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Feel the Learn

WUSD Social-Emotional Learning (SEL) & Inclusion Newsletter

Resources — Information — Support

In this issue:

ACTSion Items:

Calendar of community-building activities

CounSELors Corner:

Bullying prevention

In Step with Second Step:

Resources to reinforce Second Step learning

ACTStended Learning

Resources to learn about events special to our community

SELebrations:

Spotlights on events taking place at our school sites

FAQs:

Answers to questions from our families and community

ACTSion Items

Mark your calendars for these upcoming opportunities for community building, supported by Wiseburn's Achieving a Culture of Togetherness and Support (ACTS) Committee.

  • Wednesday, October 19th: 138th St. Student Council election day


  • Friday, October 21st: Anza Pizza Picnic (5:30-7:00pm)




  • Friday, October 28th: Dana PRIDE assembly recognizing students for showing respect



  • Monday, October 31st: School site parades/celebrations


CounSELors Corner

Topic: Working Together to Prevent Bullying:

Check-in. Speak up. Show Kindness.

Bullying prevention is a community effort. We  can all work together  to prevent it and support anyone who might be involved.

Why it matters: Just like bullying has the potential to result in a stressful environment, supportive behaviors, positive choices, and healthy relationships contribute to an optimal learning environment. Therefore, it is important that we work together to foster a healthy school community. 


The big picture: Bullying often involves people who take on one of four roles:


  1. The person being bullied - recipient of bullying behavior
  2. The person who is bullying - aggressor of bullying behavior
  3. Bystander - Someone who holds knowledge of bullying behavior
  4. Adult who can help - An adult who has the power to effectively intervene


Whereas someone in each of these roles experiences bullying differently, methods of bullying prevention are similar for all students and include social-emotional skills and self-regulation (checking in with your mind and body), advocacy for self or others, and demonstrating kindness.


How you can support: In honor of National Bullying Prevention Month the Wiseburn School Counseling team invites you to team up with Wiseburn educators to help Wiseburn schools feel safe for all students, support bully-free schools, and promote healthy learning environments for students. Four easy ways to align your practices with the schools’ are as follows:


  1. Promote healthy peer relationships
  2. Help students regulate their emotions
  3. Encourage students to speak up
  4. Foster a family norm of healthy communication.
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Zooming in: The Wiseburn team emphasizes the importance of strong relationships among students, educators, and families because a healthy community relates to more positive educational outcomes for students. When students experience bullying, appropriate steps are taken to ensure students are supported, behavior is corrected, students learn and grow from the situation, and students feel safe.


When students experience conflicts, which may or may not necessarily escalate to a level of bullying, developmentally and situationally appropriate steps are taken to help restore ruptured relationships. This might included a conversation about respecting boundaries or working collaboratively on a project with the guidance of a counselor, administrator, or other team member (pictured above). Dana Middle School adds to these restorative practices through "Wellness Wednesdays" in POD and the use of a "Bully Box."

Register for the Virtual Bullying Prevention Family Workshop on October 24th, 6-7 p.m.

In Step with Second Step

All students participate in a social-emotional learning curriculum called Second Step. Second Step helps students recognize when they are having big feelings, regulate their emotions, build self-confidence and advocacy skills, develop healthy social skills, and develop problem solving skills. These lessons also include content related to bullying.


The Second Step lesson schedule is enriched by instruction, activities, and discussion related to topics that promote diversity, equity, and inclusion. Teachers are asked to follow a general schedule, which is reflected in the table below.


You can support your student in these activities! Find details using the button links below the table to plug into your student's lessons and reinforce them at home.

Week

TK-5th

6th-8th

Week of 10/17

Second Step

Unit 1, Lesson 4

Second Step

Unit  Lesson 3

Week of 10/24

Red Ribbon Week,

Healthy Choices Lesson

PRIDE Lesson:

Respect

Week of 10/31

Family Appreciation Lesson

Second Step

Unit 1, Lesson 4

Week of 11/07

Second Step

Unit 1, Lesson 5

Second Step

Unit 1, Lesson 5

Week of 11/14

National Hunger and Homelessness Awareness Month Lesson

Conferences

TK-5th Second Step Lesson Details
6th-8th Second Step Lesson Details Coming Soon!

