Let's put the "mean" on hold...
On some level, every friend, foe or stranger you encounter these days is most likely going through something you are completely unaware of. They may not appear to have any problems or life concerns, but even the most unsuspected individuals may harbour inner fears and demons. Just look at how “Twitch” from the Ellen Show left the world in stunned confusion. He seemingly had it all.
You may scowl at that mother that shows up at the school perfectly pruned, with the best-baked goods and volunteers at every PTA meeting. When you are lucky to have time to comb your hair before dropping the kids off and forgetting you are still in your pyjamas. But what lurks at home for that perfect mom? She could be in an abusive relationship that forces her to present herself in a certain way to others. The point is that we do not know, so instead, we assume and, in the process, force our biases and frustrations about our lives etc., toward others.
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