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The Sloop's Log
 March 2018

Newsletter of the First Parish Unitarian Universalist Church of Scituate
Our Vision
We aspire to be a beacon of liberal faith, strong community and transformative service, rooted in love.  

Our Mission
Liberal Faith: We commit to participate side-by-side across generations  in worship, religious education, social activities, environmental protection,
and social justice work—learning, sharing, and growing together.  

Strong Community : We commit to care for one another, nurture the light that shines within each of us, and support each other’s individual search for truth and meaning.
Transformative Service: We commit to pursue diversity, justice, equality, reason, and discourse;
provide inspiration through music, creativity, and the arts;
and work cooperatively to affect positive change in our commun ity and beyond.
Worship Celebrations

All services begin at 10:30 a.m. in the sanctuary.
Children and youth begin in the sanctuary with the adults to share in the opening of worship, and then leave with their teachers for Religious Education. Nursery care is available upstairs for children over
18 months, but children are welcome to remain with parents.
Sunday March 4    Listen: Where the Light Enters You
The Rev. Ms. Justine Sullivan will join Pamela Barz in leading this service. She writes about her theme: “Many Unitarian Universalists have come out of other faith traditions, often with a sense of anger or woundedness. But as Rumi says, 'the wound is where the light enters you.' If we were able to let go of resentment about the past, what gifts might we receive from the faith of our childhood? Whether you are a 'come-outer' or a 'cradle Unitarian Universalist,' might there may be pieces of your spiritual identity that you leave outside the door when you enter this meetinghouse? Come, come whoever you are with all of who you are.” The choir will sing Down to the River to Pray.  We are in need of greeters and coffee hour hosts.
Justine grew up in Scituate and got her start in church life playing and singing at the “Folk Mass” on Saturday afternoons at St. Mary’s Roman Catholic Church. She found Unitarian Universalism as an adult after many years of being unchurched. She has worked as a manager in high technology and as a social worker and psychotherapist, and in 2013 she entered seminary and was ordained as a Unitarian Universalist minister in June of 2017. Justine lives in Northborough, MA, with her wife Dale and their dog Callie and serves as the interim minister of the First Universalist Church of Essex, MA. 
Following the service, there will be a brief training session for anyone who would like to serve on the new Ushering Team. Team members are asked to commit to usher once every two months. For more information and to sign up (we are still in need of ushers for most Sundays in March), visit:

Sunday March 11                Listen: What’s the Story?
As Unitarian Universalists we don’t look to the books of the Bible as our only source of wisdom and truth. Yet we read their stories in our services as long with poetry, koans, parables, and meditations from many ages and traditions. Why? What is “Scripture” for UUs? Pamela Barz preaching. 
This is Girl Scout Sunday in the United States. Girls Scouts of all ages, present and past, are invited to wear their sashes this morning and are invite to take part in the service. Please let Pamela Barz if you’d like to be included. The Choir will sing The Ash Grove. We are in need of greeters and coffee hour hosts. Suzanne Oliver will donate the flowers for the communion table.
Sunday March 18                Listen: Pay Attention
 “Absolutely unmixed attention is prayer,” wrote the French philosopher Simone Weil. The concept of prayer can be problematic for many of us since we don’t believe in a Being who gives us what we ask for. What difference might understanding prayer as “paying attention” make? Pamela Barz, preaching. We are in need of greeters and coffee hour hosts.

Palm Sunday March 25     Listen to What Breaks Your Heart
 On Palm Sunday we remember Jesus and the multitude of other prophets and reformers whose hearts were broken by the sufferings they saw and who then acted to relieve that suffering. What is breaking our hearts open? What relief might we offer? Pamela Barz preaching. Sophie Bokavich will greet you. We are in need of a coffee hour host.
Easter Sunday April 1      Ecumenical Sunrise Service at the Lighthouse
Join Pamela Barz and other members of the Scituate clergy and community for this annual Easter dawn celebration.  If you would be interested in helping to lead singing that morning, please let Pam know.
  A Crazy Risk
Easter is a celebration of the power of life over death. But having the courage to trust that new life will emerge often requires us to be out of sync with the world – to be regarded as fools. Like Jesus and Martin Luther King, Jr. murdered fifty years ago on April 4, 1968, how can we have the courage to be fools for new life. Pamela Barz preaching. Win Lawson will offer special music for trombone. Children will receive Easter flowers at the end of the service and then will be invited to join in an Easter egg hunt, organized by Leslie Beldotti with the help of our 6 th-8 th graders.
The sanctuary will be decorated with pots of Easter lilies, tulips, daffodils, and hyacinths. Forms will be available soon for the donation of flowers.
Ministries of Hospitality
There are many opportunities for ministry each Sunday as we greet, create space for conversation, and add color to our worship. Please sign up to serve in the Sloop Room or online at the following:

