Parshat Ki Teitzei
Gratitude is extraordinarily powerful, and it is not simply intended to make the mitzvot we do more meaningful. Research in the field of positive psychology suggests that bringing gratitude into our lives in small, but meaningful ways, increases our joy. When we appreciate things, even mundane things, our happiness increases.
Hakarat Hatov, literally translated as “recognizing the good,” is not only a positive trait, saying “thank you,” showing gratitude, or an important way of living our lives, but it is a directive that we can learn from in examining this week’s parsha, Ki Teitzei.
In Devarim 23:8, it says
“לֹֽא־תְתַעֵ֣ב מִצְרִ֔י כִּי־גֵ֖ר הָיִ֥יתָ בְאַרְצֽוֹ”
“Do not despise the Egyptian, because you were a stranger in his land.”
There appears to be an obvious question that we must ask. After everything that the Egyptians did to us, after they cast our male children into the Nile, forced us to live in slavery, and made our lives absolutely miserable, how could it be that we are being asked not to despise them?
Rashi comments that the reason for this is that the Egyptians provided us with hospitality at a time when we were in need, during the time of the famine when Bnei Yisrael came down to Egypt, and we therefore owe them a debt of gratitude.
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