St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Rector's Corner



And God is able to provide you with every blessing in abundance, so that by always having enough of everything, you may share abundantly in every good work. 2 Corinthians 9:8, NRSV



Tending the Light


Dear Friends in Christ,


There is a small detail in this Sunday's Gospel that has stayed with me. Jesus tells the story of ten bridesmaids waiting for a wedding celebration. Five have brought extra oil for their lamps, while five have failed to prepare for a delay. As the evening stretches on and the bridegroom has yet to arrive, something very human happens. All ten bridesmaids fall asleep.


Even the wise ones.


And yet, Jesus concludes the parable by telling his disciples to keep awake. It is a curious contradiction until we realize that the difference between the bridesmaids was never their ability to remain awake. It was their preparation for a night that lasted longer than expected.


I suspect many of us understand something about that kind of waiting. We pray for loved ones, worry about the future, carry responsibilities, and do our best to remain hopeful in a world that can feel increasingly uncertain. Some seasons of life ask more of us than we ever imagined we would have to give. Even the most faithful among us grow weary.


What I find comforting in this Gospel is that Jesus makes room for our humanity. The wise bridesmaids experienced the same exhaustion as everyone else. Their wisdom was found in having something to sustain them through the waiting.


For us, that spiritual nourishment comes through prayer, worship, friendship, acts of kindness, and the quiet practice of living our faith each day. These are the things that replenish our hearts and help us remain faithful when life becomes difficult.


As you read this, I will be away leading a retreat, spending time with others in prayer, reflection, and the gentle work of listening for God's presence. Preparing for this time has reminded me how important it is for all of us to make room for spiritual renewal. Even those of us who spend our lives caring for others need opportunities to be cared for, to receive God's grace, and to remember that the world remains in God's hands.


I also find myself thinking about what this Gospel asks of us as a parish. At St. Mary's, we have been entrusted with a beautiful tradition of worship, hospitality, and service. Yet the light of a church is sustained by something deeper than its building or its programs. It shines through the compassion we offer, the neighbors we welcome, the prayers we share, and the ways we make Christ's love visible beyond our doors.


Our call is to tend that light together.


So this week, I invite you to consider what is nourishing your soul. Where have you found God's presence lately? What might need a little replenishing? And how might you offer a measure of light to someone whose journey has become difficult?


The Gospel reminds us that faithful living requires preparation, but it also invites us to recognize our limits and receive the grace that sustains us.


May we be a people whose lamps are filled with mercy, whose hearts remain open to one another, and whose faith continues to shine through whatever darkness the world may bring.

 

With love and gratitude in Christ,

Mo. Allison+

Rector, St. Mary’s Episcopal Church


NEW: Weekly reflection from Pat Saunders


On Growing Older


Worry may come to us as we grow older. What will happen to me if I get sick? Will I outlive my financial resources? What will happen to the planet with ongoing global warming? What will happen because of the political turmoil? Will I be a burden as I age? And so on.  


When we were younger and busier such thoughts rarely crossed our minds or at least we did not have time to dwell on them.  We have more time to think about them now.


The truth is, beyond a point, we can control little of the things which cause us worry. But there are things that we can control . Eat as well as we are able. Do the same with sleep. Years ago, I had a friend who said, "if we can eat and sleep, the rest of life will take care of itself". How true. 

 

See the good in every day so as not to waste one day that is given to us. If we can do that, we are freeer to stop worrying and start enjoying!


Pat Saunders 

pcsaunders20@gmail.com


St. Mary's Annual Cookie Stroll
Saturday, November 28th


The Cookie Stroll is coming up on Saturday, November 28th from 11 am to 1 pm! We need many bakers to bake two (or more) dozen cookies of every kind. No store-bought cookies, please.


Have friends who love to bake? Maybe they'll chip in, too!


Drop off your cookies on Friday afternoon, or before 10 am on Saturday. We place the cookies on festive platters and label them, and folks purchase an empty box for $20 and stroll around the tables to fill them with a baker's dozen.


There's also a Gingerbread Cookie decorating station for $5.00, which is very popular. 


Questions? email: saintmarysstoneharbor@gmail.com


This is a really FUN fundraiser and you get to take home cookies, too.


Stay for seashell painting to benefit Shells of Hope to assist and support children suffering from cancer and to provide funding for childhood cancer research.  

The Episcopal Diocese of New Jersey

MONTHLY TOWN HALL MEETINGS


1st Thursday of each month


7:00 PM LAY LEADERS TOWN HALL - Register



Pre-convention Hearings


All members of the Diocese are invited to attend the scheduled Preconvention Hearings as we approach convention in November.


Pre-Convention Hearings will be held on Zoom as follows:


Resolutions Hearing:

Saturday, November 7 at 10AM. Register here. This meeting will be hybrid and will also be held in person in the Small Conference Room at Diocesan House.


Email any questions to Hailey Hensley.


Notice of Diocesan Convention Schedule - November 20-21

The Diocesan Convention is a time when clergy and representatives from across our diocese gather to share in the church's polity, upholding the common mission and ministry of our Lord Jesus Christ. All are welcome to join us as we worship together, conduct business, and hear presentations about the work we have been given to do.


The 243rd Diocesan Convention of the Episcopal Diocese of New Jersey will be a two-day event to be held on November 20–21, 2026, at Trinity Cathedral. The Business Session will begin by casting the first ballot on Friday at 4 P.M. After the Business Session concludes, an optional fellowship event with heavy hors d'oeuvres will be available for $20.


The Business Session will resume on Saturday, November 21, 2026, at 9 A.M. with Holy Eucharist.


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The November, December 2026 and January 2027 edition of Forward Day by Day is available in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for someone who may enjoy this devotional. If you would like us to mail one to you, please contact the church office. 609.368.5922


We provide Forward Day by Day to parishioners as a simple and effective daily prayer practice. Each day features a Bible verse from the daily readings and a related reflection written by a different author each month, all in less than 200 words. It even includes the daily feast days, as well as prompts to take faithful action in your daily life.

We accept donations via Venmo!

@StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
    
  • We accept donations via Venmo! @StMarysStoneHarbor

http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Sunday Coffee Hour


Please join us for Coffee Hour on Sundays in the parish hall.

It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.

If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.

You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!


CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.


24 Pentecost: Proper 27

Wisdom of Solomon 6:12-16

1 Thessalonians 4:13-18

Matthew 25:1-13

Worship Services


Sunday Service Time: 10:00 AM


St. Mary's 2026 Vestry

Sr. Warden

Lillian Armstrong


Jr. Warden/Clerk of the Vestry

Dina Ziemba

 

Vestry

Cathy Johnson

Kate Rodriguez

Pat Saunders

Susan DiStefano

Larry Schmidt


Treasurer

Jack Olthuis


Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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