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Beloved,
I hope you will take the time to read George Nicol, Jr.'s report on the Tending Our Soil Committee's work (See below). I believe that team's leadership has helped raise awareness and encouraged honest reflection by naming where this church has been shaped by pain, where healing has already taken root, and where we are being invited to grow.
This work is difficult! Nobody wants to do it; however, this inner work is critically important to the ongoing life and vitality of this parish.
The focus on intentional inner work is not an exercise in revisiting old wounds for their own sake, and not as dwelling on what has gone wrong. It's a way of understanding how the past continues to influence our life together. The purpose is not to get stuck there. The purpose is developing that "inner witness" and learning, so that what once limited the church and held it back from growing can become a source of wisdom and strength.
In his book The Wild Edge of Sorrow, psychologist Francis Weller writes about generational grief, which pain that is not fully acknowledged and therefore gets passed down over time. Generational grief gets passed down in families, but it also happens in communities, including churches. Unspoken losses, unresolved conflict, and broken trust do not simply disappear; they shape how communities function unless they are tended with care.
Weller reminds us that grief is transformed not by avoidance, but by attention, compassion, and meaning-making. When pain is acknowledged honestly, it can become a teacher rather than a burden. When it is ignored, it quietly shapes us from beneath the surface and the pain often continues, through continuing old patters of behavior, but also in new forms.
This is where the Tending Our Soil work matters so deeply. It calls us to remember honestly without remaining captive to what has been. The invitation is to transform pain into understanding and to apply that understanding in ways that help us move forward together with greater trust and generosity.
This invitation feels especially timely as we observe the Martin Luther King Jr. holiday. Martin Luther King Jr. never minimized suffering or injustice. He named pain clearly and directly. And yet, he consistently called people forward toward courage, reconciliation, and beloved community. As he wrote, “We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.”
I believe that balance is essential for St. Luke’s: to acknowledge disappointment and hurt honestly, while refusing to let them define your future.
Theologian and mystic Howard Thurman spoke of listening for the “sound of the genuine” within individuals and communities alike. He understood that transformation begins with deep listening—to grief, to longing, and to the quiet call toward life and purpose.
And Roman Catholic, Trappist monk Thomas Merton reminded us that real change requires inner freedom. A community willing to do its inner work becomes a place where people are free to breathe, belong, and grow into who God is calling them to be.
The work before us is not about reopening old wounds. It is about ensuring that those wounds do not quietly shape how we treat one another or how we welcome our neighbors. Healing, when tended with care, becomes a source of strength. Memory, when held wisely, becomes guidance rather than weight.
As we continue building the life of St. Luke’s, may we remain committed to this work of honoring the past without being bound by it, transforming pain into wisdom, and letting what we have learned guide us toward a future marked by trust, welcome, and hope. The Tending Our Soil Committee has helped give us a framework for this journey. The invitation now belongs to all of us.
A Prayer for St. Luke’s (MLK Day)
Gracious and loving God,
you know the story of this place and of your people.
As we remember the witness of Martin Luther King Jr.,
grant us grace to learn from the past without being bound by it,
courage to speak the truth in love,
and hope to build beloved community among us.
Bless St. Luke’s Episcopal Church
and the neighborhoods of Logan Circle and Dupont Circle,
that we may be a sign of your healing, justice, and peace,
now and in the days to come.
Through Christ our Lord. Amen.
Faithfully,
John +
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