April 28, 2021
“Tell me more.”
This is the response to other people's views recommended by Neil DeGrasse Tyson, the popular astrophysicist who seeks to make science more relevant to the culture at large.
“Tell me more” reflects Tyson’s scientific approach. And, to me, "tell me more" reflects the curiosity and openness of a religious mind.
In an interview with David Marchese, Tyson discussed the polarization and division in our society, and advised the approach of “tell me more” as an alternative to a quick alignment along entrenched political or cultural lines. For instance, if someone makes a statement of value, it is easy for others to say either “that’s right!” or “that’s hogwash!” But neither of those responses reflects a curious or thoughtful stance.
When we are in relationship with people who have different views, we might try saying “tell me more,” especially when we feel ourselves beginning to feel defensive.
Being curious does not mean abandoning our values and principles. And it does not mean that we simply accept ideas without critical thought. Being curious does mean that we have a healthy level of humility, remembering that our own understanding of the world is not infallible.
Humility, curiosity, openness to change and growth: those sound like spiritual values, don’t they? Yes, scientific and spiritual development are grounded in shared characteristics.
As a community of faith, we have different ideas about what kind of society best honors the dignity of people, especially those who are vulnerable. We have different ideas about how to deal with economic and racial inequality. And we have different ideas about how to manage the transitions that are upon us. As we move forward together, may God give us the strength and security to listen and learn. Humility is a strength, not a weakness.
At the same time it is important for each person to share their own convictions. We need both the courage to listen and the courage to speak, and the rest of us need to make room for voices that tend to be overlooked in our culture. Being curious and learning goes both ways.
In the gospel of John, when two disciples meet Jesus for the first time, they ask him a question, and Jesus responds “come and see.” It seems to me that "come and see" is another version of "tell me more." These are invitations to a spiritual path of learning and growth, with humility and trust in God.
Peace,
