The Flame

A Publication of the Order of the Daughters of the King

Diocesan Assembly of Central Florida


SPRING 2024

President's Message



Hello Daughters!! 


Our recent Spring Retreat was a wonderful experience! We felt the presence of the Holy Spirit on that day. Many of us were brought to tears during Eucharist. It is a special time for me when we pray together, and I am always moved by this experience. Father Terry’s message to us in the sermon was so very touching. He reminded us that we have been “called” before we were born. We have the ability to shake heavens! Our prayers need to be bold! He spoke to us about the Shalom of God – Shalom is completeness, fullness and absence of discord or agitation. If you have God in your heart, you receive His Shalom. We are reminded to read the word of God and share it with others. When we lift up our problems to the Lord, only God can fill the hole in our souls. Money, gifts, fame, fortune cannot fill it. We receive God’s peace when we seek Him, and we are called to share it with others. Step out and pray and share your story of how God has touched you. God is at work in us! How Blessed we truly are!! 


May we always be a light to others!!


FHS & Love,

Nadine


“The Lord will be your everlasting light.”  Isaiah 60:19



nadinekcraig@outlook.com

770-597-7454 call or text


Membership Report


WE ARE GROWING! As the Diocese's Membership Chair, I would like to stress the importance of keeping up to date with our numbers. Chapter Presidents, please notify your Deanery Rep or me of any changes to membership. This includes new members, the passing of a Daughter, members who have moved away, changes in Officers, etc. I know of several chapters that have members who seem to have just disappeared but are still listed as members. A helpful suggestion is that you pass around a membership list every few months and have everyone update their information.

 

Remember, your Deanery Reps are very willing to help you, as am I. Many thanks to our Deanery Representatives who work hard for us!!


DEANERY REPRESENTATIVES


CENTRAL: Jill Chester

NORTHEAST: Betty McDonald

NORTHWEST: Lisa Fye

SOUTHEAST: Christine Allen

SOUTHWEST: Patrice Behnstedt


fHs,


Nancy Kelly

First Vice President/Membership Chair

nancybkelly@hotmail.com


Senior Daughters 936

Daughters at Large 60

Junior Daughters 38

TOTAL 1,034


Information Sources


Forms, Event Information, and News Available at:



Central Florida Diocese Website: cfdiocese.org

National DOK Website: doknational.org 

Province IV Website: provinceiv-dok.org 

Diocesan Assembly Website: dokcentralfl.org 

Facebook Page: Search Facebook for dokcentralfl

Have You Ever Had Questions About Things in the Episcopal Church? Check Out the Link:


Glossary of Terms – The Episcopal Church


SPRING RETREAT 2024


The Diocesan Assembly of Central Florida held its Spring Retreat at All Saints Episcopal Church in Winter Park on April 20th; over 100 Daughters attended. Christin Lazo, Best Selling Author, Conference Speaker and our Corresponding Secretary was the guest speaker. Her presentation entitled Daily Grace: A Fresh Look at Familiar Prayers was very well received by attendees.


Many Daughters wore white hats or fascinators for a photo to send to our International Daughters to welcome them to the Order.


Eucharist celebrant was Reverend Laura "Lo" Cook, Associate Rector of All Saints. Fr. Terry Highland, Chaplain delivered an exceptional sermon.


Heidi Daniels, Executive Director of Family Renew, our diocesan outreach project for the year, spoke passionately about their mission and its dire need in Volusia County.


Attendees brought items for Family Renew and they stuffed the truck!




Guest Speaker,

Christin Lazo

Holy Eucharist

Heidi Daniels, Executive Director of Family Renew

Devotional Moment with Donna Burns

Family Renew Truck

DOK Stuffing the Truck

Photo of All Attendees at Spring Retreat


This photo was sent to the International Daughters of the King to welcome them into the Order.

Mother's Day, May 12th


Celebrations of mothers and motherhood can be traced back to the ancient Greeks and Romans, who held festivals in honor of the mother goddesses Rhea and Cybele, but the clearest modern precedent for Mother’s Day is the early Christian festival known as “Mothering Sunday.”


