Left: Photo of Sheila and her sister as children
Right: Photo of CATT Champion Sheila
Photos courtesy of CATT Champion Sheila
CATT Champion Sheila
Last May I received the call everyone fears. My niece called to tell me that my sister had died in her sleep. She had been working in the yard all day and was feeling sore. She was seeking relief and didn’t know the opiate she was taking contained fentanyl, a drug that can kill with just a small amount. Although my sister had a history of opiate abuse, she had been doing well at the time of her death.
My sister’s story of addiction goes back 20 years. Like many people, her struggle with opioids began following an injury. As her substance use progressed, I found myself doing what many family members do: I set boundaries and eventually became distant from her. Over the last couple of years, my sister had a period of recovery and I started reconnecting with her. It was such a relief to see her doing better. Her overdose was a shock to everyone. Her new grandbaby was due in June; she was so excited about being a grandma.
It’s hard to know how to support a family member who uses substances. I think there is still a lot of stigma and shame, and resources for the family are difficult to find. I’m glad the CATT will provide support to not just the clients but family members as well. Looking back, I wish more services had been available to my family, so we knew how to better support my sister.
If you have a loved one who uses substances, talk to them about their use. Provide them information, help them get to services when they are ready, keep a line of communication open. Make sure there is Narcan available. As a supervisor in Community Corrections, I have worked with people who struggle with substance use for nearly 30 years, and I lost my sister to an opioid overdose. If it can happen to me, it can happen to you.
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