By: Shelton Oakley Hersey

There are many gaps that need to be bridged between humankind. One of those gaps is not often talked about or addressed, and it is the gap between younger and older generations. ”Intergenerational mentoring works to break down the generational barriers between today’s youth and seniors. Through spending time and participating in activities together, some of the benefits for students and seniors [and all the ages in between] can be a higher sense of purpose and self-esteem. It is a truly mutually beneficial learning experience.” ( ref ) Intergenerational programs  can have a positive impact on everyone involved. They have the potential to improve the well-being of older adults, reduce stigma associated with aging and youth, while also nurturing positive youth development.

Youth today have an increasing desire to be heard and have their voices matter in the realm of adult-led dialogue and institutions. And they also have a great deal to learn from older friends and mentors who have “been there” and “done that” and have a wealth of wisdom to share.
Community elders have a role to play in the lives of younger generations and also share the desire to be heard and seen. When the fulfillment of this desire is combined with giving the gift of seeing and hearing eager youth, sparks fly, minds are changed, stereotypes broken down and hopes renewed.
Author Criss Jami has astutely observed, “We often hear about stepping outside ourselves, but rarely about stepping outside our generation.” One wonders why this rings so true? Adults are not afraid to be silly and have fun, and youth are not afraid to be serious and engage in thoughtful conversation. We are not as different as we may think. Another beloved author, Madeleine L’Engle, writes, “I am still every age that I have been. Because I was once a child, I am always a child. Because I was once a searching adolescent, given to moods and ecstasies, these are still part of me, and always will be. […] If I can retain a child’s awareness and joy, and *be* fifty-one, then I will really learn what it means to be a grown-up.”

This is why CMM – which creates spaces of engagement for both youth and adults but not often together – is offering an Intergenerational Conversation Circle on Sunday, March 1st from 4-7pm. Myrtle Baptist Church in West Newton is our host, and Pastor Darrell Hamilton from First Baptist Church in JP and I will be co-facilitating an interactive conversation on the spiritual roots of environmental justice. All ages (11 and up) are welcome to join! We will end the evening with a community meal! Click on the Eventbrite and Facebook links here to RSVP.