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All are Welcome in this Place

The House Next Door offers a safe space and a place of grace

for all who are seeking healing, wholeness, and transformation.

We do this by:

creating a welcoming environment that nurtures spiritual growth and emotional well-being.
providing spiritual direction, therapy, retreats, and workshops that deepen spiritual and mental wellness.

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A Message from Dale Selover

I have called you by name, you are mine...

You are precious in my sight and honored and I love you. Isaiah 43

Dear House Next Door Community,

On more than one occasion, I have heard my wise colleague, Ruth, say, "Jesus tells us to 'Love our neighbor as ourselves.' I can't help but wonder, what if we loved ourselves as we love our neighbors?"

I understand what Ruth is saying. Too often we are our own worst enemy -- doubting ourselves, judging ourselves, not trusting ourselves, not taking care of ourselves. I have no doubt that when we think like that, it breaks God's heart.

God's gift to us is love. Unconditional love. No strings attached love. God's greatest desire is for us to know God's love that we might love ourselves and neighbor.

During this "love month", when we see hearts scattered everywhere inviting us to love, I invite

you to rest in God's love. Below are numerous opportunities for you to do just that -- to rest in God's love, to hear and experience in a variety of ways how much God loves you.

God loves you. Just as you are. Rest in that love. It is the first step in loving yourself and your neighbor.

With Love,

Dale

The House Next Door Opportunities

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In-Person

Held on the first Saturday

of the month

at the House Next Door.

9:00 AM to 11:00 AM

Facilitated by Dr. Zan Struebing

Calling PARENTS of all ages and stages who could use some support in facilitating honest, caring, attuned conversations with their children.

Online Event

Intro to Jazzio Divina

Thursday, February 20

1:00 PM to 2:30 PM

Led by Terry Dunn, Spiritual Director

Cost: $25 - $40

Jazzio Divina is a simple practice with a small group listening to one song deeply.

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In-Person

New Jersey Angels Celebration

Thursday, March 13

6:00 PM to 9:00 PM

Join us for a special evening as New Jersey Angels honors

Pastor Dale Selover and the House Next Door.

Wine tasting, hors d’oeuvres, music and more!

Please join NJ Angels for their first spring event, Party with a Purpose, a fundraiser to benefit New Jersey Angels. Our mission is to walk alongside children, youth, and families in the foster care community by offering consistent support through intentional giving, relationship building, and mentorship.

To learn more about the event or purchase tickets CLICK ON the QRCode in the flyer.

NJ Angels Flyer

Lenten Opportunities

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In-Person

Wednesdays Away

You're invited to the February session of Wednesdays Away at Cross Roads!

The session will be held on February 5.

The February session features

Kayla Hopgood leading:'Wintering'

You're invited to the March session of Wednesdays Away at Cross Roads!

MARCH 5 ~ ASH WEDNESDAY

9:30 AM to 3:00 PM

The March session features

Dale Selover leading:

'A Different Kind of Fast'

Schedule and Registration

In-Person

Lenten Dinner Church for Pastors

at the House Next Door.

Sunday, March 9

5:00 PM- 7:00 PM

Led by Pastor Dale Selover

As we prepare for the season of Lent,

pastors are invited to Dinner Church.

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In-Person

Art.full Prayer

at the House Next Door.

Tuesday, March 18

8.30 AM Coffee / Tea

9.00 AM - 12 noon

Reflection + Meditation + Creative Practice

Led by Pat Pickard Spiritual Director + Graphic Designer and Teresa Knipper Spiritual Director + Soul Collage Facilitator

We’ll spend some time in reflection, listening and praying through Scripture. The time will be followed by a creative practice together. Everyone is welcome — there’s no requirement for writing or art skills. All materials will be provided.

Cost: $40 - $50 (sliding scale)

Registration ends on Friday, March 15, 2025

Online Event

Lenten Program

Lost and Found

Sunday, March 23

5:30 PM to 7:00 PM

Led by Carrie Allport, MTS, MA-SD

“Happy are they whose transgressions are forgiven and whose sin is put away!"

