lord.

Unravel the hands that profit from bloodshed.

Confound the plans of those who trade human lives for strategy.

Trouble the sleep of leaders who send the young to die

while they remain far from the fire.


Turn the hearts of nations.

Let swords fall from tired hands.

Let missiles rust in their silos.

Let soldiers walk home to their families

under skies that no longer thunder with fear.


Teach us again the courage of peace.

The quiet bravery of forgiveness.

The holy discipline of seeing Christ

in the stranger,

in the refugee,

in the enemy we were taught to hate.


Raise up peacemakers in every land.

Prophets who refuse the language of domination.

Mothers and fathers who will no longer offer their children

to the altar of empire.


And where the wounds of war already scar the earth,

send your healing.

Comfort the grieving.

Strengthen the weary.

Hold the traumatized and the displaced.


Plant seeds of mercy in the ruins

so that even in the ashes

new life may grow.


God of justice and peace,

bend the arc of our history away from destruction

and toward the day your prophets promised,

when nation shall not lift up sword against nation,

and no one shall learn war anymore.


Until that day,

make us stubborn in hope,

brave in compassion,

and relentless in the work of peace.


We ask this in the name of the Prince of Peace,

who disarmed hatred with love

and showed us another way.


Amen.


" I'm very excited to announce that the Episcopal Diocese of New Jersey's ECW is having a Lenten Retreat again this year, facilitated by the wonderful Very Rev. Allison Burns-LaGreca!

See the flyer below.


Register by contacting me, at dlfesq@aol.com or via messenger, so we can plan materials and refreshments. Thank you to Linda Kinsley and St. Thomas' ECW for hosting!"


Please register by contacting Donna Freidel at dlfesq@aol.com

The Episcopal Diocese of New Jersey


MONTHLY TOWN HALL MEETINGS

1st Thursday of each month


7:00 PM LAY LEADERS TOWN HALL - Register



March 21: Stations of Reparation

March 21: ECW Retreat at St. Thomas, Glassboro

March 26: Chrism Mass

March 29: Palm Sunday

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Easter Flowers

Spring flowers and lilies will be placed in the sanctuary at Easter. If you would like to honor or remember a loved one, please let the church office know their name and if it is a memorial or thank offering. The flowers will be available for you to take after Easter Sunday. Call 609-368-5922, email jultaylor9425@gmail.com, or you may use the attached. Deadline for insertion in the Easter leaflet is Sunday, March 29th.

Forward Day By Day for 
February, March and April

Any time is a good time to start or renew a habit of daily scripture reading. Forward Day by Day makes it easy, with daily scripture listings and reflections, prayer and action. Pick one up …and your new habit begins!


The February, March and April 2026 edition of Forward Day by Day is available in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for someone who may enjoy this devotional. If you would like us to mail one to you, please contact the church office. 609.368.5922

Stewardship Minute

Stewardship packets were mailed. If you did not receive one and would like to, please let the church office know. 609.368.5922 jultaylor9425@gmail.com


You may read the Stewardship letter from Larry Schmidt, St. Mary's Stewardship Chair, at this link.

Your 2026 Pledge Form is Online for your convenience. 

Click here.

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Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
    
  • We accept donations via Venmo! @StMarysStoneHarbor

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Sunday Coffee Hour


Please join us for Coffee Hour on Sundays in the parish hall.

It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.

If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.

You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!


CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.


Third Sunday in Lent

Exodus 17:1-7

Romans 5:1-11

John 4:5-42

Psalm 95

Worship Services


Sunday Service Time: 10:00 AM

St. Mary's 2025 Vestry

Sr. Warden

Lillian Armstrong


Jr. Warden/Clerk of the Vestry

Dina Ziemba

 

Vestry

Cathy Johnson

Kate Rodriguez

Pat Saunders

Susan DiStefano

Larry Schmidt


Treasurer

Jack Olthuis


Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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