13 Elul, 5782

September 9, 2022

Parshat Ki Teitzei


Gratitude is extraordinarily powerful, and it is not simply intended to make the mitzvot we do more meaningful. Research in the field of positive psychology suggests that bringing gratitude into our lives in small, but meaningful ways, increases our joy. When we appreciate things, even mundane things, our happiness increases.


Hakarat Hatov, literally translated as “recognizing the good,” is not only a positive trait, saying “thank you,” showing gratitude, or an important way of living our lives, but it is a directive that we can learn from in examining this week’s parsha, Ki Teitzei.


In Devarim 23:8, it says

“לֹֽא־תְתַעֵ֣ב מִצְרִ֔י כִּי־גֵ֖ר הָיִ֥יתָ בְאַרְצֽוֹ”


“Do not despise the Egyptian, because you were a stranger in his land.” 


There appears to be an obvious question that we must ask. After everything that the Egyptians did to us, after they cast our male children into the Nile, forced us to live in slavery, and made our lives absolutely miserable, how could it be that we are being asked not to despise them?


Rashi comments that the reason for this is that the Egyptians provided us with hospitality at a time when we were in need, during the time of the famine when Bnei Yisrael came down to Egypt, and we therefore owe them a debt of gratitude.


Upcoming Events:


September 11 - First Sunday Morning Tefillah of the 2022-23 School Year in the Kohelet Yeshiva Middle School Beit Midrash at 9:00 am


September 11 - PTSO Welcome Back Event at 3:00 pm


September 12 - MS Early Dismissal at 3:00 pm, MS Parent Orientation at 7:00 pm


September 14 - HS Back to School Night at 7:00 pm


September 17 - Selichot and Sushi


September 18 - KYLS Rosh Hashanah Event for Pre-K Students and Their Parents at 9:00 am


September 19 - College/Israel Guidance Night via Zoom at 7:30 pm


September 21 - HS Parent Education Night on Zoom at 7:00 pm


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Rav Eliyahu Dessler, (1892-1953), whose written works includes the sefer Michtav Me-Eliyahu, which is collected correspondence and ethical writings published posthumously by his pupils and which is also known in translation as “Strive for Truth,” notes that this mitzvah shows us how much one is obligated to recognize the good that someone else has done for you. If this can be true relative to the Egyptians who made us suffer so terribly, how much greater our obligation must be towards someone from whom we did not suffer from their hands.  


Let us take this directive to heart looking towards this coming year and make sure to recognize the good that others do for us. Let us express our deepest appreciation to our incredible faculty and staff for caring so deeply about their students and working to make sure that everything was ready for them to start school. They spent the first days of school thinking through to the smallest of details how to help their students learn routines, connect to their peers and to their teachers, and grow comfortable in their classes and get excited for learning. Nothing would be ready for school to begin without our administration team, who capitalized on every minute this summer to continue to work together to create and build our school.


We had parents this summer who went above and beyond to ensure that our new 2/3 Ivrit teacher from Israel could live here with what she needs. We have parents who made sure to reach out to include the new families and students of our school community and help them feel welcomed and connected before the start of school. A parent sponsored hot pretzels for our students so that the end of their first week could feel celebratory. Our PTSO worked to celebrate our teachers’ hard work and return to school by providing a special breakfast. They also are working to create and build our community through their opening event this Sunday. Our Bnot Sherut, who are new to our community, worked tirelessly to decorate the school for the first day and even baked cookies for each and every student to celebrate the start of school. Our office, technology, and facilities team worked tirelessly with us to ensure that everything was ready for school to start. Over fifty of our students demonstrated a deep commitment to Torah and Tefillah by reciting so many perakim of Tehillim this summer. Lastly, and most significantly, we appreciate you sharing your beautiful children with us, lighting each one of our days with their smiles, excitement, and interest in learning.


As we go through this school year, let us all work to recognize the good that we receive from each other and make certain to express the Hakarot Hatov to one another that is so well-deserved. It is because of our collective efforts and our deep commitment to our students and our school that Kohelet Yeshiva is a warm and nurturing place for our children to learn and grow as students, as individuals, and as Bnei and Bnot Torah. 


Shabbat Shalom,


Mrs. Becky Troodler

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News from Kohelet Yeshiva

Context creates connections. K-1 students started learning about Rosh Hashanah this week by becoming familiar with the Jewish calendar and beginning to understand how the upcoming chag fits within the context of the yearly cycle.

KYHS students enjoyed the first "Lunch and Learn" session of the new school year, as well as the first Thursday night Mishmar of the season this past week!

Mazal tov to Morah Devorah (Judaic Studies Specialist, 2-5 Chumash Curriculum Coordinator) and Rabbi Eliron Levinson on the birth of a baby girl, Avigayil!

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September 9th


Rachel and David Wilensky


In memory of and le'iluy nishmat


Moshe ben Avraham


Dr. Mark Moskowitz


on his 21st Yahrzeit.


Father of Rachel Wilensky and grandfather of Moshe Wilensky, KYMS 7th Grade.


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