[ Devo-ted ] from me to you -
The truth about who God is heals the heart, mind and soul.
It was one Sabbath morning and I was walking down the hallway close to the side entrance of our church. I was a young mother still and life was full. Full of lots of “things”…not all good, but not all bad. I was happy to be a pastor’s wife. I never aspired to be a pastor’s wife before we went into pastoral ministry, but it really did suit me. I love being that someone who serves others and shows them who Jesus is…who God is…to pray with them and for them. To meet them in the nitty-gritty of this life and encourage them. So as I walk the church halls, often I put aside my own "things" in my life to greet with a warm smile and hug those who come in through the door.
This particular Sabbath morning brought lots of people through the door, which of course was not unusual. As I approached one of “the saints” to greet and give my best smile, without skipping a beat she told me that my skirt was too short for a pastor’s wife. In my head, I am thinking, She did not just say that, right??? OH.MY.WORD… If you know me well, you would know that I have two sides of me—one is the people-pleasing side and the other is the hit-‘em-back side. Here is where I blended the two for better or for worse, but I jokingly retorted as light-hearted as I could muster “and look, even more scandalous is that I am not wearing hose!” I gave her a big hug, kept smiling and moved along, but it had seared a wound into my heart that she would not only notice but chastise me in
front of all to see in that hallway.
I honestly really liked that little old lady who was as spunky as they come. But she had hurt me and hadn’t bothered to really get to know me before saying such things, such comments. It angered me too. What she didn’t know was that my skirt was too short at that time in my life because I had gained more weight than I care to admit during a very stressful season of “things.” My skirt was rising with my weight rising. Normally, I am fit and slender, but they didn’t know that about me. I was still new to them in that church as we were only a couple years into our pastoring there. On top of that, I didn’t have extra money to spend on bigger clothes, nor did I really want to surrender to the idea that I needed bigger clothes. To me, this was temporary though I felt like the circumstance-- the “thing”--was never going to get better. Lovely distorted thinking, right? I was struggling and no one in our church knew that. Adding a body shaming layer to it
was adding insult to injury and all the more painful.
Does your heart need healing? How’s your mindset these days? Is your soul thirsting in a desert of pain? Is there trauma? Experiences of hurt? Our bodies do keep the score. Are there “things” for you, too? I know there must be, for we are all human and we have been told that in this world we will have trials and tribulations, as John 16:33 tells us. But there is more to that declarative of trouble. There is a promise made— Jesus says “take heart! I have overcome the world.” Take heart, my sweet friends! Take heart!
God promises to bring healing in revealing Himself to us, by being with us, becoming One of us, in serving us, and ultimately in GIVING all for us as we see in John 3:16.
Note and just soak in God’s goodness in Philippians 2:5-8: [In your relationships with one another, have the same] mindset as Christ Jesus:
Who, being in very nature God,
did not consider equality with God
something to be used to his own advantage;
rather, he made himself nothing
by taking the very nature of a servant,
being made in human likeness.
And being found in appearance as a man,
he humbled himself
by becoming obedient to death —
even death on a cross!
Wow! Just focus your mind’s eye on this poem that is giving us a true picture of Who.God.Is! In fact, take heart!
This poem of descending down, down, down, from heaven to earth, from throne to stable, from angels to us, is showing WHO God thru Jesus is…God stooping, God lowering, God condescending—this is the overarching theme of His mindset to serve, to give! “Looking to Jesus we see that it is the glory of our God to give.” [Desire of Ages p 22]
God wants to show us Who.He.Is…He wants us to know Him. God is in the business of revealing, showing, manifesting, disclosing Himself. “So Christ set up His tabernacle in the midst of our human encampment. He pitched His tent by the side of the tents of men, that He might dwell among us, and make us familiar with His divine character and life. 'And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, and we beheld His glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father, full of grace and truth.'” John 1:14 [DA p 25]
As I personally take in this picture of God, this picture of Who.God.Is speaks so overwhelmingly that I have no words …I take in His healing, His love, His restoration of my soul, of my heart, and my body responds to this in regaining health and well-being to the baseline I was intended for. Interestingly enough, this same church didn’t handle my weight loss well either…overly fixated, with inappropriate comments by men, out loud, yes, I said out loud…and I know the women were whispering, too, not to me, of course…can you believe that??? Goodness, right? There is body shaming in being skinny, too. Not everyone intends goodwill, though I try to give the benefit of the doubt.
So, those have been interesting trials for me to walk through on the other side of my “things” and I have learned to not let it undo my story, my identity in who I am—I know where I come from and I know where I am going. Like you, like all of us, sometimes I have to fight hard to take heart and to keep God’s truth--the picture of Who.He.Is--in my view.
I am sure there are plenty of similar stories to mine. Being pastors' wives puts us all in that situation of people taking certain liberties to say things without thinking, without knowing, without …well you know…
But take heart!—The revelation of God in Christ heals the human heart.
Can you see His character? Can you see His self-sacrificing love? His self-renouncing love? His love that does not seek its own?
“Christ was treated as we deserve, that we might be treated as He deserves. He was condemned for our sins, in which He had no share, that we might be justified by His righteousness, in which we had no share. He suffered the death which was ours, that we might receive the life which was His. 'By His stripes we are healed.'” [DA p 26] Fully pause on that…
Who would do this thing? My heart thrills at seeing the character of the great Giver, and because we have the cross, we can see the depths of how far God is willing to go to GIVE—for God SO LOVES HE GAVE.
Let that wash over you…do you see Him now?
The Bible’s overarching theme of God’s story is— to Give. It is the glory of God to give…and as I fully absorb this, I want and need to be a giver! It is more blessed to give than to receive. Our calling is to give to each other.
“There is nothing, save the selfish heart of man, that lives unto itself. No bird that cleaves the air, no animal that moves upon the ground, but ministers to some other life.” “In these words is set forth the great principle which is the law of life for the universe. All things Christ received from God, but He took to give.” Which is “the character of the great Giver, the law of life.” [DA p 21]
Ready for healing?—the truth about Who.God.Is heals the heart, soul, mind, the human-to-God relationship. It heals the human-to-human relationship, even if only on my side of it, your side of it, because God does it, because I take to give, you take to give, to those around us. It heals. Ready for the secret, which is no secret, of how Jesus’ mind worked? —He, Who made Himself of no reputation, humble, death of self …to serve, to give! Yes! The revelation of God in Christ heals the human heart!
It was in July, Ellen White was still writing on the closing scenes of the life of Jesus. Her diary for July 28 shows how deeply she felt about her Subject: [4BIO 390.6]
"In writing upon the life of Christ I am deeply wrought upon. I forget to breathe as I should. I cannot endure the intensity of feeling that comes over me as I think of what Christ has suffered in our world. He was a 'man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief:...he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with His stripes we are healed' if we receive Him by faith as our personal Savior!"—Manuscript 174, 1897. [4BIO 391.1]
My heart burns in unison with Ellen White as her thoughts resonate with my own in such overwhelming intensity of feelings that I am too moved and stirred in to adequately express as I get to know our great Giver.
My sweet friends, as we take in the “things” of each new day, each new Sabbath, each now and next church, each next “saint,” whatever your “things” are, remember that an enemy hath done this…but—
Take heart, my sweet friends.
Take to give, my sweet friends.
Take the truth about Who.God.Is to heal your heart, mind and soul.
Much love and prayers to each one of you!
♥️Latonia