Sign up to be a Greeter:
Sign up to bring flowers for the communion table:
Sign up to host coffee hour:
From the Minister  
In a corner of an upstairs room at the Unitarian Universalist Church of Saco and Biddeford, Maine, an old sign stood propped against the wall. Painted white with black letters, it proclaimed the “Five Points of New Theology” for Unitarians, first put forth by the Rev. Mr. James Freeman Clarke in 1886 in a sermon at the Church of the Disciples in Boston, the Unitarian church he founded and served for over 45 years. The five points were: 

  • the fatherhood of God
  • the brotherhood of man
  • the leadership of Jesus
  • salvation by character
  • and the progress of mankind onward and upward forever.

During the late 19 th and early 20 th centuries, these words used to be recited as an affirmation of faith in many of our Unitarian churches and the sign, consigned now to a corner, probably once had hung on the wall of the sanctuary to be read in unison on Sunday mornings. But after World War II, the use of this affirmation gradually died out and the sign became part of history because after the devastation and evil of those years, people could no longer believe in “the progress of [hu]mankind onward and upward forever.” Today we would see the other points as problematic as well, but it was that final one which first drew people’s attention. Clearly we weren’t progressing upwards toward greater love and care for one another when fifty million people, including six million Jews ,had been killed. 
But discarding a belief in progress continually onward and upward doesn’t mean we have no hope for progress. Progress, as we have seen especially in recent years, moves in the swings of a pendulum rather than in a straight line. We swung out to the future with the election of our first African American president and then back with the election of the current one. But the greater awareness of issues of privilege and prejudice seem to be readying us for another swing to a fairer and more inclusive society. Similarly, the energy and organizing following the shooting of 17 students and teachers at Marjorie Stoneman Douglas High School on February 14 is readying the pendulum for a swing many had despaired of ever seeing. 
The progress of humankind may not be like a climber steadily moving up a mountain, but as James Freeman Clarke’s contemporary and more radical colleague, the Rev. Mr. Theodore Parker, proclaimed about the abolition of slavery, in words quoted a century later by the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.,
"I do not pretend to understand the moral universe; the arc is a long one, my eye reaches but little ways; I cannot calculate the curve and complete the figure by the experience of sight; I can divine it by conscience. And from what I see I am sure it bends towards justice."
We are still part of that arc, using our combined weight and strength to swing the pendulum for the good of all.
See you in Church,   
Minister’s Schedule 
Pamela Barz is available for appointments on Mondays, Wednesdays and Thursdays and on Friday and Saturday afternoons. Tuesday is her day off.  You can reach her at or 781-412-4233.

Religious Education News

We are beginning our third term - spring term! - which runs from March 11th through June 3. All ages will continue to learn about a variety of religions from around the world, and ones just down the road.

With deep gratitude we would like to thank the winter term teachers: Jenn Mackey and Carol Sullivan (PreK-1st grade), Julianna Dunn and Ruth Kuhn (grades 2-3), Kate Glennon and Ann Svensen (Grades 4-5), and the Suttons (Grades 6-8 aka Jr. Youth).
With spring upon us, Junior Youth with have more visits to other faiths' places of worship on Saturdays or Sundays, so parents of Jr. Youth look for a planning email soon.

If you would like to be involved in the Spring semester, sit in on someone else teaching, or do a "one time" lesson, please speak with Brian or Patty Sutton, Co-Chairs of the RE Committee.

... words and deeds of prophetic women and men... 
In honor of International Women's Day on March 8th, and March as Women's History Month, Religious Education has some new Little Thinkers figures to compliment our figures from learning about world religions this year. Come by the back of the Sloop Room to meet Jane Austen, Marie Curie, Ada Lovelace and Eleanor Roosevelt. We hope they inspire all ages for years to come!

Our world religions curriculum ends this term with the nursery and kindergartners learning about Esther and Purim. They will make shakers (known as graggers) to shake whenever we hear Haman’s name. This will be the last week with Carol Sullivan and Jenn Mackey as teachers. "We have loved the curiosity, kindness, and sweet insights of this wonderful group"!

Grades 1-3 (Julianna Dunn and Ruth Kuhn, teachers) and grades 4-5 (Kate Glennon and Ann Svensen will end the term learning about Christianity (Modern American Christian denominations).

