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Advent is a decision. We are free to invite the spirit of Advent into our hearts and our homes, the spirit of anticipation, joy, hope and ultimately conversion.
We also have the choice to overlook this spirit and immerse ourselves in the outward signs of the season which include decorating, shopping, gift-giving and preparing elaborate meals. Living through many Advents I know firsthand how the latter can sometimes unintentionally overshadow the former.
The spiritual and the worldly traditions of this season can co-exist quite well. The trick is finding balance. The Elf on the Shelf, Santa Claus and all the practices that have come to surround our celebration of Christmas are good. They promote relationships with family and friends, accountability for behavior and giving and caring for each other. Because so many of the preparations for Christmas are time-consuming and at times stressful the spiritual connection we seek in a specific way at this time of year can take a back seat unless we make a concerted effort to pursue it. This is particularly true for women who most often assume the responsibilities of Christmas.
Ultimately this season is about the wonder of God, through the birth of Jesus, coming to be among us. God gave us Jesus, not as the mighty savior and king so many expected but as a mere child, a vulnerable baby born into a regular family. Knowing this how do we navigate the anticipation and the celebration of the memorial of the birth of this child?
In addition, how do we embrace the joy and hope Advent offers when the world seems so full of violence and suffering? Simple as it sounds maybe the answer is to continue to listen to and act in our sphere of influence on all Jesus taught. We know who he came to be and what he offered the world. We can decide to follow more clearly, or not. It will take time, patience, quiet, and an honest heart in conversation with God to find our way of living this time of Advent. Will it be a time of joyful anticipation, quiet moments of prayer or too many trips to Home Goods and the mall?
In today’s gospel Jesus asks his disciples, “Be watchful! Be alert!” He is reminding them to be ready. Let us watch and be alert this Advent to those things that lead us to celebrate what God is giving us.
Advent does not change. It is the same every year. We, however, have the freedom and opportunity to change, to approach Advent differently each year. Maybe this is a year of change.
Peace,
Anne
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