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Please, One More Chapter!
Ilana Kurshan
Adventures in the Mishnah with My Kids
Pesachim 4:1,6
Matan and I are up to the fourth chapter of Masechet Pesachim, which is about customs that vary from place to place. In some places it was customary to work on the day before Pesach, and in some places it was not; a person was expected to follow the local custom. A person should not be the only one going to work on the morning before Pesach if everyone else in the community is busy cleaning the house, burning Hametz, and getting ready for the Seder that evening. But now Matan and I discover that there are some exceptions.
The Mishnah teaches that if someone began working on a particular job a few days before Pesach and now has time to finish it on the morning before Pesach, she may do so. For instance, a silversmith who started making a cup for Elijah the week before Pesach may finish fashioning it on Pesach morning. That’s the example that comes to my mind, though Matan has his own associations.
“So if you buy a new toy or a new device, you need to make sure that you buy the starter kit and set it all up in advance,” Matan tells me. “Then you can buy all the additional pieces to set up on erev Pesach.”
I think he has the right idea. The Mishnah goes on to clarify that a person is not allowed to start working on a new project on the morning before Pesach even if he thinks he can finish by midday, which is the latest time that everyone agrees it is permissible to work that day. “So you can’t open the starter kit on the morning before Pesach. If you haven’t opened it before then, it’s too late,” I clarify, working with Matan’s example.
The Mishnah concludes by stipulating that there are three exceptions to this rule. There are three craftspeople who are permitted to start a new job on the morning before Pesach, assuming they can finish it by midday. A tailor may begin making a new garment, since basic sewing is permitted even on the intermediate days of the festival. A launderer may finish washing an article of clothing and a barber may start giving a haircut, so as to enable people to look and dress appropriately on the holiday. “Besides,” says Matan, “It’s not like a barber would start cutting someone’s hair one day and finish it a few days later. What’s the guy supposed to do, walk around with half his head cut short and half still long?”
It’s a good point. I remind Matan that our downstairs neighbor Alon is a barber, and his wife always tells us that the day before Pesach is the busiest day of the year for him; everyone wants to get a last-minute haircut before the holiday. (After Pesach, during the period of the Omer, Alon has a relatively light workload, and the family takes vacation.)
Matan wants to know if I’m finished with the Mishnah, and if he can go back to his Spy School novel. “It’s really late,” I tell him. “I don’t think you should start reading now.”
Matan looks at me with a gleam in his eye. “But I’m in the middle of a chapter. I’m like the barber who cut half a head of hair. You have to let me finish.”
“Are you really in the middle of a chapter?”
“Yes, I promise, I started it last night!”
I concede. But I also remind Matan that he has all afternoon to read, and he doesn’t have to wait until he gets into bed at night. I remind my kids of this often; a few months ago, I even made up a silly song in the hope of encouraging them to read more in the daytime. “Please one more chapter, please one more chapter,” I sing tauntingly when the kids beg me at night to read just a bit more. In the afternoon, when they come home from school and announce that they are bored, I start singing my song: “Please one more chapter.” I want to remind them that now, in broad daylight, they have ample time to read all the pages they are always begging to read at night. It’s best not to wait until right before bedtime to start reading, just like it’s best not to wait until erev Pesach to get a haircut. I sigh. “You can read for another 15 minutes,” I tell Matan, peering sternly over the top of his book. “It’s the custom in this house for all children to be in bed with the lights out after 10pm, and I’m sorry to say there are no exceptions.”
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