Psalm 32 is a reminder that Lent offers us a special invitation to self-examination and repentance, but what all does that entail? Are you ready to consider all the steps from Contrition to Repair that await those who believe in the power of Jesus Christ's resurrection? Reconciliation and renewal are never lost causes, but just waiting to find and be found by you this Lent.

Spring Opportunities at the House Next Door

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In-Person

A Day With the Doctors

Saints Teresa of Avila, Catherine of Siena, Therese of Lisieux, Hildegard of Bingen

at the House Next Door

Saturday, April 12

Gather: 8:30 AM

9:00 AM to 3:00 PM

Led by Lynn Miller, Director of Oasis Ministries for Spiritual Development

Please bring a bag lunch; Beverages will be provided throughout the day.

Cost: $75 – 100

A Sliding Scale Payment allows our events and retreats to be accessible for everyone.

In-Person

TIME TO REGISTER!

at Cross Roads Retreat Center

Easter Retreat for Pastors

Tuesday, April 29 - Thursday, May 1

We will begin with dinner on Tuesday and conclude late morning on Thursday.

Led by Dr. Audrey West and

Pastor Dale Selover

Opportunities for massage therapy,

reiki and spiritual direction will be

available during the retreat.

Thanks to generous gifts this event is free. But Pastors must register!

RETREAT REGISTER

Partnership Opportunities

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In-person

Co-Sponsorship Invitation: Prayer as Resistance 2.2!

March 7 - 8

The communities of Prince of Peace Lutheran Church & the House Next Door are invited to register for this event with the offer of a 20% discount code: 20LESS

The Center for Contemplative Leadership (CCL) is hosting the next installation of its Prayer as Resistance series: Notes of Rest® with Julian Davis Reid. This retreat offering invites you into the rest of God practiced in the Bible and Black music. This spring's retreat will include a live jazz concert and a live poetry reading. To learn more or register, please see the retreat website here.

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In-Person

Gathering the Graces

at the House Next Door.

Friday, April 11

Gather 9:30 am

Program 10:00 am - 12:00 pm

Lunch 12:00 pm (bring a bag lunch)

Facilitated by Lynn Miller, Director of Oasis Ministries and Dale Selover, Director of the House Next Door

An in-person gathering of Spiritual Directors to rest and companion together.

This is a free event.

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In-Person with Glenn Mitchell

Poetry Day

Poet - Wendell Berry

Saturday, April 12

Earth Day

Gather: 8:30 AM

Program 9:00 AM to 3:00 PM

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Hosted by Tricia and Ben Brown-Nystrom

at their Nobel Ewe Farm, Hershey, PA

Please bring a bag lunch; Hot and cold beverages will be provided.

Cost: $75 –$85

A Sliding Scale Payment allows our events and retreats to be accessible for everyone.

Pilgrimage

The Camino Portuguese

Savoring Spirit-led Steps from Vigo to Santiago de Compostela

May 27 - June 5, 2025

Oasis Ministries for Spiritual Development

Director, Lynn Miller

People of faith and seekers have traveled on pilgrimage across the centuries. Becoming a pilgrim pushes us outside our usual routines and comfort zones, inviting us to experience the world, others, ourselves, and God in new ways. Through crossing thresholds, meeting challenges, practicing flexibility, welcoming what is new and different, and reflecting on the journey, pilgrimage has the power to effect lasting change in our lives.

Contact Lynn Miller for questions:

lynn@oasismin.org

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Ongoing Opportunities at the HND

The House Next Door offers a safe space and a place of grace for all who are seeking healing, wholeness, and transformation.

Individual and Group Spiritual Direction

~ Where are you on your journey of faith?

~ Are you in a time of discernment?

~ Does the well feel dry?

~ Do you hunger for a relationship with God?

Labyrinth

The Labyrinth is open to the public from dawn

until dusk. If you would like to schedule an event or group walk, please email us.

Guests are invited to park at "the church next door"

Prince of Peace Lutheran Church.

Respite and Retreats at the House Next Door

If you would like to schedule an event

or time of respite, please contact us.

hnd@popnj.org

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Any questions? Email: hnd@popnj.org