Last week, grades 4-5 explored the meaning of orthodoxy in general, introduced Orthodox Christianity, and delved into the iconography of angels. We'll end the term learning about all seven of the Christian denominations with churches right here in Scituate. Kate Glennon and Ann Svensen have "loved the positive energy of this class"!

Grades 6-8 will end the term with the Building Bridges curriculum.

SciCoRock Youth Group
The next one night, youth conference registration is now open. It will be at the Unitarian Church of Sharon on Saturday March 24th, 9:00 am- Sunday March 25th 9:00 am.
Church Matters
Notes from Beth Dubuisson, Music Director
Thanks go to Win Lawson for sharing his musical gifts with us on February 18th. We hope to reprise the music on Easter Sunday!
Guest musician Claire Decusati will be the organist for the service on March 18th. She holds a Certificate in Sacred Music from Westminster Choir College in Princeton, NJ. She lives in Duxbury.  I will be at the Music Teacher’s National Association meeting in Orlando.
New Choir members are welcome to join us and sing for choir session Five which continues through April 8th, with a break on March 18th. Rehearsals are Sunday mornings 9:00-10:00.
Our anthems for March are :
March 4th :    Down to the River to Pray  from “O Brother Where Art Thou”, an African American spiritual arranged by Sheldon Curry. This is a choir favorite!
March 11th:   The Ash Grove  arranged by Ruth Schram. In honor of Girl Scout Sunday we are singing this favorite camp fire song.
March 18th: No choir rehearsal or anthem.

March 25th: Life Calls us On, lyrics by Kendal Gibbons and music by Jason Shelton.
The annual Choir Party is Saturday March 10th at my house in Kingston. Our annual party is one of the fun perks of being a choir member!
Canvass, and Stewardship, and Pledging, Oh My!
We kicked off Canvass (or Giving) Season with Stewardship Sunday on February 11 th .  Alan Donaldson, Alma Morrison, and Ann Svensen shared stories about what First Parish means to them and why and how they give to the church. (You can read Ann and Alma’s sermon here:

March Kellerhals shared her thoughts the following Sunday, and others will be sharing their stories throughout March as we rejoice in giving to the church because the church is doing things we rejoice in!

Here’s an excerpt from Marche’s reflection:
I give to this church for a number of reasons. I am eternally grateful to all of you for providing my son with a religious education like no other, one that is an exploration rather than an indoctrination, which gives each child the opportunity to sort out their own thoughts and feelings about their spiritual beliefs... 
I give because I respect the values of the church as expressed in our Covenant, values that are now under assault in these uncaring times where greed and selfishness are considered virtues and the rights of so many are in danger. I give to support the work of the Social Justice committee and the organizations and causes that it supports that help make a difference in the lives of other people in need.
I give because I love this historic old building and realize it costs a lot of money to keep it looking its best. And most of all I give because I love this community and value all the things it has to offer, from Coffee Hour to Blue Boat Coffeehouse to the wonderful music at services. 
If we want to continue to support the things we believe in and enjoy all these services our church has to offer, then we all need to contribute both our time and our money to make these things happen. We get no financial support from outside this room. It is all up to us. We have barely covered our budget in the last few years and if we wish to continue to improve what we offer to our community then we all need to dig a little deeper. I plan to increase my contribution this year and encourage all of you that are in a position to do so to do the same. Thank you.

Also keep an eye and ear out this month for
  • What’s Happening Blurbs, Facebook Posts, and Posters in the Sloop Room about giving, our finances, and how we operate as an entirely self-funded church.

  • The Bling: Follow the money… necklaces that is! Anyone who is wearing a dollar sign necklace at church on Sundays is available to answer your giving questions and talk about the First Parish community.

  • Your Pledge Packet: It will be arriving in your mailbox next week and will include a Promise to Give 2018 card. The Canvass Team request that this card be returned to the church by March 24th so that we can get to work drafting the 2018-2019 budget.

  • Check-in Conversations: Our Canvass Team goal is to directly connect with each member or close friend of the church. This is a time to check-in with each other and hear what you rejoice in at First Parish. It’s also a time to reflect on whether our giving (however we choose to do it) is in line with our values.

Save the Date! Saturday March24 th , at 7:00 pm, we’ll close out our Giving Season with a Dinner Bash at the church hosted by your friendly 2018 Canvass Team.

