St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


All are welcome. Please join us!

Staying Connected

WELCOME HOME!

Worship with us:

Sunday at 9:00 am in the sanctuary

in person and Live on Facebook


The Twenty-Second Sunday after Pentecost: Proper 25

NOTICE of Convocation Meeting


DATE - Tuesday, Nov. 21

TIME - 6:00 pm until 8:00 or so

LOCATION - St. Stephen's in Waretown


***Delegates, please inform Mo. Allison if you plan to attend.***

Remember to pledge your support!

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We are now accepting donations via Venmo!

@StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Rector's Corner

The Dignity of All: A Call to Root Out Systems of Oppression Through Faith and the Episcopal Baptismal Covenant


In a world that increasingly bears the marks of division, hatred, and systemic violence, people of faith are presented with a divine imperative: to recognize and affirm the inherent dignity of every human being. Rooted in the scriptures and emboldened by the Episcopal Baptismal Covenant, we are called not merely to stand by but to act as catalysts for social change.


The Scriptural Foundation



The biblical tradition presents a compelling vision of human dignity. Created in the "image and likeness of God" (Genesis 1:27), every human being possesses an intrinsic worth that any worldly measure cannot tarnish. The Hebrew Bible teaches us about the divine mandate for justice: "Learn to do right; seek justice. Defend the oppressed" (Isaiah 1:17).


The New Testament deepens this commitment. Jesus Christ modeled a ministry centered around love, empathy, and justice. He reached out to the marginalized, healed the sick, and broke bread with sinners. In the parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25–37), Jesus taught that our neighbor is not just someone who looks like us or belongs to our community but is every human being in need.


The Episcopal Baptismal Covenant serves as a practical guide for living out these scriptural mandates. It specifically asks us to commit to "strive for justice and peace among all people and respect the dignity of every human being." This covenant is not merely a spiritual contract but a call to action that extends into the realms of social, economic, and political life.


Striving for justice and peace necessitates confronting and dismantling systems of oppression that perpetuate cycles of violence in our society. Whether these systems manifest as institutionalized racism, economic inequality, or gender discrimination, their existence is a stark violation of both our scriptural and covenantal commitments.


So, how do we, as people of faith, root out these deeply ingrained issues?


Awareness and Education: We must educate ourselves and our communities about the insidious ways that systems of oppression operate. This knowledge equips us to advocate for reforms effectively.


Community Engagement: Jesus did not minister from a palace; he was in the streets, with the people. We too must engage with our communities, joining with other faith-based and secular organizations to work toward societal change.


Policy Influence: The scale of systemic oppression demands systemic solutions. We must engage with political processes, voting with our conscience and influencing policy to enact long-lasting change.


Inclusive Dialogue: Change also comes from open conversations that include the voices of those who are oppressed. We must be prepared to listen, learn, and adapt.


Personal Transformation: This fight begins in our hearts. We must continually examine our biases, asking God to transform us into instruments of His peace.


A Compassionate Approach


In all these efforts, compassion must be our guide. Confronting systems of oppression is not an act of hostility but an act of love. It is seeking the Kingdom of God "on earth as it is in heaven" (Matthew 6:10). In every oppressed person, we must see the face of Christ, who himself was oppressed and crucified yet rose again to bring hope to the world.


Through the prism of compassion and armed with the Episcopal Baptismal Covenant and the Holy Scriptures, we can root out the systems of oppression that perpetuate violence and division. Our faith not only informs this work; it demands it. And in fulfilling this divine mandate, we can inch ever closer to a world that reflects the justice, peace, and love of God.


Amen.


In abiding love and faith,

Mo. Allison+


May the peace of God that surpasses all understanding guide your hearts and minds in the days to come. Amen.

from Jane Carol Wilson, Dcn

Greetings to my friends at St. Mary’s,


With a deep sigh and a bit of a groan, well maybe a big groan, I got out my

checkbook this week and paid my real estate taxes, my sewer bill, and my water bill. I thought to myself, “Not much left for me after those payments.” But I was obligated to pay the township, what was owed the township. Actually, I’m pretty lucky. The people in Jesus’ time paid much more than we do. They paid the Temple tax, a Roman tax, plus, if you were fortunate enough to live in Galilee, you were hit with a tax from Antipater, one

of Herod’s sons who was busy with building projects to impress and please Caesar. Furthermore he continued to live a lavish lifestyle while the everyday folk could hardly feed their families. Eventually they lost their modest farms due to debt from the crushing taxes. An unexpected class of day laborers rose up replacing the ordinary peasant Galilean farmer whose land was gobbled up by the rich. Growing malnutrition from being unable to eat right gave rise to widespread disease and illness for lack of

nutrition. This historical circumstance gives us valuable historical context in

understanding many of Jesus’ parables.


From all of this we can see how Jesus’ ministry in Galilee took the form of

teaching about justice and compassion and physical and mental healing. So we can now see that the conditions in first century Palestine were not much different than many areas in the world and in many areas of our country including Cape May County.


Just as Jesus, responding to God’s call to preach and teach God’s word and to heal the sick in his time, we are called to do likewise through our Baptism and profession of faith. We do this collectively as the Church of Saint Mary’s and primarily through our annual pledge which supports our ability to gather, worship, and fellowship and to reach out in ministries of compassion, charity, and healing. So as the time approaches for us to make out pledge for 2024, we should remember these things. We should be grateful for the gifts God has given us and pass on God’s gifts of life, charity, justice, and care, to those around us who live in need.


So while I may have moaned and groaned about paying my taxes, my heart was lifted up by the fact that I have an opportunity to follow Jesus in my daily ministries. This includes making my pledge for 2024 along with the many dedicated members of Saint Mary’s Church.


