St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


All are welcome. Please join us!

Staying Connected

WELCOME HOME!

Worship with us:

Sunday at 9:00 am in the sanctuary

in person and Live on Facebook


All Saints' Sunday

NOTICE of Convocation Meeting


DATE - Tuesday, Nov. 21

TIME - 6:00 pm until 8:00 or so

LOCATION - St. Stephen's in Waretown


***Delegates, please inform Mo. Allison if you plan to attend.***

It's Stewardship time!

Everyone should have received a packet in the mail. Pledges are due by Sunday, November 19th. Pledges are the foundation of the budgeting process for next year, so everyone's participation is important. If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to reach out to Lillian or Jack. Thank you!


You can make your pledge now by clicking the link below.


Remember to pledge your support!

Pledge Now!

We are now accepting donations via Venmo!

@StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Rector's Corner

Celebrating The Branches Outreach in Light of The Great Commission


When Jesus issued the Great Commission, it wasn't merely a task – it was a transfer of authority, trust, and empowerment. He entrusted His disciples to go out and continue His work, assuring them of His everlasting presence.


In the spirit of the Great Commission, where Jesus called upon His disciples to reach out and make a difference in all corners of the world, our vestry came together one year ago to reflect upon the path of the Branches Outreach and our ability to remain the controlling entity effectively.


Guided by prayer and a heart for service, we deeply considered the pressing needs of our community here and in Rio Grande. It became clearly evident that while our congregation is mighty in spirit, we are limited as an aging congregation in size, finances, and various resources as well as bound by certain church regulations. We realized that these constraints might be limiting the Branches Outreach from reaching its fullest potential in serving the homeless and marginalized of Cape May County. After much prayerful discernment and with love for our community, we decided that to embody Christ's call to serve all nations truly; we should grant The Branches the autonomy it needs to flourish. This step ensures it can grow and become all God has intended, continuing its vital mission of care and service.


This past Sunday, our vestry finalized this important decision, and The Branches is well on its way to establishing their very own 501c3 with new bylaws and soon a new board to better meet the needs of God's people. The wardens, vestry, and you can be proud of this incredible selfless, dedicated, caring, and giving action.


A Celebration of Success

I want to express how significant this step is for the Branches Outreach. It's truly wonderful to witness how a seed of an idea for ministry and service has blossomed and grown into such a large, effective, and vital organization to the people of Rio Grande and Cape May County. I am truly in awe of its growth in the short three-and-a-half years of my tenure. This transition to becoming a separate and successful entity is something to be celebrated by all. For St. Mary's, as the founder, has seen many souls who came together to serve Christ and His people selflessly, giving of their time, talent, and treasure. How amazing it is that it has grown beyond our walls! For the Branches, a new chapter with unlimited potential and new resources will benefit all in need. I am sure it will successfully lead to the development of new opportunities to reach and serve God's people and to make the dream of much-needed transitional housing a reality. To God be the Glory!


I am grateful to every soul, past and present, who has dedicated themselves to this vital ministry.


The Branches Outreach, from its inception to its current state, we've seen it grow, flourish, and impact countless lives in the spirit of Christ's teachings. Granting the Branches Outreach its autonomy is akin to sending out a disciple, equipped and empowered, into the world.


The vestry's selfless action, consideration of the needs of others above oneself, hard work, and prayer are to be commended.


Why Autonomy Matters

By granting full autonomy to The Branches, we offer a selfless gift to God's people in Rio Grande. Autonomy will unlock new doors for the organization, allowing it to secure additional resources in people and funding that we at St. Mary's, with our limited capacity, would struggle to provide. It will create new opportunities to serve the marginalized and homeless more effectively and help the organization reach new heights. It will also release our little congregation from any liability. With the increasing needs of the organization and the homeless and marginalized, this is a vital step in providing the best love and care in honoring the dignity of all people, as is required of us in our Baptismal Covenant.


  • Growth & Expansion: Just as the early disciples expanded the church beyond Jerusalem, autonomy will enable The Branches to reach further, serve better, and touch more lives in Rio Grande.


  • Unlocked Potential: With autonomy comes the freedom to tap into resources and opportunities that will propel The Branches to greater heights of service and community impact.