We’re looking forward to talking with each of you!
The 2018 Canvass Team (Alma Morrison, Claire Sherman, Kate Glennon, Marche Kellerhalls, Jean Shildneck, Mark DaSilva, Ann Svensen, Sheri Nidositko, Pamela Barz, Cathie McGowan, Vicki Davis, and Erica Boyle.)
Walk and Talk
The Caring Committee is again hosting "Walk and Talks." Care to be on an text list that will include all interested in weekly and random walks? Weekly walks are generally Sunday afternoon, random walks will week night evenings and Saturdays. If somebody would like to lead AM walks I welcome a fellow organizer. Some weeks we will just meet at Sandhill’s parking lot as we have met in the past. Other weeks Norris, Wampatuck and other nice places. Come get some fresh air, good conversation and exercise. Kids welcome ! 
Please respond to Caring Committe Co-Chair Tracey Timmins at 781-267-0171 .
Blue Boat Coffeehouse
First Parish will host our seventh Blue Boat Coffeehouse on Saturday, March 17 th . Music runs from 6:00-9:00 pm and highlights the incredible talent of local adults and youth - while providing a fun, safe, and sober St. Patrick's Day  ... and adding a wee touch o' the Irish in the music and entertainment!
This alcohol-free, substance-free, family friendly event will be raising funds for a local non-profit organization ... this night will benefit South Shore Peer Recovery, a local organization dedicated to supporting individuals and families in recovery from substance use disorders.  
In addition to a suggested donation of $5 at the door, we also be selling refreshments.   If you are interested in baking for this event, we welcome any and all offerings! If you can indicate if nuts, etc. are included that would be helpful!
Hope you will join us! If you haven't come to a coffeehouse yet, please do!  The music is wonderful, the information is enlightening and the evening is really enjoyable ... and close by! -Cathy McGowen
Spring Church Sale - June 2, 9:00 am - 2:00 pm
This year we plan to upgrade the First Parish Spring Sale by adding crafts and brunch to the recent offerings of plants, bake sale and yard sale. 

  • Crafters are starting to make outdoor decorations for porches and yards, to paint fancy plant pots, and to come up with novel surprises. Have an idea for a craft you’d like to do? Please let us know so we can plan space for it.

  • The yard sale will feature whatever you have to sell, with a portion of the proceeds going to the church. (We ask only that you take home whatever doesn’t sell by the end of the day.)

  • The bake table will be filled with goodies and treats from our wonderful cooks – cookies, brownies, squares, candy- finger foods always do very well.

  • Plants will include both flower and vegetable seedlings, as well as perennials that are ready to be divided from your home garden. Herbs are always especially popular. Please start to plan what you can grow or dig up.

  • Some of our chefs are planning to serve a gourmet brunch from the kitchen.
Please email Alma Morrison with any question, or if you would like to help!

Unity Alliance Dinner - Wednesday, March 14th
We welcome ladies to our March 14th get together! Our hostesses for the evening are: Laura Smith, Gail Anderson, Kay Shaw, and Donna Cogliano. We are gathering at 6:30, with dinner at 7:00. There's a $5.00 dinner charge.

The Guest Speaker is Robine Andrau. Robine immigrated to the US from Indonesia when she was 8 years old, after living four years in a Japanese internment camp. She still has the metal Spam can used as a cup, a fire starter, and a torn flowered dress that were part of her daily life back then. We are fortunate to have Robine as our guest speaker.
-Roxanne Greim
We Look Forward to:

April 8                    Guest preacher Mary Margaret Earl, UU Urban Ministry
April 29                  Dedication of our new sign
June 2 Spring Fair
June 17 RE Celebration Sunday
Opportunities for Spiritual Deepening
Community Book Discussion: Tar Baby by Toni Morrison
On Tuesday March 20 at 6:30 p.m. in the Library's book group room we will discuss Toni Morrison’s 1981 novel Tar Baby, the story of a love affair with tensions from differences of class and privilege.    Toni Morrison has won the Nobel Prize and the Pulitzer Prize for her writing. There are many copies of the book in the OCLN library system. Get a copy and join the conversation! 
New Knit for Peace Group
Participants in the knitting (and other fiber arts) retreat in February decided they didn’t want it to be a one-time event, so a monthly drop-in group is beginning on the last Sunday of the month, 3-4:30 p.m. in the Library Book Group room. It is currently scheduled to meet on March 25 and April 29. Please let Pamela Barz know if you have questions.

Wednesday mornings: Craft and Conversation
Join the Fididdlers in at the church any Wednesday between 10:30 a.m. and 12:30 p.m. to participate in crafting and conversation.

