St. Mary's Episcopal Church

Stone Harbor, New Jersey


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Rector's Corner


The Mind of Christ


There are some passages of Scripture that seem to meet us right where we are, and Philippians 2 is one of them.


Paul is writing to a church made up of real people, with real personalities, real differences, and the ordinary struggles that come with living in community. His answer is simple, though hardly easy: “Let the same mind be in you that was in Christ Jesus.”


Paul is not asking everyone to think alike. He is asking them to love alike.


To choose humility over ego. Compassion over competition. Service over status. To look beyond our own concerns long enough to notice the person beside us.


Then Paul points to Jesus, who did not cling to power or privilege, but emptied himself in love. He served. He humbled himself. He gave himself away.


That may be one of the most beautiful things this passage teaches us about God: God’s power looks like love poured out.


For us, that can be wonderfully ordinary. It looks like checking on someone who is lonely. Making the phone call. Bringing the meal. Offering patience when it would be easier to be irritated. Making room for another person’s voice. Choosing kindness when no one will ever know we did.


And then Paul reminds us that we do not have to manufacture this kind of life by sheer willpower. “God is at work in you,” he says.


I love that.


God is already at work in us and among us, shaping us little by little into a people who look more like Christ.


Perhaps that is prayer enough for this week:


Lord, give us the mind of Christ. Help us notice one another, love generously, hold our pride a little more loosely, and trust that you are already at work among us.


And then help us get out of the way of that grace.


In Christ,

Mo. Allison+

The Episcopal Diocese of New Jersey

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The August, September, October 2026 edition of Forward Day by Day is available in the church narthex. Please help yourself to a copy and feel free to take one for someone who may enjoy this devotional. If you would like us to mail one to you, please contact the church office. 609.368.5922


We provide Forward Day by Day to parishioners as a simple and effective daily prayer practice. Each day features a Bible verse from the daily readings and a related reflection written by a different author each month, all in less than 200 words. It even includes the daily feast days, as well as prompts to take faithful action in your daily life..

Stewardship

Stewardship is the sharing of your time, talent and treasure with your church. Stewardship packets are available. If you would like to receive one, please let the church office know. 609.368.5922 or email jultaylor9425@gmail.com


Please read the Stewardship letter from Larry Schmidt, St. Mary's Stewardship Chair, at this link.

Your 2026 Pledge Form is Online for your convenience. 

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Some ways to support St. Mary's


  • Become a member
  • Volunteer
  • The Sunday collection plate
  • Send a check payable to St. Mary's to:


St. Mary's Episcopal Church,

9425 Third Ave., Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

(Your envelope and number is not necessary, only your name.)


  • Setting up a personal online banking "bill pay" option. The bank will mail the check for you to the church office.
  • Online giving through our website at https://www.stmarysstoneharbor.org/
    
  • We accept donations via Venmo! @StMarysStoneHarbor

http://www.venmo.com/u/StMarysStoneHarbor

Sunday Coffee Hour


Please join us for Coffee Hour on Sundays in the parish hall.

It is an opportunity to get together for relaxed conversation and fellowship over a cup of coffee.

If you would like to provide a snack for coffee hour, please pick a Sunday and sign up. Nothing elaborate, just a small snack to enjoy with coffee.

You can find the sign up sheet on the door to the kitchen.


Thank you!


CHECK OUT OUR CALENDAR on our website for all activities taking place throughout the week.


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Ezekiel 18:1-4,25-32

Psalm 25:1-8

Philippians 2:1-13

Matthew 21:23-32

Worship Services


Sunday Service Time: 10:00 AM


St. Mary's 2026 Vestry

Sr. Warden

Lillian Armstrong


Jr. Warden/Clerk of the Vestry

Dina Ziemba

 

Vestry

Cathy Johnson

Kate Rodriguez

Pat Saunders

Susan DiStefano

Larry Schmidt


Treasurer

Jack Olthuis


Services, studies, and service bulletins may be accessed on our website: www.stmarysstoneharbor.org
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