St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Rector's Corner


Learning to See Again


There is a line in this Sunday’s Gospel that has been lingering with me all week.


A man who had been blind since birth, after being questioned and doubted and investigated by everyone around him, finally says the simplest thing imaginable:


“I was blind. Now I see.”


That simple truth unsettles everyone around him.


The neighbors argue about whether he is even the same person.

The religious leaders interrogate him.

His parents are afraid to say too much.


Why? Because his healing forces people to reconsider what they thought they already knew.


The deeper message of this story is not just about eyesight. It is about spiritual vision.


All three of our readings this Sunday circle around that theme.


In the first reading from First Samuel, the prophet Samuel believes he knows what the next king of Israel should look like. He assumes strength, stature, and outward appearance must signal God’s choice. But God gently corrects him with words that echo across the centuries:


“The Lord does not see as mortals see; they look on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.”


The one God chooses is David, the youngest son, the one no one even thought to invite to the gathering.


Again and again in scripture, God sees what human beings miss.


In the letter to the Ephesians, Paul writes, “Once you were darkness, but now in the Lord you are light. Live as children of light.” Then he offers what many scholars believe was an early Christian hymn: “Sleeper, awake. Rise from the dead, and Christ will shine on you.”


Faith, in other words, is not just about belief. It is about awakening. It is about learning to see the world with new eyes.


And then comes the Gospel story of the man born blind.


What makes this story so remarkable is that the man who could not see physically becomes the one who sees most clearly. As the story unfolds, his understanding of Jesus deepens step by step. At first he calls him “the man called Jesus.” Then he calls him “a prophet.” Eventually he recognizes him as someone sent from God. Finally he kneels and says, “Lord, I believe.”


Meanwhile, the religious leaders, who are certain they understand everything, become more and more entrenched in their blindness.


It is a striking reversal.


Those who admit they cannot see clearly are the ones who receive sight. Those who are convinced they already see everything become unable to recognize the grace unfolding before them.


There is something deeply human about that.


We all carry assumptions. We all have ways of seeing the world that feel certain and familiar. But the Gospel keeps inviting us into something more spacious, more humble, more open to surprise.


Perhaps that is part of the spiritual work of Lent.


Lent is a season of clearing away the things that cloud our vision. It is a time to step back, to listen more carefully, and to allow Christ to open our eyes in ways we may not expect.


Sometimes that means seeing another person with compassion where we once saw only difference. Sometimes it means recognizing dignity where we once overlooked someone entirely. Sometimes it means discovering that God is already at work in places we had not thought to look.


The miracle in this Sunday’s Gospel is not only that a man’s eyes were healed.


The deeper miracle is that a human being came to see the truth: that he was known, loved, and noticed by God all along.


That same light continues to shine in our world today.


The question for us is simple, though not always easy:


Are we willing to let Christ open our eyes?


May this Lenten season gently awaken our hearts, soften our assumptions, and help us learn again how to see the world the way God sees it.


With mercy.

With compassion.

With love.


With love and steady hope in Christ,

Mo. Allison+

A Prayer to End All Wars


God of every nation,

Breath within every living soul,

You who formed us from the same dust

and placed within us the same fragile heart,

hear the cry of your children.


The earth trembles beneath the weight of our violence.

Cities burn.

Fields meant for harvest are soaked with tears.

Mothers cradle photographs instead of their children.

Fathers stand in silence before freshly turned soil.

And across the world the grieving ask the same question,

How long?


Merciful God,

we confess what we have done to one another.

We have chosen power over compassion,

profit over human life,

revenge over mercy.


We have told ourselves stories that make enemies of neighbors,

and in doing so we have forgotten

that every face bears your image.


Break the machinery of war, O Lord.

Unravel the hands that profit from bloodshed.

Confound the plans of those who trade human lives for strategy.

Trouble the sleep of leaders who send the young to die

while they remain far from the fire.


