Written by Rev. Mark Click

“A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, so you also are to love one another. By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another” (John 13:34-35).

The words of Jesus Christ provide a needed light to us, His disciples in an age of so much division, conflict and rage. We live in a very broken world, where wrong is called right, and right is called wrong. People are so confused, looking for hope and direction.

Jesus instructs His disciples to “love one another: just as I have loved you.” The power of unconditional love has the ability to change our broken situation(s). The world chooses to respond to hate with hate and hurt with hurt, but Jesus calls us to change the narrative. We are to respond to hate with love! Yes, it may sound foolish, even ridiculous to you. But, God sending His only Son into the world to DIE for sinners (the ungodly) and for Jesus Christ to lay down His life for those who’d rejected, cursed, and were crucifying Him is the very nature of God.

Yes, we’re called to die to ourselves. Our priorities. Our desires. Our selfish attitudes. We are called to be a reflection of The Light (Jesus) and become a light in a dark world. Don’t be silent in a world of hurt, hate and injustice, but speak up for the right with grace and love and become a voice of love and hope. A light shining in the darkness and then … “By this all people will know that you are my disciples …”

Don’t lose your way, but show others The Way (John 14:6).

Where You Find Great Gratitude You Find Great Generosity

From our Archives - Written by Rev. Lisa Harris-Lee

In Jesus Christ, all things hold together. This is a promise of harmonious interdependence that is echoed throughout the promises of God and the hope of salvation that we are eternally united with God. Humanity and divinity, heaven and earth, visible and invisible, past-present-future, the seen and unseen, the tangible and intangible, personal and communal, mission and stewardship, generosity and gratitude are all held together in Christ.

How do we hold generosity and gratitude together?

By giving with God in mind. Can we tell a story through our giving that ties back to our gratitude to God? Can we create an opportunity through our giving for someone to draw someone closer to God or become a better witness for God? What if these questions became the litmus test of how we give and what we give?

By remembering how generosity and gratitude are woven together in Biblical narratives.

In John 4, the woman at the well generously shared with the people in her village the good news of the Messiah’s presence because she was grateful she had an encounter with Him.

In Mark 14/Luke 7, the forgiven woman generously broke the alabaster jar and anointed the feet of Jesus because she was grateful for His grace.

In Luke 15, the father of the prodigal son generously hosted an extravagant party because he was grateful his son was alive and returned home.

In Luke 17, the man healed of leprosy generously thanked and worshipped Jesus because he was grateful for his healing.

In Luke 19, Zacchaeus generously gave half his possessions because he was grateful Jesus saw him, accepted his hospitality and brought salvation to his home.

In every account, the grateful one and the giver were the same person. There are those who are motivated to give because of the gratitude expressed to them for the gift. The greater generosity is by those who give because of what has been given to them.

In no case did Jesus, demand the expression of generosity. The generosity flowed as response of their gratitude.

How many gospel stories can you identify that join together gratitude and generosity in this way?

How do you say, “Thank you?”

In "Learning the Way – Reclaiming Wisdom from the Earliest Christian Communities," Dr. Cassandra Carkuff Williams (ABHMS Director of Discipleship) offers a powerful story about the connection between gratitude and generosity.

For Valentine’s Day one year, I did a children’s sermon in which I gave each of the children a flower as a reminder of God’s love for them. With wide-eyed smiles, they proudly and carefully carried their little treasures back to their pews. Later, as Sunday school began, one of the adults arrived huffing, “I am so ashamed. Not one of those children said ‘thank you.’” She was late for the adult class, because she had taken time to admonish the children for their oversight. After class, one by one, remorseful children shuffled their way to me to apologize and say, “Thank you for the flower.” No happy saunters. No smiling eyes. My response to each child was, “ I appreciate your words, but I already heard you say thank you. I ‘heard’ it in your smile and in the way you handled your flower.” The children may not have expressed their gratitude in the “right” way but genuine thankfulness had emanated from them. The children’s gratitude had issued from their belief that I had given them flowers simply to show them love – no conditions, no expectations. Once the “should” entered the equation, the authenticity of their celebration was replaced with perfunctory words.

Christian community deals not in obligatory politeness and pretense but in the currency of real gratitude. Gratitude is an earthly, irrepressible, lived response to the love of God freely offered through Jesus. (Learning the Way, p. 98)

Be careful to consider that every expression of generosity you offer could be planting seeds of gratitude that bloom into acts of generosity that far exceed their expression of gratitude to you.