  • Shared Responsibility: Granting autonomy doesn’t mean abdicating responsibility. It signifies trust, partnership, and a shared vision. St. Mary's has laid the foundation, and now The Branches Outreach is ready to build upon it while we continue to support and collaborate.


A New Chapter, An Unchanging Commitment

While we celebrate this significant milestone, let's remember the shared commitment and vision that brought us here. The bond between St. Mary's and The Branches Outreach remains unbroken. Our roles are evolving, but our mission remains unchanged: to serve, love, and embody Christ's teachings in the world.


In Conclusion

In granting The Branches Outreach its autonomy, we're not just celebrating the growth of an organization; we're celebrating our collective obedience to the Great Commission. We're witnessing the power of faith in action, community collaboration, and the transformative impact of love and service. As we embark on this new chapter, let’s continue to glorify God through our collective efforts, ever mindful of Jesus' promise: "And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age."


I want to thank our dedicated wardens and vestry, past and present, who tended to this matter with great care, consideration, selfless love, truthful recognition of our abilities, and dedication to our community here at St. Mary's and in Rio Grande, as well as the president of the board, staff, and volunteers of the Branches Outreach for their support, hard work, love for all of God's people, and continued ministry.


The work of the Holy Spirit is at hand. We can see it revealed in good works every single day and I look forward to how it will manifest in the future.


In abiding love and faith,

Mo. Allison+


May the peace of God that surpasses all understanding guide your hearts and minds in the days to come. Amen.

from Dr. John Curtis, Music Director

The time has come for me to say goodbye to this beautiful congregation. It was over a year ago when I received a phone call informing me that St. Mary’s was in need of a substitute organist, and I was happy to help out. I was clear with Mother Allison that I could fill in for a while, but I was not interested in becoming permanent.


Over time, though, three things started to change my mind. First, the organ here is among the best I’ve played in this area. Since the 2005 expansion, it fills the sanctuary with sound and is a joy to play. Second was the inspirational sermons I heard weekly from Mother Allison and Charlene Snyder. American Christianity these days is so divisive and confrontational, but the message here is always about inclusivity, acceptance, and love. And third is the incredibly warm welcome I’ve received from all of you in the congregation. I have appreciated all of your compliments on the music every week more than you know.


Because of all of that, I changed my mind and agreed to take on the music director position, not knowing of course that I would be moving less than a year later. I wish I could have stayed longer, but the memory of my time at St. Mary’s will be with me forever.


God bless you all!

John Curtis, Music Director


Farewell and God Bless

This coming Sunday will be John Curtis' last Sunday with us at

St. Mary's. We want to have a special coffee hour in his honor. If possible, please bring a favorite dish or breakfast treat to share.

And, Curtis McKonly will join us in saying goodbye to John. He will be taking over the bench as of November 12th. Let's welcome him to St. Mary's with our hospitality.

Thank you!

All SAINTS' SUNDAY

All Saints' Sunday will be celebrated at St. Mary's this Sunday.

A remembrance book is on the organ where you may write the names of loved ones you would like to be honored, or contact the church office by phone 609-368-5922, or email SaintMarysStoneHarbor@gmail.com and we will write the names in the book for you.

Fall Back!

Daylight Saving Time ends on Sunday at 12 AM.


Don't forget to set your clock back one hour before retiring on Saturday night!

BIBLE STUDY

Have you ever wondered why King David is so highly regarded?

Would you like to know more about him?


Are you interested in his relevance to Jesus and the messianic expectation?


Join Wednesday Bible Study this fall when we spend the year reading 1 & 2 Samuel to learn about this great king of Israel through an interactive discussion led by

Tracy Rubin, Harvard Divinity School, 2012.

(Note: Tracy is a summer member here at St. Mary's and is inviting us to join her and her home parish in this most wonderful learning adventure.)


Classes meet on Wednesday mornings from 10-11:30 and evenings from 7-8:30 September 20, 2023 through May 22, 2024, both in person and online.


Please sign up with Tracy at tgrubin3@gmail.com or 781-431-1672. The Zoom link for the year will be emailed to you.  


The companion text we use is: "The David Story: A Translation with Commentary” by Robert Alter. https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-david-story-robert-alter/1112711930?ean=9780393320770&aug=1

Forward Day by Day

Large and small print copies of Forward Day by Day for November, December and January are available in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for a friend who may enjoy receiving one.