Stay safe and stay close to God.



Your deacon,

Jane Carol Wilson

BIBLE STUDY

Have you ever wondered why King David is so highly regarded?

Would you like to know more about him?


Are you interested in his relevance to Jesus and the messianic expectation?


Join Wednesday Bible Study this fall when we spend the year reading 1 & 2 Samuel to learn about this great king of Israel through an interactive discussion led by

Tracy Rubin, Harvard Divinity School, 2012.

(Note: Tracy is a summer member here at St. Mary's and is inviting us to join her and her home parish in this most wonderful learning adventure.)


Classes meet on Wednesday mornings from 10-11:30 and evenings from 7-8:30 September 20, 2023 through May 22, 2024, both in person and online.


Please sign up with Tracy at tgrubin3@gmail.com or 781-431-1672. The Zoom link for the year will be emailed to you.  


The companion text we use is: "The David Story: A Translation with Commentary” by Robert Alter. https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/the-david-story-robert-alter/1112711930?ean=9780393320770&aug=1

Forward Day by Day

Large and small print copies of Forward Day by Day for November, December and January are available in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for a friend who may enjoy receiving one.

Forward Day by Day is a booklet of daily inspirational meditations reflecting on a specific Bible passage, chosen from the daily lectionary readings as listed in the Revised Common Lectionary or the Daily Office from the Episcopal Church's Book of Common Prayer.

St. Mary's This 'n That Thrift Shop

Did you know?


Our Thrift Shop continues to be a beacon of mission and ministry out in the community. Each month is dedicated to a community organization..


For the month of October, they are collecting for Catholic Charities. They are in need of food that has a pop top. Donations may be dropped off at the thrift shop any time during the month of October.


Thank you to Debbie, our Staff, and customers for your support, donations and care.

Gold Winner of the 2022 and 2023 Best of the Jersey Shore thrift shops, This 'n That Furniture Shop is a great addition to the home goods, housewares, including small appliances, and clothing shops at This 'n That.


Don't forget the thrift shop when you're fall cleaning and re-organizing. Household items, furniture and clean usable clothing are welcome!


Remember - Upcycling is good for the planet!



Store Hours: Tuesday - Saturday 10 am - 4 pm

Donation days: Tuesday and Thursday, 10 am - 3 pm, and on the

1st Saturday of the month 10 - 3 pm.

Location: St. Mary's This 'n That, 1304 Rt. 47 So., Rio Grande, NJ 08242   609-886-7272


You can keep up with special sales and featured furniture by following them on Facebook at: https://www.facebook.com/St-Marys-This-N-That-Thrift-Shop-268676343298636/

The Branches Food Pantry is serving folks who are food insecure. Many are choosing between food and rent, or medication. We are so grateful to those of you who support our efforts with food donations.


At the present time we are running low on the following: peanut butter, mayo, canned fruit, ketchup, cup of noodles, eggs, bread, milk, hot dogs and diapers size 5, 6 and 7.

If you are coming our way, we would appreciate a donation of any of these items. We cannot do what we do without you. Thank you for supporting our mission at Branches.

Items may be dropped off at The Branches Outreach Center

201 Hirst Ave., Rio Grande, NJ 08242 609-886-5091


Monday – Friday: 8:30am – 1:30pm - Saturday: 10am – 12pm

Sunday: Closed

Stewardship Minute

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To All of our seasonal members and friends


Please consider making a donation or pledge for 2024 before you head home for the season.


Your support of our mission and ministry is important to us.

Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
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We have now joined Venmo! If you have Venmo, you can donate to the church - @StMarysStoneHarbor


http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Happy Birthday to

Lawrence Schmidt on November 1st and

Linda Hendee on November 3rd!

Happy Anniversary to

Brian & Corine Reynolds on October 31st

and Mary & Ken Vavrek on November 2nd!

If you would like to be remembered on your birthday or anniversary, please give us your information so we may add you to our data base. Email the church office: jultaylor9425@gmail.com or call 609-368-5922

Altar Flowers

Dedicating altar flowers in honor or memory of, or in thanksgiving for a loved one is a wonderful way to remember someone. If you would like to do so, please sign up on the chart on the bulletin board in the parish hall. After the service, you may take the flowers to enjoy or give.

Coffee Hour

Coffee Hour is held after service every Sunday in the parish hall. It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee. If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up on the sheet on the door to the kitchen. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee. Thank you!

Women's Civic Club Trip Dec. 6th


The Stone Harbor Civic Club has planned a trip to Sight & Sounds "Miracle of Christmas" in Lancaster on Wednesday, December 6th. Price $185 per person includes transportation and lunch.

Contact Isabella Kelly-Prince 609-374-5054 to sign up and for more information.

Upcoming Events

12 Step Meetings in the Church Hall

Narcotics Anonymous (NA) Monday at 7:30 pm

Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) Tuesday at 8:00 pm



Memorial Day through September

Alanon Tuesday at 7:15 pm (beginners meeting in the chapel)

Alanon Tuesday at 8:00 pm (in the chapel)

Alanon Friday morning at 10:00 am

CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.

The Twenty-Second Sunday after Pentecost:

Proper 25

Leviticus 19:1-2,15-18

Psalm 1

1 Thessalonians 2:1-8

Matthew 22:34-46

Worship Services

Tuesday - Friday 8:30 am Morning Prayer via Zoom


Third Thursday's 6:00 pm Healing Service

alternates between St. Mary's and St. Barnabas


Sunday 9:00 AM in person (church)

Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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