ACTStended Learning

In this section, find additional resources on diversity, equity, and inclusion, curated by the Achieving a Culture of Togetherness and Support (ACTS) Committee.

October special events calendar
Learn more about each event
Printable 2022-23 calendar

Red Ribbon Campaign | Largest drug-use prevention campaign in the U.S.

Enrique "Kiki" Camarena was a Drug Enforcement Administration Agent who was tortured and killed in Mexico in 1985. In honor of Kiki's memory and his battle against illegal drugs, friends and neighbors began to wear red badges of satin. Parents then began to form coalitions using Camarena as their model while embracing his belief that one person can make a difference.

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Who Are School Psychologists

School psychologists are uniquely qualified members of school teams that support students' ability to learn and teachers' ability to teach. They apply expertise in mental health, learning, and behavior, to help children and youth succeed academically, socially, behaviorally, and emotionally.

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How to Talk to Kids About Poverty

A guide to talking to kids about poverty, homeless, and food insecurity, with expert tips on how to bust the myths, make the conversation age-appropriate, and instill empathy and compassion as well as knowledge of privilege and accessibility. Plus, action steps to help kids make a difference.

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SELebrations

Social-emotional Learning (SEL) takes many forms. Wiseburn school site teams create opportunities for students to develop skills through the exploration of emotions, development of relationships, and navigation through growth opportunities.

Cabrillo Launches Friendship Club

Friendship Club is a school sanctioned inclusion program that promotes friendship and acceptance for students with special needs and their general education peers. Cabrillo's Friendship Club’s first session was a big success! Many parents/caregivers attended, and Dana Middle School helpers were awesome. Alice Davis is the Cabrillo teacher who put it all together, working with Dana Counselor, Megan Engewww.friendshipfoundation.com

Appreciating the Food Services Team

School sites celebrated Food Services staff during National School Lunch Week (10/10-10/14). The National School Lunch Program is a federally-funded program that focuses on providing healthy and affordable lunches for children in the United States. In celebrating NSLW, we highlight the immense contributions and efforts that program operators and foodservice staff have made in making food accessible year-round for these students.

138th St. Builds Community During Recess

138th St. students were presented with the opportunity during recess to complete a pumpkin art project with the counseling team. Students were able to make meaningful connections with each other and participate in non-traditional recess activities.

FAQs

From You

You've asked, we've answered: find FAQs below, and send in questions of your own using the button below!

Who do I reach out to if I have a concern about my student?

Each school site team member has expertise and contributes to students' everyday experiences. It can feel challenging to navigate staff members' different roles, but we are all here to help!

  • A great place to start when you have a concern is by talking with your student's teacher (or POD teacher for middle school). Teachers spend the most time with your student and so it is beneficial to develop a partnership where you discuss strengths, areas of growth, concerns, and strategies. They will also be able to direct you in the right direction to connect with additional team members.
  • Front office staff members commonly help families with attendance records and questions about school site logistics.
  • Counselors, school psychologists, behavior specialists, speech therapists, intervention specialists, and occupational therapists provide support for students when circumstances indicate that students will benefit from support beyond the typical programming that all students receive.
  • Administrators are happy to answer questions and speak with families about concerns should a resolution not be reached through speaking with the teacher or other staff members first or under unique circumstances when going directly to the principal is appropriate.

What should I do if my student does not want to go to school in the morning?

There could be many reasons why your student does not want to go to school in the morning. Common reasons include: fear of failure, problems with other students, anxieties over toileting in a public bathroom, fear of separating from loved ones, a perceived "meanness" of the teacher, a fear of harm, etc. As you address concerns, consider these helpful tips:

  • Understand why they are experiencing big feelings related to school
  • Acknowledge that you understand your child's concerns, but insist on his or her immediate return to school
  • Discuss your child's avoidance with the school staff and partner with the school to work through challenges
  • When appropriate, discuss your concerns with your child's pediatrician
  • If your child stays home, be sure they are safe and comfortable, but do not give them any special treatment
  • Help your child develop independence by encouraging activities with other children outside of home
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