Once a major tradition in the United Kingdom and parts of Europe, this celebration fell on the fourth Sunday in Lent and was originally seen as a time when the faithful would return to their “mother church”—the main church in the vicinity of their home—for a special service. 


Over time the Mothering Sunday tradition shifted into a more secular holiday, and children would present their mothers with flowers and other tokens of appreciation. This custom eventually faded in popularity before merging with the American Mother’s Day in the 1930s and 1940s.


The origins of Mother’s Day as celebrated in the United States dates back to the 19th century. In the years before the Civil War, Ann Reeves Jarvis of West Virginia helped start “Mothers’ Day Work Clubs" to teach local women how to properly care for their children.


These clubs later became a unifying force in a region of the country still divided over the Civil War. In 1868 Jarvis organized “Mothers’ Friendship Day,” at which mothers gathered with former Union and Confederate soldiers to promote reconciliation.


Another precursor to Mother’s Day came from the abolitionist and suffragette Julia Ward Howe. In 1870 Howe wrote the “Mother’s Day Proclamation,” a call to action that asked mothers to unite in promoting world peace. In 1873 Howe campaigned for a “Mother’s Peace Day” to be celebrated every June 2.


Other early Mother’s Day pioneers include Juliet Calhoun Blakely, a temperance activist who inspired a local Mother’s Day in Albion, Michigan, in the 1870s. The duo of Mary Towles Sasseen and Frank Hering, meanwhile, both worked to organize a Mothers’ Day in the late 19th and early 20th centuries. Some have even called Hering “the father of Mothers’ Day.


The official Mother’s Day holiday arose in the 1900s as a result of the efforts of Anna Jarvis, daughter of Ann Reeves Jarvis. Following her mother’s 1905 death, Anna Jarvis conceived of Mother’s Day as a way of honoring the sacrifices mothers made for their children.


After gaining financial backing from a Philadelphia department store owner named John Wanamaker, in May 1908 she organized the first official Mother’s Day celebration at a Methodist church in Grafton, West Virginia. That same day also saw thousands of people attend a Mother’s Day event at one of Wanamaker’s retail stores in Philadelphia.


Following the success of her first Mother’s Day, Jarvis—who remained unmarried and childless her whole life—resolved to see her holiday added to the national calendar. Arguing that American holidays were biased toward male achievements, she started a massive letter writing campaign to newspapers and prominent politicians urging the adoption of a special day honoring motherhood.


By 1912 many states, towns and churches had adopted Mother’s Day as an annual holiday, and Jarvis had established the Mother’s Day International Association to help promote her cause. Her persistence paid off in 1914 when President Woodrow Wilson signed a measure officially establishing the second Sunday in May as Mother’s Day.


Did you know? More phone calls are made on Mother’s Day than any other day of the year. These holiday chats with Mom often cause phone traffic to spike by as much as 37 percent.

 



Prayer of Gratitude for Mothers


"Heavenly Father, we thank You for the gift of motherhood. Today, we celebrate the loving sacrifice of mothers, both biological and spiritual, who nurture and guide us in Your ways. Bless them with joy, strength, and love to continue their selfless devotion. May they feel deeply appreciated and honored not just today, but every day. Amen."



Prayer for Strength and Wisdom for Mothers


"Lord God, we lift up all mothers to You. Grant them the strength to face the daily challenges with courage and the wisdom to guide their children towards a life of faith and service. Encourage them when they are weary and inspire them when they feel overwhelmed. Bless them with Your peace and love, now and forever. Amen."




You Can Still Register for Triennial 2024


It is not too late to register for Triennial 2024 in Louisville, Kentucky, June 26th to June 30th.

Deadline for registration is May 31, 2024. Go to the following link and register online.

Triennial 2024 Registration - The Order of the Daughters of the King, Inc. (doknational.org)




One of These Five Individuals Will Be the New Presiding Bishop of the Episcopal Church


The 81st General Convention of The Episcopal Church being held June 23rd to June 28th in Louisville, KY will be a historic event because members will choose a new presiding bishop who will succeed the Very Rev. Michael Curry upon his November 1st retirement.


