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Does a Smile Make You Feel Good?
Does a Smile Make You Feel Good? I read this question in our local newspaper, and the author quoted Dolly Parton – “If you see someone without a smile, give them yours.” I believe Dolly Parton was onto something.
A smile is one of the simplest things we can give another person, yet it can have a surprisingly powerful effect on both the person receiving it and the person offering it.
A smile communicates without a word: “I see you. You matter. I'm glad you're here.” For someone who is lonely, discouraged, anxious, or simply having a difficult day, that small gesture can make an enormous difference.
Tara L. Kraft and Sarah D. Pressman, in the Department of Psychology at the University of Kansas in Lawrence, conducted a study exploring the science behind the power of a smile.
What happens in the body when we smile?
Our stress response may decrease. Smiling can help the body recover from stress. Researchers at the University of Kansas found that participants who smiled during stressful tasks had lower heart rates during recovery.
Our brain receives positive feedback. Facial muscles send signals related to emotional expression to the brain. Smiling can modestly increase feelings of happiness, even when we weren't particularly happy to begin with.
Our body may relax. As emotional tension eases, we may experience less physical tension, including in our face and shoulders.
Our hearts may recover more quickly from stress. This doesn't mean smiling prevents heart disease, but research suggests it can influence short-term cardiovascular stress responses.
A large international study involving 3,878 participants across 19 countries found that making a smiling expression could increase feelings of happiness. The effects were generally modest but measurable.
What happens emotionally when we smile?
A smile can shift the emotional tone of a moment. Consider what happens when someone smiles at you unexpectedly. You feel acknowledged. A smile can convey recognition and acceptance, especially when someone feels invisible or overlooked.
You feel more connected. A warm smile can reduce social distance and make an interaction feel friendlier and safer.
Your mood can improve. Smiling and receiving smiles can encourage positive emotions and, even briefly, interrupt negative thought patterns.
You may feel a sense of belonging. Smiling signals to another person that they are welcome.
Happiness can be contagious. We often respond to another person's smile with one of our own. Research on emotional contagion suggests that positive expressions can influence the emotions of those interacting with each other.
A smile isn't a cure for grief, depression, or loneliness. No one should feel obligated to smile when they are hurting. Its power comes not from pretending that everything is wonderful but from offering genuine warmth.
We may never know what burdens another person carries, or how much our smile meant to them. But kindness doesn't have to be extraordinary to make an extraordinary difference.
A smile is a small gift of grace that can travel farther than we imagine. Share your smile with someone to help brighten their day!
Dolly Parton left us with her sweet voice, warmth, charm, and a beautiful smile!
Join us for worship on Sunday at 10:30 AM or on Facebook Live.
Bring your smile, and if you need a smile, we will give you one of ours!
Peace+
Pastor Eric
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