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The humble challah always rises to the occasion


BY RABBI HELAYNE SHALHEVET

We would never want to embarrass it. So, we cover it, hoping that it won’t notice that we bless it last — after the candles, after the wine. We say Hamotzi, take off its cover, and poof! The challah knows nothing of what has already happened and believes itself to be first. True story.


The customs surrounding the challah we eat on Shabbat abound. Dating all the way back to the Torah, the “challah” was the first portion of bread that should be given to the kohen, the priest, as an offering. We salted the offering, so today many salt the challah. 


Because we no longer have priests to give the first piece of our bread, the Talmud tells us that when we bake, we should take out a small portion of bread and burn it. The custom is called “taking challah.” Some continue this custom to this day while baking bread.


Of course, we don’t sit around a Shabbat table eating burned morsels of bread — in fact, the delicious, sweet challah is anything but. It’s so delicious that our tradition has us using two every Shabbat. Actually, it’s not at all because of how quickly two delicious challah loaves disappear from the table. According to tradition, while we were wandering through the desert a miraculous food called manna fell to sustain us each day. No manna would fall on Shabbat, and so on Friday, a “double portion” would fall. So, the two loaves of challah we place on our Friday night Shabbat table represent that double portion of manna. If we’re lucky, there will be enough of the two loaves left over for Saturday morning’s Challah French Toast.


One of my favorite customs surrounding challah comes from the way we break it. Judaism teaches that iron — or knives — are a symbol of war. So, rather than cut the challah with a knife, some have a custom of tearing the challah to symbolize that Shabbat should always be a time of peace.


Then, there is the custom specific only to Temple Beth Emeth. And that is the custom of the challah cart. The challah sits in the hallway on the cart throughout the Shabbat service and is wheeled in when we are about to say the blessing over the challah. It’s a custom that has worked for us for many years — though as with many customs, no one can seem to remember when it started, or why. 


Now, our Ritual Committee has decided on a new custom.


Beginning this Shabbat, the challah will be with us on the bimah throughout the service, not on the cart. Some customs will not change — perhaps the most important being the one to have kids bless it any time they are with us. Rather than use the knife, we’ll tear one piece of the challah (yes, kids, you can still have the traditional back-and-forth over who will make the cut — only now it will be a tear). And we will keep the tradition of eating the challah immediately after the blessing; whoever tears it, tastes it!


And perhaps most importantly, we’ll continue to cover the challah until after we’ve blessed it. A bread with such rich tradition should never be embarrassed, but rather continue to shine, center stage, as its sweetness sweetens our Shabbat.

GABRIELLE SMOLLER reached a milestone Friday night when she graduated from Havurah, completing her Temple Beth Emeth Religious School studies. She joined Rabbi Helayne Shalhevet and Cantor Lisa Ann Wharton on the bimah, along with classmates Nico Davis and Daniel Rosequist. During the service, Mark Hersh was honored for his decades of teaching, receiving a blessing, pictured above, from the rabbi and cantor and his fellow teachers on the occasion of his retirement from the classroom.

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Come welcome Shabbat at 7:30 p.m. this Friday with Rabbi Helayne Shalhevet and Cantor Lisa Ann Wharton. Joining them on the bimah will be trustee Nadine Greenberg, whose family has adopted this Music Shabbat and will be hosting refreshments after services.


YAHRZEITS: We will be remembering Jodi Sue Cohen, Mildred Golden, Melvin H. Laine, Rita Pomeranz and Bella Richman.


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IN THE TORAH

Portion: B’ha’alot’cha 8:1 – 12:16



Aaron is instructed about the kindling of the menorah in the Holy Sanctuary. Moses appoints seventy elders to assist him with the task of governing the people. And Miriam speaks ill of Moses and is punished with leprosy; Moses prays for her healing.


What do we learn from this portion? Moses’ appointing of the 70 elders to assist him in the massive task of governing the people is one of the most well-known aspects of this portion. From this, we learn the importance of asking for help, for admitting when a task is too great for us to take on ourselves. If even Moses could reach out for help with a burdensome task, surely you or I should feel empowered to do the same.

— Rabbi Helayne Shalhevet



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Temple family news

BY JOAN PERRIN


Mazel tov to Rick and Marcia Grossman on their grandson Daniel's graduation from high school. Daniel will be attending The Savanah College of Art and Design in the fall to study film production.


Mazel tov to Gabrielle Smoller on her Havurah Graduation and Mark Hersh on his retirement from the classroom.

Please email Joan Perrin at perrinjoan@aol.com with any special news you'd like to share with your temple family. She'd like to pass along your birthdays, anniversaries, new jobs, retirements, family milestones, requests for healing and news of personal losses.


COMING ATTRACTIONS

Wednesday, June 18

7 p.m.

Annual calendar planning workshop



Friday, June 20

7:30 p.m.

Pride Shabbat



Friday, July 4

7 p.m.

Family Shabbat



Temple Beth Emeth is going to Israel in February 


The link below has all of the information that you will need — itinerary, cost, what to expect ... and I hope you’ll ask me every and any other questions you have. I can’t wait to share this experience in our Holy Land with you! — Rabbi Helayne Shalhevet


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