Turn the hearts of nations.

Let swords fall from tired hands.

Let missiles rust in their silos.

Let soldiers walk home to their families

under skies that no longer thunder with fear.


Teach us again the courage of peace.

The quiet bravery of forgiveness.

The holy discipline of seeing Christ

in the stranger,

in the refugee,

in the enemy we were taught to hate.


Raise up peacemakers in every land.

Prophets who refuse the language of domination.

Mothers and fathers who will no longer offer their children

to the altar of empire.


And where the wounds of war already scar the earth,

send your healing.

Comfort the grieving.

Strengthen the weary.

Hold the traumatized and the displaced.


Plant seeds of mercy in the ruins

so that even in the ashes

new life may grow.


God of justice and peace,

bend the arc of our history away from destruction

and toward the day your prophets promised,

when nation shall not lift up sword against nation,

and no one shall learn war anymore.


Until that day,

make us stubborn in hope,

brave in compassion,

and relentless in the work of peace.


We ask this in the name of the Prince of Peace,

who disarmed hatred with love

and showed us another way.


Amen.


" I'm very excited to announce that the Episcopal Diocese of New Jersey's ECW is having a Lenten Retreat again this year, facilitated by the wonderful Very Rev. Allison Burns-LaGreca!

See the flyer below.


Register by contacting me, at dlfesq@aol.com or via messenger, so we can plan materials and refreshments. Thank you to Linda Kinsley and St. Thomas' ECW for hosting!"


Please register by contacting Donna Freidel at dlfesq@aol.com

Strawberry Festival May 24th

Spring is right around the corner and we're already looking forward to this year's STRAWBERRY FESTIVAL to be held on Sunday, May 24th!


If you'd like to help with this delicious, fun event, please let Dina Ziemba or Lisa LaGreca know.

The Episcopal Diocese of New Jersey


MONTHLY TOWN HALL MEETINGS

1st Thursday of each month


7:00 PM LAY LEADERS TOWN HALL - Register



March 21: Stations of Reparation

March 21: ECW Retreat at St. Thomas, Glassboro

March 26: Chrism Mass

March 29: Palm Sunday

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Easter Flowers

Spring flowers and lilies will be placed in the sanctuary at Easter. If you would like to honor or remember a loved one, please let the church office know their name and if it is a memorial or thank offering. The flowers will be available for you to take after Easter Sunday. Call 609-368-5922, email jultaylor9425@gmail.com, or you may use the attached. Deadline for insertion in the Easter leaflet is Sunday, March 29th.

Forward Day By Day for 
February, March and April

Any time is a good time to start or renew a habit of daily scripture reading. Forward Day by Day makes it easy, with daily scripture listings and reflections, prayer and action. Pick one up …and your new habit begins!


The February, March and April 2026 edition of Forward Day by Day is available in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for someone who may enjoy this devotional. If you would like us to mail one to you, please contact the church office. 609.368.5922

Stewardship Minute

Stewardship packets were mailed. If you did not receive one and would like to, please let the church office know. 609.368.5922 jultaylor9425@gmail.com


You may read the Stewardship letter from Larry Schmidt, St. Mary's Stewardship Chair, at this link.

Your 2026 Pledge Form is Online for your convenience. 

Click here.

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St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
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Sunday Coffee Hour


Please join us for Coffee Hour on Sundays in the parish hall.

It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.

If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.

You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!


CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.


Fourth Sunday in Lent

1 Samuel 16:1-13

Ephesians 5:8-14

John 9:1-41

Psalm 23

Worship Services


Sunday Service Time: 10:00 AM

St. Mary's 2025 Vestry

Sr. Warden

Lillian Armstrong


Jr. Warden/Clerk of the Vestry

Dina Ziemba

 

Vestry

Cathy Johnson

Kate Rodriguez

Pat Saunders

Susan DiStefano

Larry Schmidt


Treasurer

Jack Olthuis


Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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