St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Sunday Holy Eucharist: 10:00 AM



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Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

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Rector's Corner


Held by a Love That Remains


There is something deeply human about wanting reassurance.


We want certainty about tomorrow. We want guarantees that the people we love will stay. We want stability in a world that feels increasingly loud, fractured, and uncertain. We want to know that when grief arrives, when change comes, when life shifts beneath our feet, we will somehow still be held together.


In this Sunday's Gospel, John 14:15–21, Jesus speaks directly into that ache.


The disciples can already feel the tension rising around them. The room is heavy with fear and confusion. Their world is about to change forever. And Jesus, knowing their hearts, says something astonishing:


“I will not leave you orphaned.”


What tender words.


Jesus does offer them a roadmap with every answer neatly explained. He offers them presence. He promises the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, the One who comes alongside us. The Spirit who steadies trembling hearts, whispers truth amid confusion, and reminds us that divine love still moves through the world even when the future feels unclear.


That promise matters now.


Many of us are carrying quiet burdens. Some are navigating anxiety. Some are grieving the world as it once was. Some feel weary from the constant noise of division, outrage, and uncertainty. Others are simply trying to hold together family, faith, work, finances, relationships, and hope all at once.


And yet here comes Christ saying:


You are not abandoned.

You are accompanied.

You are held by a love that remains.


The Gospel reminds us that faith is far more than believing certain things about God. Faith is learning to live as people who trust that God is still present, still speaking, still breathing life into weary souls and weary communities.


Jesus says, “If you love me, you will keep my commandments.” At first glance, that can sound heavy. Yet the commandment Jesus returns to again and again is beautifully simple: love one another.


Love becomes the evidence of God’s presence among us.


Every act of compassion matters. Every gesture of mercy matters. Every time we choose gentleness over contempt, hope over cynicism, truth over fear, we bear witness to the Spirit still alive within us.


The world may reward outrage and power. Christ continues to call us toward love, courage, mercy, and peace.


And perhaps that is the holy work before us now.


To become people who carry the presence of Christ into anxious rooms.

To become steady voices in unstable times.

To become reminders to one another that resurrection still has something to say.


Because the promise of Easter continues beyond one Sunday morning.


“I will not leave you orphaned.”


May those words settle deeply into your spirit this week.

May they meet you in whatever you are carrying.

And may the Spirit of truth and love guide us ever forward together.



With gratitude for each of you, and hope that is unfolding,

Mo. Allison+



Strawberry Festival Sunday, May 24th

We are very excited for this year's STRAWBERRY FESTIVAL to be held on Sunday, May 24th! Homemade desserts, raffle baskets, Springe's ice cream and of course, strawberries!


Volunteers prior to the event and on the day of, are very welcome, along with desserts! If you'd like to be part of the fun, please sign up on the bulletin board in the parish hall, or let Dina Ziemba or Lisa LaGreca know.

HELP WANTED

Many people help to make the Sunday service happen. If you would like to be part of the team, please let Mo. Allison know. We are in need of greeters, ushers, eucharistic ministers, and if you prefer to work behind the scenes, altar guild members. Training will be available. Serving in church is not just a job—it’s a blessing! Come join the team!

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The May, June, July 2026 edition of Forward Day by Day is now available in each church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for someone who may enjoy this devotional. If you would like us to mail one to you, please contact the church office. 609.368.5922


Daily scripture reading is a great way to start your day. Forward Day by Day makes it easy, with daily scripture listings and reflections, prayer and action. Pick one up and enjoy!

Stewardship Minute

Stewardship packets were mailed. If you did not receive one and would like to, please let the church office know. 609.368.5922 or email jultaylor9425@gmail.com


You may read the Stewardship letter from Larry Schmidt, St. Mary's Stewardship Chair, at this link.

Your 2026 Pledge Form is Online for your convenience. 

Click here.

We accept donations via Venmo!

@StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
    
  • We accept donations via Venmo! @StMarysStoneHarbor

http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Sunday Coffee Hour


Please join us for Coffee Hour on Sundays in the parish hall.

It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.

If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.

You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!


CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.


Sixth Sunday of Easter

Acts 17:22-31

1 Peter 3:13-22

John 14:15-21

Psalm 66:7-18

Worship Services


Sunday Service Time: 10:00 AM

St. Mary's 2026 Vestry

Sr. Warden

Lillian Armstrong


Jr. Warden/Clerk of the Vestry

Dina Ziemba

 

Vestry

Cathy Johnson

Kate Rodriguez

Pat Saunders

Susan DiStefano

Larry Schmidt


Treasurer

Jack Olthuis


Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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