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Shabbat and Candle Lighting  
for Friday, November 27, 2020 / 12 Kislev 5781  
 
Light Shabbat candles at 5:03 p.m. 
 
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Dear Congregation Kehillah and Friends,

Our Torah portion for this week is full of dreams and visions. Vayeitze is the story of Jacob's journey, leaving his parents' home en route to live with his Uncle Laban, and the years in Haran until beginning his journey back home, this time as the husband of Leah and Rachel and father of 12. En route to Haran, a frightened and very alone Jacob dreams of a ladder extending from heaven to earth. Jacob awoke from his sleep and exclaimed, "Surely God was in this place and I did not know it."

  

A kavannah/intention upon lighting the candes for Shabbat Vayeitze
 
May my prayers and actions help to link heaven and earth, making me ever aware of the presence of the Divine, knowing that we are not alone!

   
Please continue to read below for articles and thoughts on Thanksgiving-related topics (including a prayer for your tables).

Shabbat Shalom and Chag Ha-hoda'yah Sameach/Happy Day of Gratitude,   
  
Rabbi Sharfman  
 
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What we learned in school... and what we may not have learned

Most of us learned the background of Thanksgiving in school -- how the Pilgrims came to this country for religious freedom, survived a harsh first winter with the help of Squanto and the Native Americans around Plimoth Plantation, and then, in gratitude, celebrated a three-day harvest feast with their Native American friends. Later scholarship has taught us that while their impulse for religious freedom was strong, it was limited to their own and did not extend to others (hence, the founding of Providence Plantation under Roger Williams).
 
The Puritans (from England) regarded themselves as Hebraists and even sought to model the Magna Carta in that image. The religion they imported to America was based on a strict, literal read of the Hebrew and Christian Bibles, both of which they knew well. A source of information for us is William Bradford, who became the first governor of Massachusetts Bay Colony and referred heavily to the Bible in governance. In his History of Plimouth Plantation, he wrote of a strong desire to learn Hebrew so he could study "that most ancient language and holy tongue, in which the Law and the oracles of God were written and in which God and angels spoke to the holy patriarchs of old time...."
  
Knowing the Bible well, they also knew about the Feast of Tabernacles, which we call Sukkot. While they were not attempting to create Sukkot with the first Thanksgiving, there are strong parallels. The Pilgrims saw themselves as new Israelites in a new 'promised land' (America); they called their colony Little Israel and found inspiration in the commandments to observe Sukkot, a time of rejoicing during the fall harvest. Some even saw Governor Bradford as Moses, leading their people away from oppression (England) to freedom. Rejoicing at their harvest was a natural response for them, as it was for our ancestors at Sukkot. 
  
Both Sukkot and Thanksgiving are powerful reminders for us to take stock of our many blessings each and every day. 
  
As discussed at Kabbalat Shabbat, if we're truly grateful, it's not enough just to feel it or say it...let's act on it by providing for others what they cannot provide for themselves.
 
 
Keep reading for another practice idea from Tsafi Lev.
 
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"Noticing the good"

The human trait of Hakarat HaTov, literally "noticing the good" but often translated as gratitude, is a perfect character trait to find within us and to continue to cultivate more of, especially the week of Thanksgiving.

In the Passover Haggadah we are reminded of the word Dayenu, "it would have been enough." This song is based on a Psalm that reminds the Jewish People:  
 
If God had only taken us out of slavery it would have been enough. If God only gave us the Torah, that would have been enough. But there was more. We were given the Land of Israel, the Shabbat, the Holy Temple, holidays to celebrate, food to eat, drink to quench our thrust. Any one thing would have been enough of a gift, but in fact we have so much!
  
In developing our gratitude it is helpful to be "grateful for the partial." So often we have a fine day until X, or Y, or Z happens, and then suddenly we forget all the perfectly fine things that happened. Hakarat HaTov, noticing the good, reminds us to accept the good as genuinely good, and not let the negative in our life so easily overshadow the positive. As it turns out, our brains are wired to notice unpleasant threatening stimulus, but we can also notice the good.
 
I once heard a story of a Spanish sea captain who would put on his reading glasses every time he ate strawberries.
  
"Why do you do that?" his crew finally asked.
  
The captain replied, "I love strawberries. The difficult things in life always seem bigger than they really are, so I wanted the good things to appear bigger, too."
 
 
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Blessings for your Thanksgiving table 
by Rabbi Naomi Levy
 
For the laughter of the children,
For my own life breath,
For the abundance of food on this table,
For the ones who prepared this sumptuous feast,
For the roof over our heads,
The clothes on our backs,
For our health,
And our wealth of blessings,
For this opportunity to celebrate with family and friends,
For the freedom to pray these words
Without fear,
In any language,
In any faith,
In this great country,
Whose landscape is as vast and beautiful as her inhabitants.
Thank You, God, for giving us all these.  Amen.  

 
 
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And finally, from MAZON: A Jewish Response to Hunger 
 

 
Thank you for taking the time to read through these selections.
  
I am grateful for many things, including the opportunity to serve as your Rabbi and for your support of my rabbinate.

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