St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Sunday Holy Eucharist: 10:00 AM


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Sunday Service Time: 10:00 am

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Time to "Fall Back" - Don't Forget to Turn Your Clocks Back!


It’s time to prepare for the end of Daylight Saving Time!


On Sunday, November 1st, remember to set your clocks back one hour before you go to bed on Saturday night.


This means an extra hour of sleep and a little more daylight in the morning!


It’s also a great time to check the batteries in your smoke detectors.


Rector's Corner



And God is able to provide you with every blessing in abundance, so that by always having enough of everything, you may share abundantly in every good work. 2 Corinthians 9:8, NRSV



A Place to Serve


The beautiful ministry of showing up for one another


One of the things I love most about St. Mary’s is how often the Gospel comes to life in the simplest of ways. Someone notices an empty pew and reaches out to a familiar face. A parishioner quietly checks on a neighbor who has been ill. Someone sets another place at the table, offers a ride, prepares the altar, or stays a few minutes longer because another person needs someone to listen.


These moments seldom make headlines. They rarely receive applause. Yet, they are among the holiest things we do.


As we continue reflecting on our stewardship theme, Plenty Good Room, I have been thinking about what it means to make room for others through service. Jesus told his disciples, “Whoever wishes to become great among you must be your servant” (Matthew 20:26). Throughout his ministry, he demonstrated that love finds its fullest expression when it becomes an action. He washed feet, fed hungry people, touched those whom society pushed aside, and offered compassion to those who had nearly given up hope.


And then he invited us to do likewise.


Here at St. Mary’s, that invitation takes many forms. It is present in the hands that prepare our worship, the voices that lift our prayers and music, the volunteers who make our gatherings possible, and the generous hearts that support ministries extending far beyond our church doors. It is also present in the quiet hospitality of our chapel, where someone searching for peace can enter and find a sacred place to rest, pray, and perhaps begin again.


Every one of these ministries tells the same story: There is room for you here, and there is room for your gifts.


Sometimes we imagine that serving the Church requires an extraordinary talent, an abundance of free time, or the ability to take on one more responsibility. Yet some of the most meaningful ministry begins with something as ordinary as paying attention. Who needs encouragement? Who has been missing? Who might feel invisible? Where is God inviting us to offer a little more kindness, courage, or compassion?


We each have something to give, and our gifts are wonderfully different. Some serve with their hands, others with their voices, their wisdom, their prayers, or their financial generosity. Some are called to lead, while others quietly sustain the life of this parish through faithful acts of love. Together, these gifts become something far greater than any one of us could accomplish alone.


Our stewardship invitation is an opportunity to remember that the Church is more than a place we attend. It is a community of people through whom God's love becomes visible in the world. Our pledges help sustain the sacred spaces, ministries, and opportunities that allow this work to flourish. Our willingness to participate breathes life into those possibilities.


As we look toward the coming year, I invite you to consider where God might be calling you to serve, in ways both large and small. Perhaps it is a familiar ministry, or perhaps the Holy Spirit is stirring something entirely new within you. Either way, your presence matters, your gifts matter, and there is a place for you in the unfolding story of St. Mary's.


After all, Plenty Good Room is more than a promise of welcome. It is an invitation to widen the circle of love until everyone has a place at the table.


And what a beautiful thing it is when we make that room together.

 

With love and gratitude in Christ,

Mo. Allison+

Rector, St. Mary’s Episcopal Church


NEW: Weekly reflection from Pat Saunders


On Growing Older


I am old, it is the unvarnished truth. When it hit me, I thought it would bother me, but it doesn’t. I cannot move as fast, do as much as I used to, however, in this slower state, there is more time to reflect, more time to understand that every single day is precious, and to think about the needs and cares of those in this world who are hurting, to reach out to them and show compassion, if only with a smile and a kind word.


And with this slower pace, the mind may not only become more reflective, it is a time to savor the joy of every moment, to take time to enjoy the feel of the sunshine, but also to find beauty in the falling rain. Plants need both to thrive, and so do we.



Pat Saunders 

pcsaunders20@gmail.com


A Prayer for Faithful Citizenship


O God of mercy and justice, whose Kingdom is founded upon love and whose righteousness calls us into the fullness of life, guide us as we exercise the responsibilities of citizenship. Give us discerning minds, compassionate hearts, and the courage to examine our own convictions with humility. Teach us to recognize your image in every human being, to seek the welfare of our neighbors, and to resist the temptation to place power above truth or victory above love. May our choices be shaped by the teachings of your Son, our public life strengthened by integrity, and our common life enriched by justice and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.


The Kingdom of God Goes Into the Voting Booth

The Sermon on the Mount, the Beatitudes, and the moral responsibility of Christian citizenship

The Episcopal Diocese of New Jersey

MONTHLY TOWN HALL MEETINGS


1st Thursday of each month


7:00 PM LAY LEADERS TOWN HALL - Register



Pre-convention Hearings


All members of the Diocese are invited to attend the scheduled Preconvention Hearings as we approach convention in November.


Pre-Convention Hearings will be held on Zoom as follows:


Thursday, November 5 at 7PM.

**During regularly scheduled Lay Town Hall, use normal Zoom link.


Resolutions Hearing:

Saturday, November 7 at 10AM. Register here. This meeting will be hybrid and will also be held in person in the Small Conference Room at Diocesan House.


Email any questions to Hailey Hensley.


Notice of Diocesan Convention Schedule - November 20-21

The Diocesan Convention is a time when clergy and representatives from across our diocese gather to share in the church's polity, upholding the common mission and ministry of our Lord Jesus Christ. All are welcome to join us as we worship together, conduct business, and hear presentations about the work we have been given to do.


The 243rd Diocesan Convention of the Episcopal Diocese of New Jersey will be a two-day event to be held on November 20–21, 2026, at Trinity Cathedral. The Business Session will begin by casting the first ballot on Friday at 4 P.M. After the Business Session concludes, an optional fellowship event with heavy hors d'oeuvres will be available for $20.


The Business Session will resume on Saturday, November 21, 2026, at 9 A.M. with Holy Eucharist.


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The November, December 2026 and January 2027 edition of Forward Day by Day is available in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for someone who may enjoy this devotional. If you would like us to mail one to you, please contact the church office. 609.368.5922


We provide Forward Day by Day to parishioners as a simple and effective daily prayer practice. Each day features a Bible verse from the daily readings and a related reflection written by a different author each month, all in less than 200 words. It even includes the daily feast days, as well as prompts to take faithful action in your daily life.

We accept donations via Venmo!

@StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
    
  • We accept donations via Venmo! @StMarysStoneHarbor

http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Sunday Coffee Hour


Please join us for Coffee Hour on Sundays in the parish hall.

It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.

If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.

You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!


CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.


ALL SAINTS' DAY

Revelation 7:9-17

Psalm 34:1-10, 22

1 John 3:1-3

Matthew 5:1-12

Worship Services


Sunday Service Time: 10:00 AM


St. Mary's 2026 Vestry

Sr. Warden

Lillian Armstrong


Jr. Warden/Clerk of the Vestry

Dina Ziemba

 

Vestry

Cathy Johnson

Kate Rodriguez

Pat Saunders

Susan DiStefano

Larry Schmidt


Treasurer

Jack Olthuis


Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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