24 Cheshvan, 5783

November 18, 2022

Parshat Chayei Sarah

In this week's parsha, Parshat Chayei Sarah, we learn of Eliezer, the servant of Avraham, going to Aram Naharim to find a wife for Yitzchak. 

 

Upon returning to Eretz Canaan, the Torah describes Yitzchak in the following way:

וַיֵּצֵא יִצְחָק לָשׂוּחַ בַּשָּׂדֶה לִפְנוֹת עָרֶב

 

"Yitzchak went לָשׂוּחַ in the field toward evening"

 

The word לָשׂוּחַ difficult to translate, as this is one of the only places that it shows up in Tanach. However, if we look in the words of Chazal (Berachot 26b), we find that they define it for us:


תניא אברהם תקן תפלת שחרית שנא' (בראשית יט) וישכם אברהם בבקר אל המקום אשר עמד שם ואין עמידה אלא תפלה שנאמר (תהילים קו) ויעמד פינחס ויפלל יצחק תקן תפלת מנחה שנאמר (בראשית כד) ויצא יצחק לשוח בשדה לפנות ערב ואין שיחה אלא תפלה שנאמר (תהילים קב) תפלה לעני כי יעטף ולפני ה' ישפוך שיחו יעקב תקן תפלת ערבית שנאמר (בראשית כח) ויפגע במקום וילן שם ואין פגיעה אלא תפלה שנאמר (ירמיהו ז) ואתה אל תתפלל בעד העם הזה ואל תשא בעדם רנה ותפלה ואל תפגע בי



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November 20 - Sunday Morning Tefillah in the Kohelet Yeshiva Middle School Beit Midrash at 9:00 am


November 20 - High School Open House Tours from 9:00 am - 5:00 pm


November 23 - Erev Thanksgiving - Early Dismissal - (Grades 6-12:12:30 Dismissal, Grades K-5: 12:45 Dismissal); There Is No Aftercare or Clubs, There Is Afternoon Lower Merion Transportation; Additional K-5 Parent-Teacher Conferences on Zoom


November 24-25 - Thanksgiving Break, No School



December 2-3 - Middle School Shabbaton


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It was taught in a baraita Abraham instituted the morning prayer, as it is stated "And Abraham rose early in the morning to the place where he had stood before the Lord" (Genesis 19:27), …

Isaac instituted the afternoon prayer, as it is stated: "And Isaac went out to converse [lasuaḥ] in the field toward evening" (Genesis 24:63)...

Jacob instituted the evening prayer, as it is stated: "And he encountered [vayifga] the place and he slept there for the sun had set" (Genesis 28:11). …


Avraham prayed in the morning, Yitzchak prayed in the evening, and Yaakov prayed at night. According to one opinion in the Gemara, the three tefillot that we pray today are parrallel to the tefillot of Avraham Yitzchak and Yaakov.


If we look slightly deeper, we find that these three tefillot are three models of turning towards God.


"Avraham arose in the morning to the place where he stood before God" - this event happened when Avraham beseeched God to spare the lives of the inhabitants of Sodom. Avraham turned to God in a time of need.


"Yitzchak went לָשׂוּחַ in the field toward evening" - what was his impetus to turn to God at that instant? There is no indication that there was anything wrong, any crisis for which to ask for God's intercession. This is another form of tefilla - turning to God not in crisis, but as a simple act of living. It is quite fitting that the Mincha tefilla, in the middle of the day, is parallel to the tefilla of Yitzchak.


"And he encountered [vayifga] the place…", this is when Yaakov flees from Eisav. The time is night, and Yaakov is about to embark on a journey in which everything might go right, but it also might not. In fact, Yaakov got quite a mixed bag of things that went right and things that did not. Yaakov's tefilla is Maariv, of hope in the night and trust in God. It is specifically during Maariv that we say "אמת ואמונה", "True and trustworthy", since it is then that we are showing our trust in God.


These three models of tefilla are all integral to our service of God. That is why Chazal instituted all of them - tefillot in times of crisis, as part of living a life of Avodat HaShem, and as an act of hope. 


Shabbat Shalom, 


Rabbi Moshe Abrams

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High School Happenings

Introducing: Mitzvah Momentum!

We are excited about a school-wide (K-8), year-long initiative that we introduced to the students called Mitzvah Momentum!


Students in grades K-8 will be focusing on a particular mitzvah during each part of the year. In November and December, we will be focusing on Chesed, January-February we will be focusing on Bikur Cholim, March-April will be Tzedakah, and May-June will be Hakarat HaTov. 


There are various components to this program depending on the age of your child, outlined in the Mitzvah Momentum At Home Chart that appears above. 


As part of this program, we are asking each Kohelet family to discuss a Chessed that you would like to get involved in as a family during November and December. Please click here to download the Mitzvah Momentum At Home Chart and then fill in your family's Chessed and attach a picture of your family performing the Chessed (if you'd like).

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Our incredible 4/5 Fridayton wrapped up with a fun Motzei Shabbat activity at school, which included a special treat...a chocolate fountain!

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November 17th


Nachum and Dvasha Stollman


In commemoration of the yahrtzeit of Chava Esther Fruma Stollman, z"l, mother of Nachum Stollman, Kohelet Yeshiva Board of Directors, and grandmother of Ezra (KY '24), Zahava (KY '26), Yair (KY '29), Akiva and Harry.


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November 15th


In Honor of Josh Katz


In appreciation for his dedicated coaching of the


Narberth 2nd-3rd Grade Soccer League


- The Undefeated Red Team


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