St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


All are welcome. Please join us!


Sunday Holy Eucharist: 10:00 am


Staying Connected

WELCOME HOME!

Worship with us:

Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

in person and Live on Facebook





Stewardship letter from Larry Schmidt, St. Mary's Stewardship Chair, is linked here.

Your 2026 Pledge Form is Online for your convenience. 

Click here.

We also accept donations via Venmo!


@StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Rector's Corner



Standing Firm in a Shifting World

(2 Thessalonians 2:1–5, 13–17)


In Paul’s second letter to the Thessalonians, we hear the voice of a pastor addressing a people filled with confusion and fear. Rumors had spread that the “day of the Lord” had already come, and the early believers felt shaken and uncertain, caught between longing for Christ’s return and the chaos of the world around them. Paul’s words still reach across time with tender authority: “Do not be quickly shaken in mind or alarmed… Stand firm and hold fast to the traditions that you were taught.”


How timely that is for us. We too live in a world where false voices rise up daily, where fear spreads faster than truth, and where the loudest message is not always the most faithful one. Whether it is misinformation in our newsfeeds, division in our politics, or despair over the violence and suffering we witness, many hearts are weary. The Thessalonians were not so different from us, they were a small community trying to live faithfully while the world around them seemed to spin out of control.


Paul reminds them, and us, that the measure of our hope is not found in the noise of the world but in the steadfastness of Christ. The “man of lawlessness” Paul describes may take many forms today: systems of greed that devalue human life, the idols of power that corrupt compassion, or the subtle lie that we are powerless to make change. Yet the truth remains: all falsehood will fade in the light of God’s presence. Evil may strut for a season, but it cannot stand before the breath of Christ.


So what does it mean to “stand firm” now? It means grounding ourselves in the love that chose us before fear ever spoke our name. It means holding fast to what we know to be true—the Gospel that calls us to love God and neighbor, to seek justice, to extend mercy, to walk humbly. It means not letting cynicism steal our capacity for compassion or allowing exhaustion to numb our hope.


Paul’s closing words are a blessing we need now more than ever: “May our Lord Jesus Christ himself, and God our Father, who loved us and gave us eternal comfort and good hope, comfort your hearts and strengthen them in every good work and word.”


In a world shaken by fear, may our community be steadfast in love.

In a time clouded by deception, may we be bearers of light.

And when the voices around us call us to despair, may we listen instead to the quiet, steady voice of Christ who says, “Peace. Be still.”


Faithfully,

Mo. Allison+


Give Us This Day Our Daily Bread

Service of Thanksgiving November 23rd

The 7 mile churches will join together in a shared ecumenical service of praise and thanksgiving on November 23rd at 2:00 pm. The service will be held at Maris Stella Church, Avalon.


If you would like to participate by singing the anthem, please come to Maris Stella prior to the service at 1:30 for a brief rehearsal.


Fellowship and refreshments will follow the service.


TOYS FOR TEENS
St. Mary's November and December outreach


Our giving basket outreach for November and December is “Toys for Teens”. We are gathering donations of toys and items for teens to help our local chapter of Toys for Tots. So often people donate toys for younger children, but the organization doesn't get many donations that are appropriate gifts for teens. We hope to collect items for teenagers that they can give to needy families this Christmas. 

Some suggested items are:

Ear buds/headphones

wireless/portable phone chargers

wallets

Bluetooth speakers

bike lights

cozy blankets

Beanbag chairs

reusable water bottles/ “Stanley” type reusable mugs

Fidget toys/Stress Balls-toys

card games like Uno

Gift Cards for 5 Below, Chipotle, Starbucks, Dunkin Donuts


Gifts should be unwrapped.

If you have any questions, please ask any vestry member.

Shopping lists for ideas may be found in the church and parish hall. Please help yourself. You may also download a list here.

Donations may be brought to the parish hall, chapel, church office, or on Sunday.

Deadline for donations is: Friday, December 5th

Holiday Cookie Stroll November 29th


This year's delicious Holiday Cookie Stroll will be held on Saturday, November 29th from 11 am to 1 pm. PLEASE help by baking cookies or on the day of the Stroll. This is a fundraiser to help support the church budget.


Sign-up sheets are in the parish hall and church. 


And please spread the word - invite your friends, neighbors, family to come and purchase holiday cookies!


2025-2026 Calendar Sale

Stone Harbor 2025-2026 calendars are available for sale featuring beautiful photography by Craig Miller of the Stone Harbor beaches and town. Cost is $20. Net proceeds from your purchase supports Citizens Veterans Advisory Committee, The Branches Outreach and the Stone Harbor Chamber of Commerce. The calendars are available in the parish hall.

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Forward Day By Day 
November, December, January

The November, December, January edition of Forward Day by Day is now available in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for someone who may enjoy this devotional. If you would like us to mail one to you, please contact the church office. 609.368.5922


Forward Day by Day is a booklet of daily inspirational meditations reflecting on a specific Bible passage, chosen from the daily lectionary readings as listed in the Revised Common Lectionary or the Daily Office from the Episcopal Church's Book of Common Prayer.

Stewardship Minute

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/

We have joined Venmo! If you have Venmo, you can donate to the church - @StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Formation/ Education

The Baptismal Covenant

p. 304-5 in

The Book of Common Prayer.

The baptismal covenant “is widely regarded as the normative statement of what it means to follow Christ” in these questions and answers, the congregation expresses the ways each of the faithful will live their faith both inside and outside the church walls.

 

The first four questions are patterned on the Apostles’ Creed, with the liturgy’s celebrant asking the people about their beliefs in each of the members of the Trinity, along with a concise understanding of their natures. Following these questions, the covenant includes five questions regarding how we, as Christians, are called to live out our faith: with firm commitment and a reliance on God’s help. (click on the picture to take you to a Larger Version)


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Diocesan Offerings

Oct. 14 - 7:00 p.m. Diocesan Fall Scripture Study begins


Nov. 1 -  Global Goals Task Force Matching Grant application deadline


Nov. 13 - Atlantic Convocation Meeting



NOVEMBER



  • 11/8 Resolution Hearing10 AM - 12 PM - Register for the hearing Via ZOOM




Convention Information


242nd Diocesan Convention

The 242nd Diocesan Convention registration is now open.  Join us at Christ Church, Toms River for the 2-day event on November 21st and 22nd.  All the details for the convention can be found here. Questions regarding registration for the two-day event? Reach out to The Rev. Canon Valerie Balling, Convention Manager.


Resolutions Hearing:

  • 11/8/25 10am Register here

Sunday Coffee Hour


Please join us for Coffee Hour on Sundays after service in the parish hall.

It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.

If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.

You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!


CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.


22 Pentecost: Proper 27

Job 19:23-27a

Psalm 17:1-9

2 Thessalonians 2:1-5, 13-17

Luke 20:27-38

Worship Services

Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

St. Mary's 2025 Vestry

Sr. Warden

Lillian Armstrong


Jr. Warden

Cheryl Lukens Oleferuk

 

Clerk of the Vestry

Dina Ziemba

 

Vestry

Cathy Johnson

Allyn Penkethman

Kate Rodriguez


Treasurer

Jack Olthuis


The Annual Report for 2024 may be downloaded here.

Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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