Vacca Family Law Group - New York Divorce Attorney

Welcome to the latest edition of the Vacca Family Law Group newsletter.


In this month's newsletter, we explore strategies for divorcing and co-parenting with a narcissist, including tips for how to best communicate (and not communicate) with your ex, how to establish a clear and effective co-parenting plan that puts your children first, and the various professionals you should work with to help you navigate the complexities of your divorce.


Be sure to tune into the latest episodes of

A Better Divorce Podcast for insights from industry experts about navigating divorce more positively, including the various emotional, legal, and financial issues couples face before, during, and after divorce.

~ Andrea Vacca, Collaborative Attorney and Mediator

Strategies for Divorcing and Co-Parenting

with a Narcissist

Divorcing and co-parenting with an ex are difficult enough to navigate on their own, but when dealing with a narcissistic partner, the challenges can be even more overwhelming. The heightened emotions involved, the potential for high-conflict situations, and the manipulative tactics of your ex can leave you feeling confused and exhausted.


However, with a clear plan for how to engage and not engage with your ex and the right divorce team you can get through this in a way that allows you to move forward with your life and prioritize what is best for your children.

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Catch Up on the Latest Episodes of

A Better Divorce Podcast

Why a Former Litigator Wants You to Keep Your Divorce Out of Court with Marcos Fernandez

The Benefits and Challenges of Nesting After Your Divorce

with Dr. Ann Gold Buscho

What Makes a Good Divorce

with Sarah Armstrong

Mediating Pet Disputes in Divorce

with Debra Hamilton

News & Events

Andrea Vacca and Marcos Fernandez Named to the 2023

New York Metro Super Lawyers® and Rising Stars Lists

Vacca Family Law Group is pleased to announce the selection of two attorneys to the New York Metro SuperLawyers list for 2024. Inclusion in the SuperLawyers list is a distinction reserved for the top 5% of attorneys in the New York Metro region.


This year marks Andrea Vacca's tenth consecutive year of inclusion on the list, a reflection of how her deep commitment to her clients and advocacy in the New York legal arena have earned her the continued respect and admiration of her peers.


2024 also marks Marcos Fernandez's second consecutive year as a SuperLawyers Rising Star, a designation reserved for attorneys under the age of 40 who have already demonstrated exceptional skill and promise and their careers. Marcos' dedication to his craft and his clients continues to make a significant impact in the field of non-adversarial family and divorce law.


Join us in congratulating Andrea and Marcos for their outstanding achievements and commitment to providing the highest level of legal services to their clients and dedication to making a positive impact on their lives.

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Andrea Vacca Joins Panel at NYSCDM Fall 2023 Symposium: "Everyone Needs a Prenup"

Andrea Vacca joined a panel at the New York State Council on Divorce Mediation's (NYSCDM) Fall 2023 Symposium entitled "Everyone Needs a Prenup" on September 29.


Andrea addressed several frequently asked prenup questions during the panel, including the difference between how she begins a prenup mediation compared to a mediation for separation/divorce, how and when to raise the issue of review counsel, how to conduct the exchange of financial information, and more.

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Divorce Without Court: A More Peaceful Solution

In Divorce Without Court, Andrea Vacca discusses how and why to keep your divorce out of court. You’ll learn the differences between divorce mediation and collaborative divorce, as well as tips for choosing the right attorney for your unique situation.


Read the book in full on our website or sign up for our five-day eCourse. The eCourse option allows you to receive the eBook in daily installments via email. On the final day of the course, you'll receive a comprehensive checklist to help you prepare for your divorce.


To sign up for your free eCourse, complete the form in the link below and select "Opt-in to Andrea Vacca's No Court Divorce eCourse".

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Andrea Vacca has over 30 years of experience in matrimonial and family law in New York, including collaborative divorce, mediation, prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, financial issues in divorce, and more. Andrea is available to speak to your organization on these and various related topics. Contact us for more information.

A Better Divorce Quote of the Month

"Life is made of ever so many partings welded together."

- Charles Dickens

Want to dissolve your marriage without litigation? We can help.

For over 19 years, Vacca Family Law Group has helped clients to dissolve their marriages without litigation. We focus on finding creative (and sometimes unconventional) solutions that are right for each client’s unique situation to help alleviate stress and facilitate the establishment of a positive path forward throughout the divorce. Our flexible approach allows us to navigate this process with the utmost discretion and elevated service while prioritizing the well-being and long-term goals of our clients and their families.


For more information about how Vacca Family Law Group can help you have the least adversarial divorce possible, contact us to schedule a free introductory call, or you can reach us at (646) 798-4603.

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