Are our calls to generosity invitations to remember all God does and has done? If your offering appeals are commanding, demanding and guilt-filled they are not invitational. Our calls to generosity are sometimes couched in the language of obligation and duty [should and ought] when they are better positioned in the language of gratitude and invitation [remembrance and come close].

Consider occasions you have been most generous and what inspired or motivated that act of generosity? Were you generous because you were grateful for the generosity poured into your life or were you generous so that someone would list your name among donors, offer a special seat or say, ‘thank you’ to you?

The Rev. Lisa R. Harris-Lee is director of American Baptist Home Mission Societies’ Healing & Transforming Communities unit, and joined the ABHMS staff in September 2008.

Generosity is Counterintuitive

From our Archives - Written by Rev. Steve Bils

As an airplane pilot I spent the majority of the time flying and navigating according to visual flight rules. I could see the horizon so I could fly straight and level. I could see the highways and other landmarks on the ground so I would know where I was and where I was going. However, there were times when darkness or haze obscured the horizon or when distinguishing landmarks was difficult (such as over water). At these times I was still able to fly and navigate safely because I could rely on my charts, my instruments, and the air traffic controllers to tell me where I was and that I was flying true and level.

As a young pilot one of the difficulties that I had to overcome was the natural tendency to trust “the seat of my pants” when it seemed to contradict what my instruments were telling me. Often when my instrument panel told me I was flying straight and level my inner ear made me feel like I was banked one way or the other. If I ignored my instruments and relied on my feelings I would bank in the opposite direction, eventually getting into such a tight diving turn that I would spiral out of control.

In 2 Corinthians 5:7 the Apostle Paul tells us that “we walk by faith, not by sight”. I believe this means that when navigating this life there are times when our spiritual chart and divine controller tell us that we should go one way, but human senses and instincts tell us the exact opposite. For example, “he who would be greatest among you, let him be your servant” directly contradicts the intuitive human wisdom that has many aspiring leaders stepping on their colleagues and kicking them to the curb in their attempt to get to the top of the hill.

One of my favorite definitions of faith is found in the epistle to the Romans where Paul describes Abraham as one who “did not waver at the promise of God through unbelief, but was strengthened in faith . . . being fully convinced that what He had promised He was also able to perform.” (4:20, 21) The Bible records the stories of men and women who, by faith, were certain of many things they could not see, feel, taste, hear or smell. The eleventh chapter of Hebrews is a litany of such heroes of the faith. In spite of the conflicting messages they were receiving from their human senses, by faith they stayed the course charted for them by their God, and “obtained a good testimony” that we are encouraged to follow.

Nowhere is the tension between the divine “chart” and the human senses so strong as in the arena of generosity. Too often the biblical promise, “If you give . . . your gift will return to you in full measure, pressed down, shaken together to make room for more, and running over. Whatever measure you use in giving, large or small, it will be used to measure what is given back to you,” is ignored, and the conventional human wisdom that says “whatever I give away is just that much less for us to use for our needs” becomes the controlling guide. Whether it is an individual or a congregation determining how they are going to use their financial resources, this tension is always present. By faith we know that “he who sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and he who sows bountifully will also reap bountifully” but our “inner ear”, our “seat of the pants,” will attempt to cause us to question its validity and spiral out of control.

Allow me to paraphrase the exhortation that follows the descriptions of the lives navigated by faith in Hebrews, “Having received the testimony of so great a cloud of witnesses, let us join them in running with confidence the course that has been charted out for us, laying aside the sin of unbelief which so easily ensnares us.” We can’t safely walk by sight in a world where the darkness and haze has obscured the true horizon. We must trust our divine instruments and hear our spiritual traffic controller if we hope to successfully finish our course with joy.

As you face questions about your financial stewardship and generosity, meditate on these directions from our “chart.” Notice how they take a divergent path from what “the seat of our pants” might be telling us.

One person gives freely, yet gains even more;

another withholds unduly, but comes to poverty.

A generous person will prosper;

whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.

People curse the one who hoards grain,

but they pray God’s blessing on the one who is willing to sell.

Proverbs 11:24-26

Rev. Steve Bils has served as the Executive Minister of the American Baptist Churches of the Central Pacific Coast (originally ABC of Oregon) since 2009. Prior to moving to Portland, he served as the Associate Executive Minister of ABC of Nebraska, devoting a large portion of his time to his work as the Minister of Mission Support.