As the governing body of The Episcopal Church, nominees will be formally provided to the body on June 25th during a joint session of the House of Bishops and House of Deputies. On June 26th, the bishops will elect, and the deputies will be asked to confirm, the church’s 28th presiding bishop.


The names of the five candidates for the position are as follows: the Rt. Rev. Scott J. Barker, bishop of the Diocese of Nebraska; the Rt. Rev. Daniel G.P. Gutierréz, bishop of Pennsylvania; the Rt. Rev. Sean Rowe, bishop of the Diocese of Northwestern Pennsylvania and bishop provisional of the Diocese of Western New York; the Rt. Rev. Robert Wright, bishop of the Diocese of Atlanta; and the Rt. Rev. Dr. DeDe Duncan-Probe, bishop of the Diocese of Central New York. View brief videos featuring each nominee at this link.

 


AROUND THE DIOCESE

 

Central Deanery Meeting at Church of the Resurrection, Longwood


March 2nd the Central Deanery held its meeting at Church of the Resurrection in Longwood.

Attendees at Central Deanery Meeting.

First Vice President Visits Family Renew Residential Campus in Daytona Beach


First Vice President Nancy Kelly visited The Family Renew Residential Campus in Daytona Beach on April 4th. The Campus Director, Laurie Archer-Dugo, gave her a tour.

The campus has 10 one-bedroom apartments and one two-bedroom apartment for families headed by single mothers. On-site case management is focused on housing, employment, education, and parenting. Families may grow fresh produce for themselves in a hydroponic tower garden on the grounds.


A private courtyard with a butterfly garden serves as a gathering place for families.

 

Nancy Kelly with Laurie Archer-Dugo, Family Renew Residential Campus Director in Daytona Beach.


Below: Typical kitchen and living area.

Nancy Kelly Installed as President of St. Michael the Archangel Chapter at St. Augustine's, Vero Beach


On April 21st, Nancy Kelly, Diocesan First Vice President was installed as president of the St. Michael the Archangel chapter at St. Augustine's, Vero Beach.

 
 

Southwest Deanery Meeting held at St. Paul's, Winter Haven

Approximately 25 women attended the Southwest Deanery meeting at St. Paul's Church in Winter Haven on March 9th. The day included fellowship, a service and inspiration, and four speakers. Speakers were Elizabeth Brunson (Daughters at Large); Sara Day (Outreach Project Chair); Callie Head (Incoming St. Paul's DOK president) who spoke about her personal faith journey; and Nadine Craig, President who spoke about communication across generations. It was a lovely day for all. 

 

Group photo of attendees at the Southwest Deanery meeting.

Callie Head, incoming president of the DOK chapter at St. Paul's speaks about her personal journey in faith.

Four Daughters Admitted to St. Paul's DOK Chapter, Winter Haven


On April 28th four new Daughters were admitted to St. Paul's DOK chapter at St. Paul's in Winter Haven, bringing total membership to 13 Daughters.

From left to right: Jodi Swartz, June Joseph, Carolyn Miller, and Joyce Facko.

Northwest Deanery Meeting held at St. James, Leesburg


The Northwest Deanery meeting was held on April 6th at St. James Church in Leesburg.  It was a joyful day for all.

Trinity, Vero Beach Hosts Author Vickie Pappas at April Meeting


Holy Trinity Chapter, Vero Beach held its meeting at Regency Park, a retirement community, on April 27th where they were feted with a sumptuous brunch. Ginger Atwood, President, arranged the meeting where author, Vickie Pappas, talked about her faith journey and how she became so passionate about Jesus. Vickie provided and autographed books for all attendees. It was an inspirational experience for everyone who attended.


Updated Documents


Calendar for 2024

Contact Information for Officers and Appointed Board Members

INFORMATION for THE FLAME


Please send all DOK information and photos for future issues of THE FLAME to:


LINDA ANSELMINI

lanselmini@gmail.com

 
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