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by the Rev. Dr. Bill Allport
Chaplain, International Seafarers’ Center, Port of New York & New Jersey
From the December 2025 Quarterly Activity Report
Autumn brings notable changes to our Port of New York and New Jersey—changes in the seasons, weather, daylight, and the rhythm of vessels. But beyond these seasonal shifts, there are the ongoing transitions in the personal lives of seafarers that we witness and support.
During one of my visits to the vessels at Port Newark Container Terminal, my work unfolded as expected—waiting for an escort from security, walking from the available space along the quay to reach the MSC Ronit R, a ship with a full crew from India.
After the usual greetings and some basic information shared at the gangway security desk, I was directed to the crew mess. Luckily, my arrival coincided with the crew’s midmorning coffee break. As various crew members came for coffee and a light snack, we chatted. Some bought SIM cards, while others inquired about shore leave and our
transport support. I took the opportunity to ask the standard questions about their experiences, their remaining contracts, their family situations, and their overall well-being—including the quality of the food provisions.
Amid the varied responses, one crew member, Manish, enthusiastically shared, “I finish this month! I go home to be married!”
I responded with joy and congratulations, and the present crew teased him with good-humored jokes concerning the challenges of married life. Laughter filled the room as
questions about his comfort, his familiarity with his fiancée, and jovial marriage advice were exchanged among the crew members.
As the crew returned to work, Manish quietly said to me, “Father, I’m a little scared. I have no one else to talk to. May I ask you a few questions?” After moving to a quieter corner of the messroom, he opened up about his concerns: the major life change ahead, marrying someone he didn’t know well, the challenges of working at sea, and the pressure of becoming a good husband and possibly a father.
Seafarers live lives that are constantly in motion; rarely is there a moment for pause. The work on vessels never stops, but beyond that, the relationships they maintain or support with others also continue to evolve. As humans, we are made for—and long for—relationships that endure, uplift, and offer grace. And, like everyone, seafarers also have
decisions to make that carry more weight as they discern life’s path and make various choices. Like the work onboard, life outside work never lets up.
It was a privilege to be there for Manish in that moment. I’m grateful that SCI meets seafarers and mariners in the midst of their work and lives—in times of crisis, yes, but we can also be present in times of personal uncertainty, during intimate and significant moments in their lives, offering support to both the seafarers and the wider port community.
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