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Dealing with Unique Visitors
Right before Morning Prayer started on August 23, a newcomer walked around the church and took many photos and videos of the church - not unusual, as the church is beautiful and people like to photograph it. She then walked into the Upper Parish Hall, and that's when I followed her, as I wanted to make sure she didn't walk into any restricted areas of our building. She asked me where the water fountain was, and I said we did not have any water fountains in the building. She said she would be back later, and she left - she did not stay for the service.
I then walked out to the porch on Water Street, and saw two men sleeping under a blanket, and a third man sitting with his cell phone. I told them they could not stay, as we have signs posted "No loitering." The two men started to gather their things, and the man with the cell phone asked me what denomination we were. I gave him my elevator speech about the Episcopal Church, and invited him to join our service, which had just started. He did not come in, but the two other men did, and they stayed for Coffee Hour - all are welcome at Trinity, and all are welcome at Coffee Hour if they attend the service.
(If someone has not attended the service or is not attending Adult Formation, we respectfully ask them to leave Coffee Hour, as Coffee Hour is for people who are participating in events at Trinity.)
Shortly after the the service began, there was a commotion by the church entrance - a woman was very upset and was asking for the pastor, and requesting prayers immediately. She knew my name, and I then recognized her as Kathy, a woman who used to come to church here with her daughter a number of years ago. I explained that we had no pastor at this time, but she could certainly pray with us, and speak to the chaplain (Naomi) after the service. She sat in the back of the church with me and Lynn, and then spoke to and prayed with Naomi. She stayed for Coffee Hour.
As we often say, all are welcome at Trinity. If someone is going into areas they are not allowed (e.g. the rectory, the sacristy), they should be told they cannot go there. If they refuse, or if they are creating a disturbance and refuse to leave, 911 can be called so that a police officer can assist.
If someone is having a mental health crisis (e.g. having suicidal thoughts, responding to hallucinations) but not breaking any laws, you can call the Mobile Crisis Team at 860 482-1560, and they will send two people to talk to and evaluate the person in question.
All are welcome at Trinity, and it sometimes takes a village as we try to live up to that ideal.
~Conrad Sienkiewicz
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