קישור שלום ~ Kishur Sholom

Staying Connected with the Temple Sholom Community

16 February 2026 ~ 29 Shvat 5786 ~ Parashat Terumah

Chaverim y'karim ~ dear friends,



I recently heard Walter Russell Mead on What Really Matters, which is one of my go-tos for political analysis. I like his humility, humor, and honesty alongside his ability to see things calmly even though most media around us thrives on getting us annoyed, agitated, and anxious. 


In his "Tip of the Week," Mead addressed "Presidents' Day" and what a disaster it was to lump all forty men into one day. Rather than the good ol' days when we highlighted the greatness of this nation's first president, Washington, and the man who saved the Union, Lincoln, somewhere in the 1980s, we focused on the whole lot of men. In so doing, we shifted from honoring the highlights of two great men and the gifts they gave our nation to celebrating merely the accomplishment of the men who won an election. 


I am forever fascinated by both the founding of this country and its ability to have lasted for (coming up on) 250 years! Liberalism is not a default way of creating a society. Democracy is not an easy - or natural - way to govern. In fact, it is the worst way to govern in many ways ... it's just better than all other forms. (See: Israel Zangwill, 1923 or Winston Churchill, 1947.) 


No president was perfect and surely each one had faults that historians have rightly brought forward. Washington and Lincoln were unique in the lot of presidents and their words, leadership, and strengths are fundamental to this nation's successes. God knows, literally, we could use leaders like them today. I suspect both of these greats would be sorely disappointed at how things are developing in our day, though undoubtedly they would not be surprised. After all, they were human and they knew the faults of humanity. 


And so it is upon us to rally around the critical values which both embodied and upheld - the Constitution and Bill of Rights chief among them - and find ways to make sure their labors were not in vain. Democracy and Liberalism have worked exceedingly well on these shores and each generation needs to nurture, protect, preserve, and develop our country. May we honor those who came before us by supporting individual rights and liberties, rule of law, democratic and representative governance, and respectful pluralism. 


L'shalom & Happy Presidents' Day!  


Rabbi Mark Cohn 

Looking for a mitzvah?


PURIM HAS FOUR MITZVOT ASSOCIATED WITH IT. Purim is just around the corner ... so let's line up our obligations and see how we can fulfill them communally!


  • Hearing the megillah (we'll have a clever/creative way of doing that Friday evening 2/27)


  • Eating a festive meal (again, see 2/27 Red, White (wine) and Blue (cheese) Oneg. AND bring something fun to eat for the Lunch & Learn on 3/3.


  • Giving gifts to your friends and families (that's mishloach manot and a bit more on you - though the rabbi is more than happy to give ideas and we'll do a little of that on 2/27!).


  • Giving gifts to those in need. Here are some tzedakah opportunities for you ...


LOAVES AND FISHES


Collection at Temple Sholom. You bring to us and we'll shlep to them.

Check out the non-perishables list and give as you are able!

Note: their day-time 'warming center' is now open and available starting at 7am - should you wish to volunteer, they would welcome support. More information on their website.


NEW MILFORD COMMUNITY SHELTER


Volunteers & donations needed! While a donation is certainly welcome, what they are in search of more than anything are volunteers! The shelter requires a volunteer each night for the roughly five or six individuals who seek shelter. Email the shelter (nmctcommunityshelter.org) to learn more.

Purim's coming:


PUT ON YOUR RED, WHITE AND JEW (BLUE)


Clothing attire: see photo inset. Think: Roger Sherman meets Mordechai. Or ... just go with red/white/blue. And be prepared for: BINGO with a Persian influence.




Friday, February 27 @ 5:30pm

A Pre-Kabbalat Shabbat Red, White (wine) and Blue (cheese) Oneg PLUS Shalach Moness making (no, that is not a disease, it just sounds like one).


Tuesday, March 3 @ Noon

PURIM Lunch & Learn - this will be the first of three discussions on the Scroll of Esther


Need an Esther-Refresher? Check out ...


"The Bible Project's" Esther video!


PURIM 101 @ My Jewish Learning


"The Masks We Wear - and Remove - on Purim" from Mijal Bitton on her Substack, Committed. Make sure to check the conversation she has with Dr. Tanya White at the end!

SHABBAT SERVICE SCHEDULE


KABBALAT SHABBAT

FRIDAYS AT 6:30 PM


FEBRUARY 27

Shabbat Zachor / Parashat Tetzaveh


MARCH 13

Shabbat HaChodesh / Parashat Vayakhel - Pekudei


MARCH 27

Shabbat HaGadol / Parashat Tzav


SHABBAT TORAH STUDY

SATURDAYS AT 9:30 AM

(Led by CJ Kelly)



FEBRUARY 21, 28*

MARCH 7, 14*, 21, 28*

(*led by Rabbi Cohn)


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