Forward Day by Day is a booklet of daily inspirational meditations reflecting on a specific Bible passage, chosen from the daily lectionary readings as listed in the Revised Common Lectionary or the Daily Office from the Episcopal Church's Book of Common Prayer.

St. Mary's This 'n That Thrift Shop

Did you know?


Our Thrift Shop continues to be a beacon of mission and ministry out in the community. Each month is dedicated to a community organization..


For the month of October, they are collecting for Catholic Charities. They are in need of food that has a pop top. Donations may be dropped off at the thrift shop any time during the month of October.


Thank you to Debbie, our Staff, and customers for your support, donations and care.

Gold Winner of the 2022 and 2023 Best of the Jersey Shore thrift shops, This 'n That Furniture Shop is a great addition to the home goods, housewares, including small appliances, and clothing shops at This 'n That.


Don't forget the thrift shop when you're fall cleaning and re-organizing. Household items, furniture and clean usable clothing are welcome!


Remember - Upcycling is good for the planet!



Store Hours: Tuesday - Saturday 10 am - 4 pm

Donation days: Tuesday and Thursday, 10 am - 3 pm, and on the

1st Saturday of the month 10 - 3 pm.

Location: St. Mary's This 'n That, 1304 Rt. 47 So., Rio Grande, NJ 08242   609-886-7272


You can keep up with special sales and featured furniture by following them on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/St-Marys-This-N-That-Thrift-Shop-268676343298636/

The Branches Food Pantry is serving folks who are food insecure. Many are choosing between food and rent, or medication. We are so grateful to those of you who support our efforts with food donations.


At the present time we are running low on the following: peanut butter, mayo, canned fruit, ketchup, cup of noodles, eggs, bread, milk, hot dogs and diapers size 5, 6 and 7.

If you are coming our way, we would appreciate a donation of any of these items. We cannot do what we do without you. Thank you for supporting our mission at Branches.

Items may be dropped off at The Branches Outreach Center

201 Hirst Ave., Rio Grande, NJ 08242 609-886-5091


Monday – Friday: 8:30am – 1:30pm - Saturday: 10am – 12pm

Sunday: Closed

Stewardship Minute

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To All of our seasonal members and friends


Please consider making a donation or pledge for 2024 before you head home for the season.


Your support of our mission and ministry is important to us.

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
Visit our Website

We have now joined Venmo! If you have Venmo, you can donate to the church - @StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Happy Birthday to

Sarah Langston and Timothy Schellenger on

November 6th, Adelina King on November 7th, Cole Pettit on November 8th and Ronald Boldt on November 9th!

Happy Anniversary to

Clyde and Dee Pettit on November 7th!

If you would like to be remembered on your birthday or anniversary, please give us your information so we may add you to our data base. Email the church office: jultaylor9425@gmail.com or call 609-368-5922

Altar Flowers

Dedicating altar flowers in honor or memory of, or in thanksgiving for a loved one is a wonderful way to remember someone. If you would like to do so, please sign up on the chart on the bulletin board in the parish hall. After the service, you may take the flowers to enjoy or give.

Coffee Hour

Coffee Hour is held after service every Sunday in the parish hall. It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee. If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up on the sheet on the door to the kitchen. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee. Thank you!

Women's Civic Club Trip Dec. 6th


The Stone Harbor Civic Club has planned a trip to Sight & Sounds "Miracle of Christmas" in Lancaster on Wednesday, December 6th. Price $185 per person includes transportation and lunch. Contact Isabella Kelly-Prince 609-374-5054 to sign up and for more information.

Upcoming Events

12 Step Meetings in the Church Hall

Narcotics Anonymous (NA) Monday at 7:30 pm

Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) Tuesday at 8:00 pm



Memorial Day through September

Alanon Tuesday at 7:15 pm (beginners meeting in the chapel)

Alanon Tuesday at 8:00 pm (in the chapel)

Alanon Friday morning at 10:00 am

CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.

All Saints' Sunday

Revelation 7:9-17

Psalm 34:1-10, 22

1 John 3:1-3

Matthew 5:1-12

Worship Services

Tuesday - Friday 8:30 am Morning Prayer via Zoom


Third Thursday's 6:00 pm Healing Service

alternates between St. Mary's and St. Barnabas


Sunday 9:00 AM in person (church)

Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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