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Taking the Bait


In her autobiography, Teresa of Avila used a turn of phrase that grabbed my attention. She described a book by writing, “The book acted like a bait to my soul.” Unfortunately, she did not name the book! But her phrase, “bait to my soul”, lured me in with another question. What acts as bait to our souls?

 

We usually think of bait as something used to catch a fish—a worm on a hook, a shiny lure, something irresistible enough to make a fish stop what it’s doing and take notice. According to Teresa, our souls have bait, too.

 

What are the things that make us stop?


The news of Dolly Parton’s death made me stop. It caught me completely off guard, and I was shocked at how sad I felt. I never expected to be that sad about a celebrity death. But Dolly has been part of the soundtrack of so many of our lives that she felt less like a celebrity and more like someone we knew.


So after her death, I tumbled out of bed, stumbled to the kitchen, and took the bait. I rewatched 9 to 5. I listened to “Songteller” on my drives to work. I watched a Dolly documentary on PBS and listened to multiple interviews and clips. I took the bait.


Bait is something that catches our attention. Our world is full of it—headlines designed to make us angry, social media posts and political ads that stir up fear, arguments that invite us to take sides, and endless notifications asking for just one more click for ‘never before seen footage’ of Jolene.


But not everything that catches our attention is bad for our souls.


Sometimes we are caught by a beautiful song, the sound of cicadas, the grandeur of a thunder storm, a memory, a scent, an unexpected kindness, the death of someone we don’t even know—or the light of a clear blue morning.


Perhaps the question isn't simply “What catches my attention?” but “What happens to my soul when I take the bait?”


Does it make me more compassionate? More grateful? More loving? Does it draw me toward God—or leave me angry, anxious, and exhausted?


One of the gifts of Well of Mercy is having space to notice. To walk slowly. To sit quietly. To pray. To let the noise settle enough that we can recognize what has been pulling at our hearts.


Dolly's life reminds us that some things catch our souls and draw us toward something good: music, generosity, laughter, kindness, and hope.


So perhaps today we might ask ourselves: What am I allowing to catch my soul? Because our souls are precious. And there is plenty of bait in the water.



Lea Slaton

Executive Director



~ October ~


Nature's Peaceful Day

Guided Hike and Forest Bathing


DAY

October 14, 2026



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Unplugging the Christmas Machine


DAY

October 28, 2026


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~ December ~


Come to the Quiet

A Guided Silent Retreat with Spiritual Direction


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December 2-4, 2026

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Advent Retreat - Hope, Peace, Joy and Love


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December 16-18, 2026


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~ January ~


Wintering: The Art of Comfortably Slowing Down


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January 13-16, 2027


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~ Sold Out Retreat? Wait List Available ~


Come to the Quiet

A Guided Silent Retreat with Spiritual Direction

October 15-17, 2026

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Relax & Ease into Sacred Time for Rest & Healing

with Healing Touch Session

October 29-31, 2026

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Conversations on Cultivating Contentment

November 3-5, 2026

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Rooted in Gratitude

A Day of Retreat with Watercolor Practice

November 11, 2026

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Gratitude!


We are so grateful to everyone who attended the ice cream social and contributed to Well of Mercy. All gifts up to $25,000 are being matched by a generous donor!


We only need $5,000 more to reach our goal of $25,000!



There is still time as the cutoff has been extended to October 5th. Hurry and make your donation count double!


Either mail a check today or click to make your donation.



Well of Mercy relies on your donations to maintain our Quiet Place. Thank you in advance for being part of this healing ministry.

