Worship with our 2-year-old
Excerpts from article by Rev. Felix Javier Malpica in Sept/Oct 2019 issue of Living Lutheran magazine.

As any parent of a 2-year-old can tell you, they can be unpredictable, squirmy, loud, messy and make even the thickest-skinned parents embarrassed to sit in worship. So how does one do it?

First, come and come regularly. The first time we do anything with our 2-year-old there’s no way to gauge his reaction. It may go perfectly. Sometimes he’s fearful, hiding in our arms. Other times he goes straight to tantrums. For toddlers, repetition and rituals create comfort. That’s why weekly worship is of paramount importance.

Expecting kids to behave when your attendance is irregular is simply not fair. It takes time for children to learn worship patterns and to feel safe. By making worship a regular ritual, your children will grow in comfort and build a foundation of faith. … Never has the gift of new life been more evident than worshiping with my 6-day-old on Easter Sunday! Over time he’s come to know the congregation I serve as a nurturing place to learn, grow and meet friends.

Next, come prepared and ready to engage your child during the service. Bring a well-stocked diaper bag—books to read, things to color, snacks to eat, quiet toys to play with and everything else—and invite your child to participate in worship as they are able.
Our son sits up front where it’s easier to pay attention. This also allows me as a pastor to hold him as we sing and listen to special music together. … He loves to pass the peace and bless those around him with water from the font. When he started breaking bread and pretending to offer communion around the dinner table I knew we were on the right track.

Finally, give your little one—and yourself—grace. Worship won’t always go according to plan. Your toddler (or you) may need to step out for a break. They might make a little more noise or move around more than you would like, but those are the sounds of life!

Worship is a place to build and strengthen our relationship with God and one another. Bringing your children there is a gift for them and the congregation. Their presence alone makes church more lively and meaningful.

Practices:
  • Bring a little bit of church home. “Play” church by passing the peace, sharing blessings, praying and singing favorite hymns or bible songs. This will help make worship more familiar.

  • Infuse faith into your bedtime routine. Light a candle, talk about your day, say a short prayer, bless one another and blow the candle out. Then, on Sunday, point out the candles and prayers at church.

  • Highlight the seasons of the church year. Take advantage of Advent devotions, calendars, and nativity sets to tell the story of the birth of Christ. Use Lenten devotions, soup suppers, and dedicated times (short!) of talking about forgiveness, mercy, and grace. In Easter, enjoy the emerging flowers and trees and tie this new life around us to the new life that a risen Jesus promises us.
Ornery Beer Company (downtown City of Fairfax) is offering ELCA congregations of our conference 50% off their Sunday brunch on November 17th! This is a great chance to meet Lutherans from other local congregations and eat together. In addition, after the 17th, Ornery is offering our ELCA congregations a standing 15% off of Sunday brunches.
Upcoming Events
Calendar:
  • Nov 24th – 8:30 & 11 AM - Thanksgiving Service

  • Dec 1st – Advent begins (Lectionary year A – Gospel of Matthew)

  • Dec 12th – Time TBA - Silent Night, Holy Night – a service of peace and good will amid the noise and bustle of the Holidays. For those who dealing with loss as well as for those who just seek a respite from the forced “Jingle” of the season.

  • Dec 15th – Annual Congregational Meeting

  • Dec 21st -- Time TBA - Christmas Concert to benefit the Youth Orchestra of Prince William
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Good Shepherd Lutheran Church
15695 Blackburn Road
Woodbridge, VA 22191
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