Monday Night Meditation
Would you like to incorporate meditation into your spiritual practice? Would you like to learn how to meditate? Would you like to add the energy of others to your already existing practice? You are invited to come to First Parish’s bi-monthly meditation sessions on Monday nights from 7-8:30 p.m. March sessions are Monday 3/12 and 3/26 . Email Brian or Patty Sutton with any questions at or pa .
Oppotunities for Ministry
Men’s Ministry
Because of the storm, the Men’s Ministry breakfast and service project scheduled for Saturday March 3 may be postponed. Chuck Jones will send out an email by 7 a.m. that morning so please check your email and the Friends of First Parish Facebook page before heading out.  Contact coordinator Chuck Jones ( for more details or with suggestions for future projects.

Caring Committee ­- Here¹s what we do and Here¹s where you can help!
Tracey Timmens and Julianna Dunn are co-leaders the Caring Committee. What does the Caring Committee do?
We care about all First Parish members and friends and want to help in times of need. We offer assistance when life is a little too full, such as food brought to someone¹s home, a ride to an appointment, and even perhaps sitting with someone who needs company. If you know of a need, please reach out to either of us by email or phone:
Julianna at 781-545-2382, email at or
Tracey at 781-378-1162, email at

How else can you help, right now? Glad you asked! Can you make extra batch of soup or a casserole? Yes? Great! Please label what is, when it was made and bring to the church¹s freezer. Please use a plastic container from the
dollar store or label your dish. We would love to have a stash of frozen homemade food ready for when a request comes in. Homemade soup or a casserole is a gift, but particularly when someone is overwhelmed.
Thank you. - Julianna Dunn and Tracey Timmins, Co-Chairs, Caring Committee

Food Pantry - Volunteer Schedule, Hours, and Food of the Week for March 4th
April is our churches month to volunteer to help staff the Scituate Food Pantry. The dates and times needed are:

-Tuesday's, April 3rd, 10th, 17th, and 24th, from 9:00 am to 12:30 pm.
-Thursday's April 5th, 12th, 19th, and 26th, from 3:00 pm to 6:00 pm.
Please contact Alan Donaldson at 781-378-1562 if you can help.

The client hours for the pantry are Tuesdays 10:00 to 12:15 pm and Thursdays 3:30 pm to 5:30 pm. Starting in April, the food pantry will no longer be handling out vouchers.

We are also collecting food at church to deliver to the food pantry at the end of the month. To help you remember to bring an item regularly to church on Sundays, we are continuing the food of the week drive. On Sunday March 4th, we are asking for ham and clam chowder.

Thank you - Alan Donaldson, FPUU representative to the Food Pantry
Around the Parish
We extend our sympathy to Joe Williams and Erica Boyle after Joe’s barn in Vermont burned.
Thank UUs : to all who worked on the Blue Boat Coffeehouse on February 10: musicians, set up crew, bakers, table staff, and clean-up crew. The church was packed and we raised $1,050 to benefit the Scituate Appalachian Service Project… to Ruth Kuhn who has taken the tests to become the new “ServSafe” overseer of the church kitchen… to Frank Kilduf f for repairing the sanctuary door… to Elizabeth and David Dubuisson for hosting the choir party in their home… to Wendy Ballinger for leading a canvass training for the canvass team… to Cathie McGowan and Vicki Davis for their service as head ushers…
Happy Birthday March!

Thomas Svensen          
Jean Shildneck          
Andrew Linker         
Jean-Didier Bertola     
Addie Oliver           
Aiden Amelang        
Shannon Ryan                     
Liam Glennon               
Marina Glennon        
Claire Sherman        
Nicholas Bokavich        
Nancy Richards-Stower  
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March Calendar

Thurs. 1st
7:00 pm Committee on Ministry

Sat. 3rd
8:00 am Men's Ministry

Sun. 4th
9:00 am Choir Practice
10:30 am Worship and RE

Wed. 7th
10:30 am Fididdlers
12:30 pm Spiritual Autobiography Class
7:00 pm Parish Committee Meeting

Sat. 10th
6:00 pm Choir Party

Sun. 11th
9:00 am Choir Practice
10:30 am Worship and RE
5:00 pm Youth Group - Scituate

Mon. 12th
7:00 pm Meditation

Wed. 14th
10:30 am Fididdlers
12:30 pm Spiritual Autobiography Class
6:30 pm Unity Alliance Dinner
Fri. 16th
7:00 pm Scituate Ceilidh

6:00 pm Blue Boat Coffeehouse

Sun. 18th
10:30 am Worship and RE

Tues. 20th
6:30 pm Community Book Discussion

Wed. 21st
10:30 am Fididdlers

Sat. 24th - Sun. 25th Youth CON Sharon

Sun. 25th
9:00 am Choir Practice
10:30 am Worship and RE

Mon. 26th
7:00 pm Meditation

Tues. 27th
7:00 Exploring the New Testament

Wed. 28th
10:30 am Fididdlers