St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Rector's Corner


Feast of St. Philip and St. James, Apostles


There is a kind of exhaustion settling over the world right now. People are weary of spin, weary of division, weary of promises that sound polished but feel hollow. We scroll through endless opinions, endless outrage, endless noise, all while quietly wondering where truth, goodness, and hope have gone.


Into that weary human condition comes the voice of Jesus in John’s Gospel:


“I am the way, and the truth, and the life.”

John 14:6


These words are often wielded like a weapon in the world, but Jesus speaks them as an invitation. He is speaking to anxious disciples whose world is about to unravel. They are frightened, confused, and uncertain of what comes next. Jesus does what he so often does, he draws them back to relationship. Back to trust. Back to love embodied in flesh and blood.


Today, May 1st, the Church remembers Saints Philip and James, two apostles who remind us that faith is rarely about having every answer. Philip is the disciple who says to Jesus, “Lord, show us the Father, and we will be satisfied.” There is something beautifully human in that request. Philip longs for clarity, reassurance, something solid to hold onto. Many of us understand that longing.


And Jesus responds with tenderness and challenge all at once: “Have I been with you all this time, Philip, and you still do not know me?”


In other words: Look at how I have lived. Look at how I have loved. Look at the healing, the mercy, the welcome, the compassion. If you want to know what God is like, look there.


That matters deeply right now.


Because the way of Jesus is not domination or cruelty dressed up as strength. It is not humiliation, fear, or endless outrage.


The way of Jesus is love with skin on it.

Truth spoken with courage.

Mercy that refuses to disappear.

Compassion that crosses boundaries.

Hope that keeps showing up even when the world feels bruised and fractured.


Saints Philip and James were ordinary people who chose to keep following that way. They did not become saints because they were perfect. They became saints because they kept saying yes to Christ in a complicated world.


So perhaps the invitation for us this feast day is simple:


When the world grows loud with anger, choose the way of Christ.

When cynicism tempts the soul, choose the truth of Christ.

When despair creeps close, choose the life of Christ.


And remember this, Jesus never asked us to save the whole world by ourselves. He simply asks us to keep embodying his love wherever we are; in our homes, our communities, our conversations, and our daily lives.


Sometimes sainthood begins in very small places.

A kind word.

A courageous truth.

A softened heart.

A refusal to give up on love.


May Saints Philip and James pray for us as we continue walking the way together.



With gratitude for each of you, and hope that is unfolding,

Mo. Allison+



Strawberry Festival May 24th

We are so excited for this year's STRAWBERRY FESTIVAL to be held on Sunday, May 24th! Homemade desserts, raffle baskets, Springe's ice cream and of course, strawberries!


Volunteers prior to the event and on the day of, are very welcome, along with desserts! If you'd like to be part of the fun, please sign up on the bulletin board in the parish hall, or let Dina Ziemba or Lisa LaGreca know.

HELP WANTED

Many people help to make the Sunday service happen. If you would like to be part of the team, please let Mo. Allison know. We are in need of greeters, ushers, eucharistic ministers, and if you prefer to work behind the scenes, altar guild members. Training will be available. Serving in church is not just a job—it’s a blessing! Come join the team!

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The May, June, July 2026 edition of Forward Day by Day is now available in each church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for someone who may enjoy this devotional. If you would like us to mail one to you, please contact the church office. 609.368.5922


Daily scripture reading is a great way to start your day. Forward Day by Day makes it easy, with daily scripture listings and reflections, prayer and action. Pick one up and enjoy!

Stewardship Minute

Stewardship packets were mailed. If you did not receive one and would like to, please let the church office know. 609.368.5922 or email jultaylor9425@gmail.com


You may read the Stewardship letter from Larry Schmidt, St. Mary's Stewardship Chair, at this link.

Your 2026 Pledge Form is Online for your convenience. 

Click here.

We accept donations via Venmo!

@StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
    
  • We accept donations via Venmo! @StMarysStoneHarbor

http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Sunday Coffee Hour


Please join us for Coffee Hour on Sundays in the parish hall.

It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.

If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.

You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!


CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.


Fifth Sunday of Easter

Acts 7:55-60

1 Peter 2:2-10

John 14:1-14

Psalm 31:1-5, 15-16

Worship Services


Sunday Service Time: 10:00 AM

St. Mary's 2026 Vestry

Sr. Warden

Lillian Armstrong


Jr. Warden/Clerk of the Vestry

Dina Ziemba

 

Vestry

Cathy Johnson

Kate Rodriguez

Pat Saunders

Susan DiStefano

Larry Schmidt


Treasurer

Jack Olthuis


Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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