My front-row, Bible-quoting, King James Version Baptist mother had a way with words and wisdom. She forever quoted Proverbs 16:18 to me: “Pride goeth before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.”

Her message was clear. When I became overly proud or arrogant, especially during sports or moments of personal success, she warned that unchecked confidence often leads to unexpected consequences. Life made sure I learned that lesson firsthand more than once. I have experienced my fair share of setbacks that arrived just as I thought I had everything figured out.

Those simple and powerful words have stayed with me throughout my life and career. In leadership, they’ve proven to be more than just advice; they’ve been a guiding principle.

In leadership, humility is not weakness. It is strength under control and confidence without arrogance. Most importantly, it’s key in building trust, motivating people, and cultivating a culture where people feel seen, heard, and valued. Humble leaders create space for others to shine. They admit when they’re wrong. They seek feedback and are open to learning, even from those they lead. This kind of leadership doesn’t just inspire respect, it fosters loyalty and drives results.

Becoming humble doesn’t mean downplaying your strengths or pretending you don’t know what you’re doing. It means you are authentic and willing to grow. Here are seven practical ways to demonstrate humility:

1. Acknowledge the contributions of others – Give credit where it's due.

2. Own your mistakes – Take responsibility and learn from them.

3. Welcome constructive criticism – Listen with the intent to understand, not defend.

4. Recognize your limitations – No one knows everything, but be willing to learn anything.

5. Help without needing recognition – Support others simply because it’s right.

6. Celebrate others’ successes – Let the spotlight shine on others.

7. Ask for help when needed – It’s not a sign of weakness. It’s a mark of wisdom.

My mother’s words still echo in my mind today. Pride may bring a moment of glory, but humility sustains a lifetime of respect. The choice is always ours. Practice humility or life will find a way to teach it. In other words, choose wisely and Be Humble Before You Are Humbled.