~ Sharing Mercy ~


Well of Mercy continues to collect items for various non-profits. In October, Breast Cancer Awareness Month, we are so pleased to support the Go Jen Go Foundation. This is a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization dedicated to providing critical financial assistance to local individuals and families in the Greater Charlotte, NC area who are battling breast cancer. Go Jen Go was founded by Jen Pagani, a former Well of Mercy guest, who fought breast cancer for 7 years. According to the website, “Despite the hardships, Jen marveled at the amount of support she and her family were given. In the midst of financial struggles, emotional lows and constant health struggles, her friends and family were always there to lift her up and provide strength when she felt she had none. She met other breast cancer patients in the infusion room that were struggling to meet their basic needs like keeping lights on, keeping food on their table, keeping up with their bills. She began giving gift cards she received to these patients, to help them feel the support she was lucky to have from so many people. She vowed to do the same for other women, men, and their families – all fighting breast cancer. At that moment, the Go Jen Go Foundation was born and has continued to grow and serve the greater Charlotte community.”


In addition to providing financial assistance, GoJenGo also provides “Boxes of Hope” for breast cancer patients. Please consider donating fuzzy socks, chapstick, and….


Either bring items to Well or order directly through Amazon. 



Join us for our First

Christmas Festival

December 6, 2026

2-5pm


Plan to spend the afternoon at Well of Mercy sharing the property with friends and shopping for holiday gifts.

Learn more about the event and the wonderful vendors here.


When the Bees Gather

A Lesson in Communication from Nature


Recently I was given the honor of being a “foster parent” to two bee hives. This seemed like a perfect opportunity for the bees since there are plenty of flowers, clover and bee friendly food on our organic farm. Also, this seemed a perfect chance for me to support nature. Everything was going well; the bees were busy, flying in and out of their hives. Then one afternoon during my “rounds” I noticed something very different.


At first, I thought something was wrong.


There they were, spilling out of the hive entrance and covering the front of the hive in a thick, living mass. Hundreds of bees clustered together, their bodies overlapping, some hanging beneath the others in layers.


It looked almost like the hive had grown a beard.


I stood there watching, fascinated—and a little concerned. Why were so many bees outside? Why weren't they inside the hive, where I expected them to be? Or flying in and out of the hive as I had observed many times before?  


Then I learned about bearding.


Bearding is one of those remarkable behaviors that reminds us just how much is happening inside a bee colony that we cannot immediately see. When bees gather outside the hive in this way, they may be responding to heat, humidity, crowding, or the need for better ventilation. The colony is sensing its surroundings and adjusting.


In other words, the bees were communicating.


Not with words, of course. Their communication is expressed through movement, scent, touch, vibration, temperature, and countless other signals. Each bee responds to information from the environment and from the bees around her.


And somehow, collectively, they figure out what needs to happen next.


Watching the bees bearding changed the way I looked at that cluster. What initially appeared to be disorder began to look like communication, cooperation, and resilience.

  

There was something beautiful about standing quietly beside the hive and watching thousands of individual bees participate in one collective response. No one appeared to be giving instructions. No one bee seemed to be in charge. Yet the colony was responding together.


Their lives are always connected to what is happening around them.


Watching them bearding at the entrance of the hive reminded me that communication doesn't always look like conversation. Sometimes it looks like gathering. Sometimes it looks like making space. Sometimes it looks like responding to a change that everyone can feel, even if no one can explain it.


And perhaps that's a lesson worth carrying with us beyond the hive.


We live in a world filled with noise—so many words, notifications, opinions, and demands for our attention. It can be easy to forget that communication also requires listening.


The bees don't have the luxury of ignoring the signals around them. Their survival depends upon paying attention.  


Maybe ours does, too.


The next time you see something in nature, pause before deciding that something is wrong. Slow down. Take a closer look. Listen for the messages.


That is what the bees gave me that day: not an answer, but an invitation—to slow down, to observe, and to listen for the messages that don't arrive in words.


Sometimes, if we are quiet enough, we notice the natural world has been communicating with us all along.


We warmly invite you to visit the Well of Mercy and experience the quiet, the beauty, and peace of nature. A visit offers an opportunity to step away from the busyness of everyday life, reconnect with nature, and reflect on our responsibility to care for creation.


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Well of Mercy, a retreat ministry sponsored by the Sisters of Mercy of the Americas, grounded in the spirit of hospitality, provides quiet sanctuary and time in nature for reflection, rest and renewal for those choosing sacred time apart, enriching their spiritual and emotional wellbeing.