Losing a beloved pet is an emotionally devastating experience. We know as pet care providers and people who adore our own, how painful it is to lose a pet.
I recently lost my beloved Lucie. I am hopeful that in sharing my grief over losing her it might help others who are going through the same sense of loss.
For some pet lovers, losing a pet is like losing a child and a friend all at the same time. Lucie was my baby girl and a best friend to me for an amazing eleven years. I cherished every single moment I had with her. I miss her sitting in the passenger seat of my car. I miss the annoyed look she gave me when our other dog Ruger was bugging her. I miss her seat stealing at the house and the sassy way she ran down the dock to ward off boats and birds. I miss the way she head butted Oliver the cat and all the bunnies she mothered. Most of all, I miss the way she snuggled in bed and helped me to wind down from the day. Three weeks later I still wake up at night reaching out to her for our middle of the night cuddle sessions.
Its hard when we lose a pet because societal norms for grievance do not always apply to the loss of a pet. Sometimes we feel embarrassed about the severity of our heartbreak. We dont take time off to properly grieve. The loss of a pet can leave significant voids in our lives and daily schedules. Our sense of purpose can be taken away. This is why in addition to emotional pain we can feel aimless, lost and lonely.
It is imperative in the process of healing that we share our feelings with others that have lost a beloved pet and support those that are experiencing a loss. There is a community of people that can relate and be helpful. We as pet lovers are always here for you. In addition to talking to friends and family I found resources listed below to be helpful. I also found memorializing Lucie with pictures in my bedroom to be helpful. I know that with each passing day the pain will get less. I know that we had an amazing long life together and that I will continue to celebrate Lucie through helping and loving all of your kids when they come in.
Pet Loss Resource Center
Pet Loss Grief Support Community Resources at Rainbow Bridge (rainbowsbridge.com)
Petloss, Chat Room, Rainbow Bridge, rainbowbridge, Candle Ceremony
Pet Loss Grief Resource | Best Friends Animal Society
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