קישור שלום ~ Kishur Sholom

Staying Connected with the Temple Sholom Community

10 November 2025 ~ 19 Cheshvan 5786 ~ Parashat Chayei Sarah

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Chaveirim y'karim ~ dear friends,


Tomorrow marks Veteran's Day, which originated as Armistice Day - the day which formally ended World War One (11am on 11/11/1918).


Recently I was listening to an excellent show in which the presenters discussed how and why history repeats itself ... or at least rhymes with itself. One speaker noted that we know, at best, the story of three generations. In other words, we may heed what our grandparents tell us but much beyond that, we remain aloof, indifferent, and often ignorant.


And so, history repeats or rhymes.


Woe to the generation though that fails to listen to their great- and great-great-grandparents.


Remembering our veterans of today and of yesteryear is a way to honor those who have served and to make sure we march carefully into the future. Though far fewer of us have active serving family members in the military, in previous generations (particularly WW2), Jewish families were filled with veterans. My father was ROTC in college and served in the USArmy from 1957-1959. He was always proud of his service and we were fortunate that he was never sent overseas. We were lucky and not every family can claim such good fortune.


To those who have served and those families who have supported their loved ones in defense of this great nation, may this nation show its humility and gratitude for your family members and for you. Thank you.


Jewish Poet Alden Solovy offers three loving prayer-poems for this day here to help us find words with which to reflect and direct our hearts.


With gratitude for the contributions of the service men and women who serve in the air, on the land, and at sea, may they go forward with strength and pride.


Rabbi Mark Cohn


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ON-LINE RESOURCES FOR READING AND LEARNING:


Two well-defined and articulated statements from Jewish leaders in New York City following the mayoral election last week: "Zioness Statement on 2025 Election Results" (4 Nov 2025) from Zionness.org AND "Statement from UJA-Federation of New York, JCRC-NY, ADL New York/New Jersey, AJC New York and New York Board of Rabbis on the Election of Mayor-Elect Zohran Mamdani" (4 Nov 2025).


An essay that appeared last week about the Election of NYC's newest mayor sets up a fascinating and chillingly lesson in history, related to an election in Vienna in 1900. You may want to see "An Israeli 'chef' reflects on Herzl and Mamdani" which was included in Rabbi Daniel Gordis' Substack, Israel from the Inside. Rabbi Gordis closes the column with an interesting article from the NYTimes in 1934 that is worth reviewing as well.


"Deborah Lipstadt, Soviet Jewry, and Antisemitism" (4 Nov 2025) on the Jewish Review of Books Podcast. Read her article on this topic here, "Our Great Cause" from the Fall 2025 Volume. 


"Protesters fire flares, cause chaos at Israel Philharmonic concert in Paris; 4 arrested" (7 Nov 2025) by TOI Staff in Times of Israel. The key to this awful event was how the crowd responded and the show "went on."

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THANK YOU TO OUR DONORS


Thank you to the many donors who have contributed in September and October to the support of our community by donating to temple funds which enable us to operate and provide the space and structure to live engaged Jewish lives in New Milford, CT and its environs.


Thank you Lori Winterfeldt and Maureen Grey who have worked tirelessly for several months on our temple's new website!! It is up-and-running and we are so very grateful for the refresh and updates.



Rabbi's Discretionary Fund


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Nadine & Joel Friedman


General Fund


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Bruce Barrick in memory of Mimi and Saul Barrick

Denise Cohn

Trudy & Henry Cooperman in honor of Henry's birthday and the Simchat Torah Dinner

Lisa & Lee Einbinder in memory of Myrna Einbinder

Lisa Fox in memory of Rebecca Bean Fox

Randy Friedman

Joan & Sanford Ivler in memory of Dorothy Price

Eileen Kessler and Barbara Kessler in memory of Beatrice Kessler

Larry Kisver in memory of Anne Kisver

Judy Lamhut in memory of Sam Lamhut

Howard Lapidus & Joan Hucal for the cleaning of the Temple Sholom cemetery stones

Howard Lapidus & Joan Hucal in memory of Michael Hucal

Ellen & Howard Lazarus in memory of Irene Lazarus

Gene & Lee Seidler

Maura Smolover & Peter Zsiba in memory of Evelyn Smolover

Randi & Mitchell Solomon in honor of Susan and Pacey Pet

Andy & Amy Talkow

Carole & Barry Tannenbaum in memory of Harry Fromowitz

Mr. & Mrs. Laurence Thaler

POST-THANKSGIVING ONEG


Friday, November 28

Oneg (~7:30pm)


Got leftover pie?


We are looking for your favorite pie* for our oneg on Friday evening, November 28th! The rabbi is hungry already ... he promises a 'fast' service so we can get to pie sooner!


*Apple? Pecan? Key Lime? Pumpkin? All flavors welcome (well, as long as it is either dairy or vegetarian).

COMMUNITY CELEBRATION


Sunday, December 14, 3pm

JCC in Sherman


Join Temple Sholom and the JCC for latkes, sufganiyot (jelly doughnuts), and songs!



LATKES & LIBATIONS


Friday, December 19, 5:30pm

Temple Sholom


A special Hanukkah Oneg BEFORE services, sponsored in partnership with the Jewish Federation of Western CT.

Lunch & Learns: "What's Up Rabbi?"

Tuesdays at Noon


Foundational Documents of our Nation

November 11, 18, 25; December 2


Join us to find inspiration from a few of the foundational documents or seminal writings of America in order for us to prepare for the holiday of Thanksgiving and further frame this year of America celebrating 250 years since Independence.







Oy Hanukkah, oy Hanukkah!

December 9


Shine the menorah and find the dreidls - it's almost time for those eight crazy nights! Join us for a little share & tell and understanding: what's with the Hanukkah rituals?

SHABBAT SERVICE SCHEDULE


KABBALAT SHABBAT

FRIDAYS AT 6:30 PM


NOVEMBER 14 - Shabbat Chayei Sarah

NOVEMBER 28 - Shabbat Vayeitzei


DECEMBER 12 - Shabbat Vayeshev

DECEMBER 19 - Shabbat Miketz / Hanukkah



SHABBAT TORAH STUDY

SATURDAYS AT 9:30 AM

(Led by CJ Kelly)



NOVEMBER 15*, 22, 29*

DECEMBER 6, 13*, 20, 27

(*led by Rabbi Cohn)


Temple Sholom

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New Milford, CT 06776

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